My therapist is trying to get me to join trans social groups in my area. He also sent me a packet full of information about transition.
So he clearly thinks I'm trans. You all think I'm trans. I seem to be the only one who disagrees :(
So what now? Its starting to seem like my only choices are to try to force myself to stop thinking about it or to jump headfirst into transition despite being cis and against the wishes of my current social groups.
So let me ask you: why are you in therapy in the first place? If you're not trans, how do you actually feel?
current therapy culture pushes towards reassurance and affirming gender dysphoria. if you dont like this find a different therapist
The idea that I might be trans is very scary and anxiety inducing.
I specifically went for one more likely to do this sort of thing, so that he wouldn't just tell me what I want to hear.
it's bc you look like nia dude, obviously
did you get a euphoria boner when he gave you the leaflet and forcefemmed you?
Are you one of them homos that dress like women? Why would everyone think you're a tranny?
How did your therapist change his mind? Also you don't have to troon out if you don't want to but damn I'll be lying if it's not alluring
Take your pills, Alice.
I've helped a lot of people with transition and question OP do you want to chat?
Kek, if I looked like Nia there'd be no point transitioning, I'd already be post-transition by default.
No, I panicked.
>Are you one of them homos that dress like women?
Not normally, no. I recently started doing it a bit when I'm home alone, at the suggestion of my therapist.
>How did your therapist change his mind?
I don't think he changed his mind, per se. He seemed to be leaning that direction from the get go, but somehow his beliefs were cemented last session. Not sure how.
My name's not Alice...
Have we spoken before? I feel like we might have.
>Not normally, no. I recently started doing it a bit when I'm home alone, at the suggestion of my therapist.
WHAT? They tell you to do that? Why? Do they ask about it then after or something?
not op but can i talk regardless
>at the suggestion of my therapist
this guy is a straight up groomer abort abort abort
Makes sense to me. Exploring femininity and all that.
ofc what's your discord?
Get a new therapist, this environment is toxic and not a good environment for you. You are ACTUALLY being groomed.
Get the fuck out before it ruins you mentally and socially.
no dude, it sounds to me like he wants you to do that so he can push you in the direction of transitioning. you're saying you never crossdressed before your therapist suggested it?
I'm quite certain I'm not being groomed, rest easy. What do you really expect to be suggested to you when you tell the therapist that you want to be a girl but are scared of being trans?
>I'm quite certain I'm not being groomed
>t. nigga that got groomed
also sissy hypno
don't argue with idiots.. they think anyone who suggests this lifestyle is a groomer
There was a week or 2 when I was 15-16 where I was 'borrowing' some clothes from a female family member. I got scared of getting caught and stopped. I hadn't really considered it since.
>also sissy hypno
sissy hypno is lame. Though stories of people succumbing to it can be fun to read.
'borrowing' as in literally borrowing or masturbating in? also i am curious what the idea of "being a girl" means and entails to you
I didn't masturbate in them. I pretty just wore them for a few hours a day. It didn't really do anything for me sexually. 'borrowing' as in 'taking without permission or the person being aware.'
>also i am curious what the idea of "being a girl" means and entails to you
That's a very good point, though one I've considered before. I don't actually know what I mean when I say that.
Eh, they think they are trying to help.
Does all of your hesitation involving transitioning come from fear of society's reaction?
A decent portion of it, at least.
You’re a fucking retard bro. I can’t wait to see your life become a train wreck. You’re an attention whore so I’m sure it’ll be entertaining
While experiences aren't all the same, I know a few trans women who were hesitant for that exact reason. He is probably trying to get you to talk to trans people so they can share their experiences with you.
>I can’t wait to see your life become a train wreck.
You're probably right that this will happen :\
did it do anything for you at all? what prompted you to do that in the first place?
>I don't actually know what I mean when I say that
you must want something that you don't have. i'm not going to argue ontology or biology with you, whether it's possible to "become a woman" in the sense a tranny means, but you must have some desire you're trying to express with the phrase "i want to be a girl"