Why did you or why do you want to detrans user?
What advice do you wanna give to those seeking a way out of being trans?
Detrans General
Out all the haircuts he could get, why that one?
I wouldn't consider me as "detrans", because I never transitioned per se but I tried to make people call me the opposite gender. Failed miserably hence I publicly don't call myself a tranner anymore. Here's some context:
>Be me, 2019
>"Cis girl" wanting to experiment with "her" gender
>Be from South America
>Have a boyfriend at the time, tell him I thought I was non binary
>Boyfriend tells me he'd punch me if I transition
>Keep quiet and never talk about it again. Repmaxxer.
>Break up with this guy after a while
>2022
>Meet american cisguy online
>Have huge crush on him
>Tell him I'm a "non binary transmasc" when in reality I meant ftm.
>Le i'm tecnically not a guy.
>He asks me what's all that. I explain it to him.
>He understands and accepts me. Tells me he'd only call me with neutral pronouns because "it's too difficult for him since I don't look like a guy"
>That's ok. I know I literally look like a female
>I mention medical transitioning.
>Suddenly he starts being cold and distant
>Have big discussion, the thought of me going on T and having a masectomy was exactly the problem
>I forgive him, we date a while after that
>A few months later I tell him I rather be called a she.
>He starts calling me his girlfriend and girl related things, sometimes it feels nice, sometimes not.
>Have one of the happiest relationships in my life. He's really kind and loving, and really handsome too.
Bonus other factors that made me "detrans" (I'm just a repper "who changed his mind" when asked about it):
>Extremely religious environment
>Digital selfharmer. Lurk on TERF boards occasionally.
>Can't access medical transitioning.
>Don't want to get hatecrimed
>Don't want to look like a short pooner with a femenine frame
TL;DR: I'm not an actual detranner, just a pussy who is too scared of change and his country's view on troons.
Being a man is hell, honestly you don't really sound transgender at all i dont know why thh fuck you posted here, no mention of dysphoria is a big red flag
You should only transition if it's literally fucking killing you inside not to. Being transgender is absolutely fucking horrible
Be happy you get to be a cis women
stop dating straight men if you want to transition. it’s not that hard.
damn, killed your transition for dick huh
doormat, just being waht your boyfriend wants. typical woman
Nice impression of a cis female trender girl who wants to transition for attention but is to much of a dick obsessed foid with absolutely no male qualities and absolutely no desire to be masculine whatsoever who is so utterly cis female that she gave up before even trying. And still trying to claim detrans status for clout
9/10 very good job
>Be happy you get to be a cis women
>Being a man is hell
We think the complete opposite. I wish I was half of the man I wish to be.
I think when I mentioned I'm a repper it implied me having gender dysphoria.
Yeah, as if I didn't have other financial and social problems that I mentioned after. Unlike you americans, it's harder to be queer on the third world. I know I made it sound like they were the only reason I'm not doing it but it's deeper than that. I also didn't feel like writing more details about my depressing life.
>assuming i’m american
i know more than you think about boundaries and barriers, but you deserve to have a shot at a happy and full life. try to see your way there for your own sake.
>t. former repper
Says she's trans, doesn't elaborate on dysphoria, admits to only attempt of presenting as the opposite gender is asking her boyfriends to use male pronouns out of the blue, gives massive spiel about how she submitted ti what her boyfriends want and is currently in a happy relationship with a big strong caring man that treats her as his girlfriend and is now "repressing" happily, basically tells everyone else to "check there privilege" as she is poor and has social problems and being trans is to difficult
The average trans"""masc""" everyone
Hypothetically speaking- let’s say I wanna try coming off estrogen.
How can I safely try this without spiking my t levels?
Get an orchi and/or run AAs still
Being on no sex hormone is a bad af idea though you probably need to be on a little bit of E
>Aka timewaster.
So true.
Are you ftm or mtf? I'm curious. Thanks user.
What do you want me to do about it? Change my country's situation?
If you wanted me so bad to talk about my dysphoria I'll gladly do so. I started feeling dysphoric when I hit purberty and others started treating me more like a girl than a child. I hated seeing how my chest was developing faster than other girls my age, and I hate the way it looks like now. Wearing dresses and involving on typical female activities makes me feel awkward, like I was doing the chores that were assigned to other person. This is the same with looking at myself at the mirror and hearing my voice. I know I'll never pass. I'm 5'0. Everything I have is something I despise on myself.
I understand everyone having a problem with my boyfriend situation kek, I won't excuse myself for that. Yes, I know it's very fembrained of me but I love approval, like a typical female.
Well the thing is actually not all Renee right now. I just currently do ~8mg of cypionate.
Do you know of a good method to do basically what I’m talking about?
Like take Bica for a month or so while coming off? I just wanna keep my levels from spiking while trying to come off.
ftm is not valid whatsoever
it's just special snowflake not like the other girls girls
you act think and type like a woman
you are not a he
You've seen his hairline right? That forehead needs bangs
*she, fixed that for you
i failed at transitioning
i cant pass because my height, shoulders, and esp rib cage/waist are too wide and male, even after surgery
im awful at makeup and my skin is old and dry and cakey
im terrible at doing my hair and keeping it healthy, its always so dry and shitty even though i constantly get complimented on it being nice and this isnt a flex i legit dont understand hair
but yeah mostly my size and being too malebrained and bad at being a girl and now im old so add another reason
i wont quit HRT though its the best thing that has ever happened to my terrible life, but social detransition after i get FFS next month probably and just manmode it's w/e at least my dysphoria isnt AS bad
Nta but I also feel like romantic love can help some people rep, and the other anons are just seething about that fact. I'm also a neverpasser, I lowdose testosterone to feel less depressed though, so maybe you should try that. I remember my best relationship was with an ftm, the love helped me repress better and I could also live vicariously through him, I actually seriously considered going off testosterone entirely (he was straight) although I never did.