whats ur relationship with your parents like?
Whats ur relationship with your parents like?
not good
none
okay albeit a little distant at times
not existent
"If you act like a girl, then you're going to be treated like a girl."
OMG, I wish. No, they're a couple of conservative boomers who are happy that I am succeeding in school. They saw my Calculus notes and were in utter shock. They stopped doing math when the alphabet was introduced to the equations. I live for success now, not happiness.
Mom hates my guts, step-dad is indifferent and my bio-dad is supportive and helps me with bills when I need it.
not great
I just want my dad to love me, just about more then anything. but i doubt its ever gonna happen after being disowned
extremely bad and very scary
great
they don't know a thing.
I don't want to disappoint them
t.repper
completely non-existent now
good
they really dont care about i loving to suck dick and being fucked by men, they have other 4 sons anyway and some grandchildren
but they arent big fans of me being a tranny
It's good
My dad and I spent some time the other day making sausages together
my dad cares about me and supports me
he was very receptive to me telling him about my gender dysphoria
he doesnt really talk about it with me and still uses he for me, but im permaboymode so its kinda the ideal. hes the only person (other than doctors) im out to
i dont really talk to my mom, we meet up once or twice a year for holiday "yay family" get togethers but don't interact otherwise.
pretty good I think
Sort of very good atm. Except one of my parents is extremely transphobic and wants trans ppl do die but doesn't notice any effects of my HRT so they just think I look "underaged". Meanwhile the other parent noticed it in the first month and has been really supportive. I feel like I'm in a sitcom sometimes
it's weird tbhon
they both know i have gender dysphoria but they think i'm still repressing. dad didn't want me to transition and i never spoke to mom about it at all. i wound up feeling ashamed and going back to repressing after a bad coming out.
idk it's weird because my dad doesn't hate me or anything, he just always disapproved of transitioning and thinks he's doing the right thing telling me i shouldn't. neither of my parents know i've been on hrt for 3 months now, and idk what's gonna happen when they find out.
honestly i'd rather move out before that happens but it probably won't happen until the start of next year.
the prodigal first son of the first son of the first son of the first son etc. trooped out and gets creampied by men bigger than me. long story short i don’t talk to my dad or his side of the family.
Oooh what were you a prodigy of LB? But at least now ur a prodigy of passing amongst ppl who start at 19 :)
i was 20.5. and when u say prodigy i just mean like i was the next in the patriarchal hierarchy of my fathers family.
god it's fucking abysmal. i tried coming out to them when i was 13 and it went poorly so i went right back into the closet. as i got older, my parents divorced and i began to see how they are both insane cluster B alcoholics. my relationship with my dad has been significantly better than with my mom. i cut my mom off a few years ago while my dad was in a revolving door of different rehab centers. this past summer was me boymoding at my dad's house and he was sober the entire time. it was nice. then he relapsed super hard last week and had a psychotic episode and almost killed my siblings and his fiance. then sometime in the last few days he texted my mom telling her that he found my makeup after i moved out. i don't know why he's even talking to her, let alone telling her shit like that. he knows i don't have a relationship with her, he just can't help but stir the pot when he's drunk, like a compulsive need to start shit with my mom.
all of this to say uh, its bad. i guess it could be worse. my grandma on my moms side still loves me and hates my mom, so i got her at least.
I came out to them as bi when I was 15 and they laughed at me and told me that wasn't a real thing. One time I "joked" about wanting to be a girl and my dad very sternly told me no.
I see them once a year at Christmas and they all spout really weird racist shit, like how the British Empire was right for causing famines in India because they were a bunch of savages who couldn't govern themselves anyway.
I'm trooning in my late 20s now and I'm just not going to tell them. Might ghost when and if I start manfailing.
My mom loves me and I love her more than the world, my dad loves me and I love him but he's going through a really bad midlife crisis
this is what happened to me. it just got worse and worse. I moved out and transitioned. there was never a big falling out moment, but we don’t talk anymore. it would be so awkward after everything that’s happened.