Why do people act like we transition for sexual reasons when even 5/10 cis guys have better dating prospects than 10/10 cispassing (or cis) lesbians.
Why do people act like we transition for sexual reasons when even 5/10 cis guys have better dating prospects than 10/10...
Talk about pessimism.
You had prospects when cis?
Unless you're really lucky geneticswise you would have had prospects yes
Zero her i just got daddy issues and mommy issues.
Contrary to the whining of incels who are unlikeable for reasons well beyond their looks, yes, even femboy types will be desired by more than enough women. I had choices pre-transition. Even now I have choices, just not as many as I could have as any cis guy who upholds the most basic standard of self-care.
the fact that i'm a pervert has very little to do with the fact that i'm a tranny
I probably could've had relationships as a cis man, but they would've been hollow, destructive ones. Being trans is the only shot I have at genuine love, and even then it's pretty unlikely
because i only want to transition for sexual reasons
i wish i could say this but my sexual identity was partially born out of the trauma of any form of sexuality from trans women (with her as the agent, not the object) being demonized. so now my entire sexuality centers around being a literal object (i even use it/its pronouns) because thats the only way i feel safe enough to feel even a little bit good.
>I use it/it's pronouns
do you really think i care?
I smashed pussy when I was a 16-24yo femboy. Then I got fat. Haven't fucked anyone except men since.
how long would it take to turn you into a ranging degenerate with enough emotional support and encouragement?
i guess parts of my sexuality are born of trauma, but u know, that same statement is true for my cis friends
in terms of being submissive and whorish and begging to be used and degraded and stuff... its extremely easy. but anything beyond that or with me in any kind of dominant role is painful to think about because of both past trauma and dysphoria, and doesn't interest me.
Im very autistic so thats better for dating men. I would never have attracted any woman with my autistic and weak personality. While my husband just takes care for me and dont care if im autistic or weak. Im glad I transitioned.
Honestly I was more thinking of self indulgence. Enjoying to be treated and pleased. Not being dominant but being pampered.
i think i recently have started to be better at that, like last week my gf got me into subspace and i actually started asking for things that i thought would feel good for once without having a million "is is really okay to ask for this? am i being rapey or forcing her into doing what i want? is it pushy to tell her that it hurts in a bad way when she touches my clit and id rather it not even get hard?" thoughts running through my head. it felt really nice, i'd like to be a pillow princess like that more regularly...
You can make it happen, anonette. You seem to be working on it, and you and your gf will figure things out I'm sure.
I didn't have any before either lol
Most of the trans girls I know went from incel -> having a partner (usually another trans girl). One went from incel -> not really gigastacy, but she definitely had a lot of dudes trying to get in her pants.
I'm probably a 5/10 dude and my dating prospects for women are nonexistent unless I scrape the bottom of the barrel for ugly girls in dead end jobs who are also really annoying to be around. I do ok with other men/femboys but girls are almost all repulsed by me.
i had very low prospects as a cis male but when i trooned i had way more options