How do I convince a guy to bulk

I've been going on a few dates with this dude and we get along really really well, we have so many similar interests and can talk for hours, there's only 1 problem:
He's skinny as fuck
Size difference is like the most important thing to me when it comes to attraction and I'm just.. not attracted to him because he's the same size as me
How do I get him to put on weight and bulk up

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gonna be some effort and doubt he will do that for some random chick he had a few dates with

He deserves better than you.

Are you braindead? Genuinely asking, did your caretaker write this post or sth?

It takes time and he has to actually want it but most guys do they just aren't motivated
So be the motivator and you'll both get what you want unless he doesn't want to in which case oh well better luck next time
t. reformed my bf from a twig to my himbo ideal over years

Speaking as a cis guy I’ve always wanted to get fucking huge, but I just don’t have the motivation to. I probably could if I was dating someone that encouraged me to do so, as I’d love to make myself the perfect partner for someone I’m interested in. Could be much the same situation for him, just ask him if he’s ever thought about working out.

"Please help me manipulate a potential partner." No.

Just cook for him

This image is so fucking hot to me holy shit

Putting on serious muscle mass (as in a double digit percent weight gain) requires either steroids or overeating + very heavy lifting for a very long time, like years, and looks great until you stop lifting due to lifestyle changes (had a kid, got an injury, etc), at which point you will look like absolute shit, dadbod tier, and there's no going back to being slim at that point

Basically you are asking this guy to ruin his body for a temporary kink, and you should probably fuck off and find a roid raging manlet if you need that kind of body

Shit man, why do you have to demotivate me like that? I’m just tired of being thin…

You can look strong and fit without looking like a cartoon character, unless you have a really weird skeleton putting on 7 or 8 pounds of muscle mass in the right places will look like a big change because it also changes how you carry yourself and how your clothes drape on your frame

Also note I said muscle mass not weight, if you're bulking up, you could be gaining 12 pounds in weight but a significant part of that is increased water retention and some fat as well from the calorie surplus. Obviously this also depends on your starting weight

is this loss6

slip the topic of fitness into a conversation at some point

like this user said, most guys want to get dench but lack motivation. plus they're right in that they really do have to want it. maybe you can be fitness buddies if it all works out and help motivate one another.

The amount of guys on this shitty board who are.
Overweight, small dicked, hairy, dicks are caked in ugly pubic hair, dont take effort in themselves.
Yet you found a guy you like but are being difficult because he isnt as muscular as you want?

I'm only into muscular hairless guys so trust me I know about being picky. If you get on and everything else clicks then just be up front and tell him

accept him as he is or dump him
if he doesn't wanna bulk you can't make him
don't be a nigger

It's funny how you manage to make anything a guy does sound bad
>don't work out? ugh fix yourself your dick is caked in pubes
>shaved your pubes? fucking faggot just take your pills already you troon
>don't weigh 400 pounds? I want a man not a 12 year old boy, fuck off faggot twink
>weigh 400 pounds? fix yourself you hamplanet
>oh you lift? compensating much lmao, touch grass loser lifting weights won't make up for your toxic personality

oh shit I forgot "scrote", usually the word "scrote" goes into that rant somewhere, the cope word of the day is scrote

dadbods are the best body type wtf are u talking about??

Say your thinking of going to the gym and you want him to join you. Tell him after that post workout smell gets you going and fuck him, then continue fucking him as a reward mechanism for going to the gym. Cook meals designed to produce the body you want.

You will also get fit, but if that's too much for you, why are you willing to demand it from someone else?