I had sex with a grown man when I was 16

I had sex with a grown man when I was 16.
Was I groomed? I still feel gross about it.

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yes he was a pedophile
get therapy

Grooming =/= when you're raped
There is a specific type of relationship that would imply grooming where he would've tried to gain your trust and garner some rapport before trying to exploit you, but it wouldn't necessarily be needed if you're already of legal age, unless you're like mentally handicapped.
You could have been raped depending on the situation, but you're not giving any details. 16 is the AoC is many places so it's not unthinkable that he didn't rape you but it's very possible that he did. If you just mean if it's legally rape then obviously you know the AoC and we don't.

The legal age of consent in Britain is 16.

Depends, are you American? Then the answer is yes. You were raped by a pedophile.

Are you European or South American? Lolno, that's literally how everyone loses their virginity.

>I'm british so I think raping kids is fine

I hope your little baby island gets nuked off the planet idiot

if he was older than 19, yes

How old was he?

In his 30's.

Oh yikes
Well there's no point in really asking if you were 'really' groomed at this point, I hope you can make peace with what happened user

actually if user is british it wasnt rape

I'm not from Europe.

>I had sex with a grown man when I was 16.
so did more than 50% of the females I knew growing up
throw in global 3rd world hellholes and its arbitrary
I know you want to pretend to be women
but just because they can fake lacking agency doesnt mean you can

What? Can you say anything without being annoyingly condescending?

girls be fucking men as teenagers
its pretty standard
its not some traumatic event

take some responsibility
let me put it this way
>harvey weinstein attempts to rape me at 16
>he gets his nose busted, black eye, and severe bruising if not broken bones
>certainly criminal charges/maybe even one of us dies if there are blunt or sharp objects in the room
vs
>harvey weinstein "rapes" (insert actress here)
>she gets millions of dollars, good film roles
>then later cries about him "raping" her for more attention after he's useless to her

grooming is a spook just to alleviate guilt or engender sympathy
take some fucking credit and responsibility for your actions

You are gross, seriously.
Do something other than talk big on Any Forums.

grooming isnt real
its just another plea for victimization past tense

like how fat people want to sue burger king for making them fat
you werent groomed by advertisement
you wanted a burger and you got it

burger king employees didnt hold you down with a knife to your throat and demand you eat whoppers until they were satisfied
take some responsibility

unless youre talking about how predatory and disgusting the gay community is with old men preying on young boys like serial killers
if thats the case I agree
but even then
they had a choice. its not some dickensian nightmare where you will have to fuck some guy for rent money.
you needed rent money. so you fucked some old guy. take the L.
dont blame them. they paid for it.

how did this happen in the first place
in lots of states in the USA 16 is the legal age, same across the world

ITT: Pedophiles try to justify how sexually abusing minors isn't wrong or bad

Stop comparing apples and oranges.
Sexual exploitation is sexual exploitation, regardless of what circumstance it is under.

>some 15 year old sucked off some 45 year old guy off grindr and this is somehow exploitation
nah just accept responsibility
did you have a gun to your head?
did you file criminal charges?

then like all false rape allegations or attention seeking bullshit its just a cry for IM A VICTIM
I DIDNT KNOW SUCKING OFF THIS DUDE WAS WRONG BUT HE BOUGHT ME AN IPHONE SO I DIDNT KNOW AT THE TIME

youre all males here
truthfully I dont believe those kids that fuck teachers should have any legal reprecussions
some fucking teacher fucks a 13 year old MALE?
who cares. no crime occurred.
females cant groom males.
in fact. grooming in itself just means
>Im a retard and people took advantage of me
with zero agency or responsibility
no female teacher that gets pregnant by some spic 15 year old should be prosecuted.

go back to Any Forums or the farms or wherever you usually post at

No you were not groomed. This is because (1) 16 is old enough and (2) you accepted it. It isn't rape unless he physically forces you into it.

faggots really do want to be treated as women huh?
listen. no one believes any of it.
look at deshaun watson.
you will have to google that Im sure.

A child can not consent. If you are arguing that people should be allowed to fuck children because the child said it's okay you are a pedophile. Go to fucking therapy and get that right wing bullshit out of here