I wish I were born a girl. It would be SO easy to attract romantic and sexual partners...

I wish I were born a girl. It would be SO easy to attract romantic and sexual partners. I am a bisexual male but being a bisexual female would be awesome. It would be a cakewalk to meet women and men to hookup with and date. As a male I find it nearly impossible to attract women but if I were born a girl that wouldn’t be the case. It would be easy peasy lemon squeezy.

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unattractive cis women don't have this experience

Cis bi foid here, can confirm. And dont tell me to lose weight. I've blogposted about this before, but I'm bmi 19 and do three sports a week, I have had zero sexual experience with cis men, in fact 4 of them turned me down, my existent experiences were with one FtM and one bi girl. I've never been catcalled in my whole life nor had any drink bought for me. I go to clubs and drink and dance and try to socialise, and am unsuccessful most of the time. OP has it dead fucking wrong about it being easy. An user here once told me of a vid where a woman goes to a scifi convention and tries to sexually flirt with men there and then proposition them, one of them literally ran away and the another screamed so hard lol.

Men talk up such high shit about themselves being low-inhib high-libido desperate fuckers, but the truth is that a good % of them are either high-inhib nerdy pathetic losers who dont want easy flings even with fit women, or they are much much pickier than they pretend to be. I'm in east asia and surrounded by men who essentially act castrated.

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i wish i were born in the top 1% of females and lived a perfect life where everything is handed to me through my vagina

but for real though i actually wish i were a girl

>even with fit women
what the fuck i hate my own gender now

Malebrained larper or repressing ftm detected.

>go on tinder
>get 1000 matches
>choose one and get fucked
Problem solved.

>east asia
Found your problem

Can I ask how do you usually socialize or approach? Maybe I can give you a decent advice

>”i’m hungry I really want something to eat”
>”umm why don’t you get a pizza crust? you can find them in any trash can in the city”

If you look like that yeah

If you look like (you) no

So everyone on dating app is trash? There isn't one decent man out there?

80% of men are the equivalent of discarded food stuffs suitable only to feed rats.

I think I do problems with that. I have diagnosed autism if you want to know how bad it is in two words. I learnt from the internet that "it doesnt matter how desperate a woman seems or how awkward she acts, men will fuck anything", turns out that is a lie.

Usually I go to the club, get a few drinks, dance by myself, then try to dance with others even if they are strangers. If they reciprocate in dancing back, I ask for their name, and make small talk. If that is going well, I get closer in dancing, start to flirt for a bit, ask for their number, etc. Every step of the way, I try to remain cognizant of whether they are reciprocating my cues (including nonverbally) before I escalate. I've been told multiple times that I dont seem local because of that. Most locals basically stand quietly by the walls, and occasionally head onto the dance floor to dance only with the friends they came with, idk why the fuck they even go to the club.

So far my approach escalated from small talk to closer-distance dancing to groping to making out in two cases (the ftm and the bi girl). Escalated to sex on the night of it for the bi girl, but did it with the FtM about two days later. Has worked in 0% of cases where I try it on cis men, funnily enough. I've also gone from small talk to making nonsexual friends with two other bi girls in a similar fashion.

there may be one but it’s definitely not you lol

I was not talking about myself, I never used a dating app.

Straight guy here. I can confirm the idea of men fucking anything with a hole only applies to a certain personality type. I’ve rejected women for being too easy before, not having the right personality, or just feeling off. I’m not picky I’m just not a desperate simp. I have to actually like you, and I don’t do hookups in the culture of STDs, metoo, and troons pretending to be women. I need to know a women is worth knowing first, and won’t wreck my life if I bring her in.

If I want a random dick up me, I have dildos for that. I know dating apps are the easy way, but I loathe having any kind of non-anonymous online presence. You'll say "ok that's your problem, my point is it's still super easy to get dick into your orifices", well my answer is that internet moids make it sound so easy that I can just walk out the door right now and trip and fall into dick as long as I'm willing. Which I have proven false. I prefer to use non-online means to meet people, and my track record of "cis men in non-online situations dont want me" already disproves the prevailing online theory. I'm not throwing a pity party here, I'm glad I am a bislut and there's always everyone else including trans people and cis women. But fuck is it ironic. I highly suspect it is due to my location, I dont live in the west after all, maybe the queer people here are sluts but all the cis straight men arent.

>Has worked in 0% of cases where I try it on cis men, funnily enough
Why do you think you scare men?

That's totally fair and I respect that, I just hate the constant online larp that every single man is a raging hard constantly-horny boner with zero brain cells. It's a pretty sexist thing to assume of men, if you think about it. I get sexually frustrated sometimes and seethe about your sort, but rationally there is nothing wrong with your preferences. I just wish people would stop larping.

Smells like a poona here

It's the location, I am sure. The idea of woman not being able to get laid if she takes the lead is laughable here in the west. Unless morbidly obese and retarded etc.

My theory is that east asian men are not into short-haired sluts in goth gear clearly trying to fuck them casually after maybe one hour of dancing and talking on a saturday midnight. Two of them said my hair was too short, one of them said he only does relationships, another one ghosted me after I happened to bring up that I'm ok with vaping lmfao (I rarely do it but who tf is against vaping). Hell, everything from the short hair to me being the pursuer to my sluttiness, are against every asian female convention.

Or I'm secretly ugly-faced and my autism is much worse than I think, or theres some other deep character flaw of mine I'm blind to. Take your pick. Although other queer people seem less put off by me, maybe they are slutty or desperate or both, and I can relate.

>short-haired sluts in goth gear
Yeah, that could be intimidating.

Man east asia seems wild, here in Western Europe if a chick (let alone a goth chick) was approaching guys to dance with them and make out in the club, she would litteraly have to beat guys back with a stick.

I'm moving to the netherlands in a year so I will see. One more year of this shithole and then I'll move and get to finally understand why Any Forums anons mald so much about femoids lol.