>date a guy from 2013-2017
>he breaks up with me because I'm an abusive BPDemon
>I send him a message yesterday saying that I want to date again and that I've mellowed since then, undergone therapy and taken meds and etc
>he says that he would like to be friends for a few months to make sure I've really changed before dating me again
Date a guy from 2013-2017
Congrats you BPDemon
Don't fuck it up this time
giwtwm
i did all those things and im still a bpd hurricane of emotions
so phase 1 of the revenge scheme is going according to plan?
I won't, but... I don't want to wait... I want to date him nowwwwwwww
Huh???
>bpdemon I have the hots for won't even let me date her
it's over
Oh holy shit I hope he runs
and leaves you with emptiness
chances are youre too boring for her/too healthy
yeah I have a stable position, I'm older, and I don't have any mental illness :/
I really like her though and it genuinely sucks.
Trannies
this is scarily like my experience, but i was the guy and the BPD was paired with heroin
you didnt change did you lol
>people with bpd trying shamelessly to get back with their exes
yeah idk probably just a coincidence.
>I send him a message yesterday saying that I want to date again
You... just did this out of nowhere?
>coincidence
i feel kinda ruined by it. that was my only real relationship and it ended over four years ago. i still think about contacting *her* and i don't know what to do. letting myself act on my attraction to new people would definitely change how i feel for the better if it goes right but it feels like i shouldn't knowingly play roulette like that. idk, normal people don't overthink relationships like this, they just do what feels good. mmh
Yeah
Just keep your cool. I would love to forgive my bpd demon under those same circumstances
Chances are she’s a retard
Become friends, it's up to him if you date again so just do your best.
God I hope you update us with him denying you and not wanting to be with you. This guy is a fucking retard if he actually wants to date you again lol.
I befriended all of my gfs before getting to it.
t.average edater