More and more people I know are getting married and having kids...

More and more people I know are getting married and having kids. Is there any hope to live a more normal life as a trans woman?

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i just want to have a cute life with a girl that i can care for and then between 3 and 5 kids either by surrogacy with my partner or adoption

Consider giving this article a read. You're not generally going to be happier being a parent, unless you live in countries that actually have structures in place to support you as a new parent. If you're an American, having a child is a fucking miserable chore as you are still expected to work even after having a kid.

theatlantic.com/family/archive/2021/11/does-having-kids-make-you-happy/620576/

That's what I want too. I want to marry my gf and I've been told I go off hormones for a while I can still get her pregnant. I thought it might be nice, but I'm overwhelmed with the idea that it would make her life and the life of the kids much harder because of me.
That is definitely a concern. Thankfully I come from a rich family and she comes from a massive family so in theory we'd get a ton of help. The biggest issue is that I'm trans and her family lives in another state.

I've known a number of passoids that got married so there's hope if you're pretty lol

Yeah you could marry and have kids by adoption or surrogacy?

But no! Wait you'd rather just sleep with married bottoms and then complain about the chaser menace coming to suck your penis. Oh well, guess I'll marry a cissy then.

Well, that wasn't my plan. My plan was to pregante a cis girl and have a family. I just wanted some reassurance that we can live a relatively normal life too.

find a man and adopt a child

Im hoping that at some point in my 30s or 40s I meet an infertile cis man and we marry and adopt a kid and live a totally normal happy life in the countryside

That sounds nice. I thought about that too, that if my current relationship doesn't work out I could wait till my late 30s and early 40s to find either a divorced man or a defeated man to get with. I picture us both being broken and repairing ourselves together.

What do tranners think of the idea of getting an egg donor from a XX family member and having their chaser ejaculate into the test tube and then putting the zygote in a uterus for hire? The child would pretty much look like your biological child in that case

>have multiple cisters
>all of them have successful dating lives and never shut up about their bfs
>mfw 26 yo kv

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My sister offered that for me, but I'm still not sure.
That sounds miserable. 26 is pretty young still though so I believe in you.

this is my plan, but my sisters talk about getting their tubes tied. i don't have the heart to say hey would you mind like waiting until i decide whether i'm going to kill myself or not.

an aunt that is also the real mother of your child sounds like a rough dynamic to be stuck with. I also hate the idea of just using women’s bodies to have some kid who isn’t even mine just to play mother, it feels weird.

i just want an ftm husband and decent sized garden is that too much to ask??

Working towards good long lasting friendships, finding an empathetic guy by volunteering and adopting kids or becoming a foster parent is my plan.

yooou're not thinking straight.

That's a good plan.

If you didn't transition you would have had a normal life, now you're just resigned to an ugly bisexual partner.

No, but not becauze you’re trans but because you’re on Any Forums.

No I wouldn't have. Making a life as a repressor is just asking for it to fall apart later and hurting everyone involved. Having a bisexual partner is great as long as it can be a nice life.

being a repressor is a great way to make anything you achieve in life seem meaningless and empty

Aint that the truth. I've tried to get away, but I've been here for 18 years, it's hard to give that up when it's clearly a part of me.