Is it wrong ?

Is it wrong that I want a tranny gf (especially a boymoder) coz I know they suffered thro life and Ik theyll be a lot more understanding of my own autism than probably anyone else ? Not to mention that Im clingy asf and Id expect em to be so too..

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Gotta do what makes you happy ig

no that isn't wrong

nah, it's normal to have expectation
though not all trans girl are like how you expect them to be

as long as your not weird about it, its fine
from my perspective, as long as the love is authentic its fine

>though not all trans girl are like how you expect them to be
Maybe so but they still must have went thro some suffering as opposed to cis princesses sailing thro life

Thx ppl this is very reassuring.

the point is to not generalize them that much, they might be all suffering but their experiences can be said unique to each of them
so it's rather better for you to take your time to learn about each of them rather than think that you know all about them from the get go

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Is it wrong to want a gf who is obsessed with me and always responds to messages in a timely fashion and never forgets special occasions or is late to things I want to do because I have abandonment issues and if she ignores me for a couple consecutive days I'll think she doesn't love me anymore?

Im just saying that in general ppl that went thro hardship are usually more understanding/compassionate Id never dare to say that Ik what they went thro BUT they went thro something.

HOLY FUCK THIS EXACTLY THIS ! What do I have to give up to get this in life .. ?

i understand user, just saying my point
literally me

>Literally me
Are you the abandonment issues, or the attentive gf?

Fair nuff
>literally me
Where are u from ? PLS BE FROM EU AAAAAAAAAA

>Are you the abandonment issues, or the attentive gf?
i have avpd so i guess i am scared of rejection and being abandoned but i think i am more the attentive one since my disabilities(impaired hearing and half deafness) making me look out for any body movement signs i see
i am from indonesia so i will be forever alone lol

i mean, if i had a gf who didn't respond for multiple days, despite me messaging her, i'd feel abandoned too... is that weird?
i feel like thats relatively normal in the world of the internet but idk

nope, it's not weird, what the heck
i always reply to anyone as soon as i see the message
honestly if i have a bf and he didn't reply back to my first message, i will try again in several hours, if he still didn't reply, i'd think it's fucking over(this is also one reason why i never like sending first message, i know i will reply immediately when someone send me message but when someone doesn't reply to me, it's just...)

Somebody called me clingy for expecting a reply within 12 hours when she had given no indication the conversation ended/paused. She would just stop replying to me mid-stride and come back the next day like it wasn't weird.
If you have something to do IRL suddenly, I get it, but like, tell me so I'm not sitting here waiting? Or apologize after.

>expecting a reply within 12 hours
>"clingy"
>just stop replying to me mid-stride and come back the next day
oh that's fuckin weird

>Is it wrong to want a gf who is obsessed with me and always responds to messages in a timely fashion and never forgets special occasions or is late to things I want to do because I have abandonment issues and if she ignores me for a couple consecutive days I'll think she doesn't love me anymore?
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it's not wrong, but you do have BPD. and that's ok. sort of

depends. are you dating? if so, yes, that's reasonable. if not, then it may be clingy

>i always reply to anyone as soon as i see the message
>, i will try again in several hours, if he still didn't reply, i'd think it's fucking over
yeah, at least for me there are times where someone will reply and i don't really have anything to add but if they message me 2 times in a row i feel like its serious at that point, and i need to come up with a response.

>Somebody called me clingy for expecting a reply within 12 hours when she had given no indication the conversation ended/paused. She would just stop replying to me mid-stride and come back the next day like it wasn't weird.
>If you have something to do IRL suddenly, I get it, but like, tell me so I'm not sitting here waiting? Or apologize after.
yeah
usually i'll say im going to sleep, or going somewhere if im in an active conversation

>it's not wrong, but you do have BPD. and that's ok. sort of
i'd take a bpdgf at this point desu, my only issue is when someone verbally threatens their life if we separate. then, even if i loved the person, it makes me feel trapped and causes major issues