If I date cis gay guys, I compare myself even if they're gay and like me despite it. If I date bi guys, I feel like they're just bipedos that won't like me anymore once I can grow proper facial hair. If I date other ftms, I compare myself x1000 despite wanting to be t4t, because fuck, it hurts to be mogged by another trans guy.
Can't fucking date without hating myself
Evan Smith
Jordan Russell
And yeah, I've tried st4t(based etc) but despite it being the perfect dynamic I'm too much of a cocksucker to date a trans girl longterm. My last relationship ended because I just couldn't do that, I see her as a girl too much.
Benjamin Howard
As a cis bi guy who flips between a beard and clean shaven I find the facial hair thing interesting. When I was a little twinky girly boy who looked about 12 years old even into my late 20s, men overwhelmingly preferred me clean shaven (though women seemed to like the beard). Now that my baby fat has melted off and I'm more chiseled and masc, most men within 10 years of me overwhelmingly prefer me with a beard, though MUCH older men prefer clean shaven. Is it a bipedo thing? It kinda sounds that way now that I typed all that out. I'm fine with that. If an older man gets his rocks off over the age gap I'm happy to play the part. I've dated much younger women and found the age gap titillating.
I have a really outstanding beard though, my brother has a shitty rat face beard and as soon as he grows facial hair the unanimous feedback he gets is to shave that shit off.
The thing about beards is that if you can't grow a good one you just shouldn't.
Anyway enough about me, why do you have such a bug up your ass with dating a bipedo? Like do you find it morally objectionable or does it give you dysphoria or what?
Justin Bell
I can’t help but notice that in all of these scenarios the common denominator is that you are literally very self-centered and much more interested in comparing yourself to X than in focusing outwardly on a relationship dynamic. I think you are just too self-centered, period - and it’s inhibiting you from making any progress into forming any kind of meaningful relationship at all.
Austin Barnes
tumblr is so insufferable and tiresome
>If I date bi guys, I feel like they're just bipedos that won't like me anymore once I can grow proper facial hair.
can confirm, as a bipedo. I'm interested in many ftms but lose interest once they grow any facial hair. I really like ftms and like talking to them but I'm not attracted to particular masculine features like those. just certain androgynous ones
Evan Lee
you're basically a straight woman lol
Isaac Perez
lol at OP pic. cis women, theyfabs, and even some trans women are now saying that men who go to therapy are evil because they weaponize the skills they learn from therapy. I am not joking.
Lincoln King
not OP but can relate, how is it self-centered? if i ever tried to be with a gay men i'd just feel like a disappointment to him and he'd be better off with a cis man that actually has a dick. i don't get the bipedo thing though, just date a bi that's not pure GAMP. that's my plan, anyway
Ryder Martin
Dating bi men makes me feel like I'm being seen as a woman, which I don't really like
John Brown
I wish.