Cisf here. Why do so many of you think getting a boyfriend is an accomplishment...

Cisf here. Why do so many of you think getting a boyfriend is an accomplishment? You can attain a guy even if you have a scat fetish, it's almost disgusting how easy it is to get a boyfriend/husband under any circumstance.

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Oh, and don't say it's easy for me because I'm cis. I imagine you can go on Grindr as a MTF and get 50 horny messages in a minute. It is an extremely popular fetish among men.

You can 50 horny messages easily, but hardly one of them will want to be your boyfriend, they will block and ghost you after they get their coomer fix, most of them won't even show up for a pump and dump meeting, if you can even stomach the humiliation of having to interact with such loathsume IQ50 degenerates. Getting a boyfriend may not be an achievement but a getting a boyfriend who actually loves you and doesn't just want a gf as a status symbol or to satisfy his ego and that you also love definitely is

>Why do so many of you think getting a boyfriend is an accomplishment?
Sex is one thing. Finding a guy who will take you home to meet his parents, hold your hand in public, commit, etc, is very different, especially if you're not 100% fully passable.

Yeah but you should still have so many choices that you're able to filter down to someone acceptable. That's what I don't get.

Even though I'm cis I for some reason doubt that my dating pool for boyfriend-material is *that* much broader in that regard. It sounds like an almost made-up problem that I see frequently posted here.

It's easy to get dick as a tranny, but if you don't pass its fucking hard to get a bf.
Getting one really shows your charm would put the average woman's to shame.
And your probably fuck like a champ in comparison.
Not having a pussy makes it hard, starting life as a man, the thing men feel disgust imagining kissing and making love too and despite it all landing a bf who's out together I'd amazing.

Kind of retarded to ask OP
But when you coast through life as a woman i guess this would be out of your scipe.

That’s completely correct though. You’re playing on Normal Difficulty, we’re playing on Nightmare Difficulty. The reason chasers are so reviled is because you’d be hard pressed to find one who actually wants to commit, and in any case most cis women don’t need to use dating apps to find a bf given that dating apps and websites have an overwhelmingly male userbase.

But it *is* because you are cis, you will never get it how insecure dating can make a tranny even when I’m the one being asked out

And I get why guys are like that
There’ll always be social repercussions if it’s found out they’re dating someone like that especially nowadays

We’re just sex objects for deviants, there’s no real purpose for us in society, meanwhile you have the advantage (and disadvantage) of being seen as incubators
Terfs are right in a way

But are you looking for boyfriend material, or are you looking for """"straight""" boyfriend material? The latter is you screwing yourself over with weird mental hangups, because the former would probably unironically be a good caring match but you're chasing some male-unicorn thing. If I were MTF I'd not have unrealistic hang-ups over "ahh but this person might LIKE my dick!" or whatever. I'd want someone who likes me for me, meaning everything about me mentally and physically.

Lol what cis het guy is ashamed to tell friends and family that he's dating a cis girl? Literally none. Whereas the vast majority would be apprehensive about it if it was a trans girl

Look at the stats for cis people of different sexualities willing to date trannies. It's not pretty.

You have 95% of men willing to date someone like you, trans people have a fraction of that

Think of it this way, the majority of men would do anything to keep you hidden from everyone and only seeks you out with the intention to fuck you in private.
Your just a passing fetish to indulge in.
The 4% of guys who would actually date you, you have to find them first of after filtering out tons and tons of guys looking to fuck, and you have to like them.
Even if you talked to tons of guys every week your still just struggling to meet one who would be ok being seen with you.

You can add in female dating problems to on top of it.
Passing you have a way more cos experience if you don't pass though, it's not at all the same.

Isn't it something like 30+% of males identify as at least bisexual these days? Being out isn't that uncommon anymore. Basically your pool should be as large as the male out-and-proud LGBT crowd is, which is not nearly impossible levels.

Stop mansplaining how to be a tranny to us lmao

The majority of bi and gay guys don't wanna date trannies either lol you don't know what you're talking about

For real she is being kinda haughty…

But take someone like F1nnster or whatever. They literally have a career off of guys jacking off to them and they don't even identify MTF.
Then you have someone like ContraPoints. Doesn't even pass, sounds like a man but is a funded-by-horny-men millionaire.
The problem sounds like whining rather than based in current reality of horny male behavior (yes, people will be your boyfriend but still be horny, that's how dating works)

I literally don't care if there straight or gay, ill fuck guys in the ass if they like lol and compared to most trannies i am way less neurotic. The thing is gay dating and monogamy is ever harder than dating as a non passing tranny. But believe me, the issues of shooting for straight men are not the killer here.
I'd date gay guys but they are even bigger sex fiends, and only a small % are looking for a long term relationship.
Most BI guys are closeted, and despite a lot of straight guys enjoying your body and comapny, they do not want to be one known for dating a tranny.

I won say a lot of trannies are not hung up about that, but it doesn't matter as straight and bi guys are mainly who's into you anyway. You really just have to find one who doesn't care about ehat others think, and sometimes charm your way last the hesitation.
Anton I've told my dating history too just tells me they feel bad for me, and mine is pretty typical T_T
Most bi guys are not out, and gay bi population of men is 10% of men max.
And they are mostly not out.
Being out is more common but still not at all even close to the majority.

It's all about being secretive and sneaky, sex apps have mad it even less needed to be out, you can do it all in private and not IRL.
Plus Of that 10% are gay and most gays don't like feminine men or trannies. Being sort of passing kills gay male interest in you, although some do like fems.

And the porn market for cis females is even larger, so what's your point? "Guys like to jack off, therefore you should totally be able to land a loving, romantic relationship"??

> gay bi population of men is 10% of men max
Isn't trans porn too popular for your statistic to be correct? I think the stats that I saw before were way higher which seemed to align with current sexual trends

Guys will fuck little boys and girls, animals, inanimate objects, obese woman, grandma's and need to cum whatever it takes.
Really doesn't say much to landing a nf, just because you. Unlike woman who can parlay sex into a relationship, that almost never is going to work for a non passing tranny.

Tasteless question but a lot of MTFs don't pass; if you're looking for a boyfriend and you really can't find a 'cis' one so easily, why not go for an MTF? The MTF is obviously already out to family and committed about the lifestyle.