How the hell does one catch up on female socialization anyway?

how the hell does one catch up on female socialization anyway?
unless you are in education or your work has a lot of women, it seems fucking unreal to me.
just getting friends of any gender as an adult has been hard enough, much less cis female ones.

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Most women won’t help socialize you. Most cis females don’t like to be around trannies. You don’t have anything to offer the cis women’s experience in exchange so why should we care to do it?

>women won’t help socialize you
it's not a thing you actively do user

for fucks sake just join some theater group

Meaning we won’t really interact with you, much less hang out with you and just be women together so you can learn the ropes. Social behavior is transactional and you have no social capital to offer in the womensphere.

Why would you want to hang out around foids?

i don't wanna
if guys will fuck me that's fine. most trans women are all just as malebrained as me so i am friends with them. i just want cock, who cares about AFAB tears?

You're a man. Accept it.

Female socialisation happens in your childhood/adolescence, it's an upwards battle for you user but don't give up

As harsh as it is user, the foids are right. You do not inherently have anything to offer those who don't know you. And I'm sure you are an alright person with something to offer.

But the user saying join a theater group has the right idea. Getting out there and taking part in activities WILL put you in positions to socialize with new people all some of them will be women.

And maybe you'll make friends!

Pick something that suits you, doesn't have to be theater. Could even be something a little nerdier if that's your thing, a lot more girls into D&D these days.

But you gotta get out there and start meeting people as yourself and making friends.

You'll get "Female socialization" when you make some friends who are women and treat them normal.

It's harsh but it's just how it is. Trans men have just as much trouble really getting entrenched into masculine spaces.

But more importantly than trying to get female socialisation. The goal should just be to make friends and do new things and if you don't act like a creep, likely you'll make friends with women. The bar for them is higher because the stakes are higher so just be cool and do your best and most importantly listen to people.

the only female friend i had was my coworker, back when i still worked, but she reacted really badly to my transition.
>and if you don't act like a creep
do you really have to bring this up... jesus, I already have a partner... I already feel like a creep, imposter etc. everytime I'm around people. this isn't a thread about that...

female socialization is basically learning your place in the hierarchy by either getting bullied in high school or having sex in high school. and your adult life is just a rehash of that but with disposable income. if you aren't sexy and likable to women now, you will probably never be

t. cis woman

Well, to me it’s kind of creepy to ‘get women friends to get female socialized’, that’s a very male-brained ‘give me something’ mindset. No one said ‘creepy as in trying to hook up’.
Answer this: ‘What are 5 quantifiable reasons a woman would benefit from hanging out with and developing a friendship with me’. If you can’t pretty easily, well…why would they?

idk i think trans women r not seen as real threat in competition for desirable hetero males and as such treated as gay friends, which sounds good

You're both a couple losers the first thing you need to realize is that the only good tranny is one that you can't recognize. Which means that women aren't going to know that they're dealing with somebody different than them. The next thing you need to realize is that if you're really transsexual you know it when you're a child and you start becoming like a female by the time you're 8 years old. These late bloomers said post on here aren't really female

oh, i thought it's pretty obvious that the end goal of said female socialization is just to like... have friends, nothing creepy or demanding about that isn't it? everybody needs friends.
>ask yourself if you deserve friends
that's a very odd thing to ask, everybody deserves friends.

Because for some of us they are the same sex

extremely malebrained, even incelbrained, post

You need to be a friend to have a friend.

Dunno pal, I’m not the one having trouble making friends. I try to keep a balance with my friends and make a solid effort to be a good friend to them and I’ve learned to ditch people that I feel just want something but never have much to offer - ie selfish, self-centered people.

games with alo of female players and featurs that would especially attract a parger fem audience vs other bigger games

there are no such online games except for maybe second life and that's not really a game and that shit looks awful.
i have tried finding cis het female friends in the sims twitter community, but there are so many mtfs, enbies and queers, might as well go to my lgbt support group and socialize with theyfabs.