Mtf and gay guys, how did your mom react to you coming out?

After all she likes men / is a woman too?

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called me a monster, kept misgendering me, disowned me and spiraled into deeper alcoholism

I never came out

mtf here when i came out she was like “about time you realized, i was worried you wouldn’t figure it out” and then she bought me bras like a month in :|

;-;

no way, thats a lie

not that great. Atleast I didn’t get disowned.

Came out to friends around jnr year of hs and start socially transitioning still boymode at home and school and stuff for safety reasons

A month after turning 18, came out to my mom cause I was desperate to start hrt. We talked she said she didn’t understand any of it but she still loved me but that I couldn’t see a therapist in the area cause she’d afraid my “secret” would get out and we also couldn’t tell daddy… after that she mostly just ignored it… I was doing my thing still in the early stages of my transition learning how to dress, do makeup, etc… plus just about to start uni. First year of uni goes by I change schools, move out, finally get hrt at 19 and 4 months after starting I feel comfortable enough to start girlmoding full time in public

6 months on hrt I tell my mom I’ve been on hormones cause she noticed how my body looked different. She goes off on me telling me that I’m potentially destroying my body and causing irreversible changes and that my therapist should be shot and that I’m not mentally stable enough to make decisions for myself. She tells my dad. He says I’ll always be his “little farmer boy”

Things calmed down. 2.5 years pass and now she genders me and names me correctly 90% of the time we have a decent relationship. We go shopping together. Actually 3 months after coming out to her my sister, mom and I all went shopping and she bought me some new clothes. (Couple tops, jeans, dress, some new bras and underwear.) etc…

Now she tells me how much I look like her when she was my age (it helps we’re the same size except for my height being 4-5 inches more) so I have some of her handmedowns from the 80’s. She also gives me dating advice and stuff. And we vent and gab to eachother like she does with my other sisters.

There were also some threats of conversion therapy early on, or that I’m only trans because I have really low T cause I had a really late puberty and my nvr dropped and stuff. (Before coming out they used to threaten to put me on T and stuff but I had other medical stuff going on so it never happened thank god) but her and my dad also brought up going on T first to see if that would cure my trannyness

nah it’s real shes super liberal but sometimes i feel like she’s happier that i’m trans than she would be if i was just a cis guy which is kind of a weird feeling but idk

it’s kinda ironic tho cause she’s a pastor and i was always worried about hurting her image by coming out but i guess she’s cool with it lol she keeps trying to get me to come out to more people and tell everyone and i have to be like mom please i’m not ready for that i don’t need to tell every single person that’s ever met me

What they don’t know won’t hurt them