I made a post last night and didn't get many serious replies. So I am making a second thread in hopes for some legit advice I know there are a lot of survivors here.
It happened 5 years ago at a summer camp, the counselors were older kids that played a "game" with us where they tried to pin kids down and put a finger up our ass. I didnt realize at the time it was actually rape but a therapist helped me realize that it was. Last week I reported it to the police but since I am a trans woman I am afraid they will not actually care about investigating (I was boymoding at the time but have since transitioned). Have had no contact with the detective since then.
Can I stop in and see how the investigation is going?
Theres no physical evidence but I know there were a lot of witnesses to my specific incident and all the counselors would surely remember the game. It would take a lot of investigation but im 100% sure they could be able to find enough evidence to make an arrest but I think cause Im trans and it happened so long ago they might just not care..
I am not sure how much the adults at the camp knew about the game, it was only older boys who did it to me but I think its likely the adults there knew but didnt do anything. (It was apparently very widespread and they did it as a "ritual" to every kid at the camp.
>5 years ago Jesus christ what fucking retard Just let them live thier life it has been 5 fucking years
And no it is not even rape it just a game you austic fuck
Juan Taylor
>trans woman sorry but if people dont care about men being raped, we shouldnt care about you being raped. simple as.
Mason Cox
thats not very nice, I would appreciate some solidarity
Jacob Morales
22 with a can, do it next 4th of july. Godspeed.
Aiden Brooks
bump
Daniel Moore
>It happened 5 years ago the cops have better things to do, like shooting dogs and catching people driving too fast
Julian Adams
Older children preying up on younger children and pinning them down and getting them to finger their own assholes is just a game to you?
So if I find some 12 year old and I pin him down and I tell him to pull his pants down and then I ask him to finger his asshole for me, you think that would be "just a game"
You are a pedophile and you need to be locked up IMMEDIATELY
Alexander Hernandez
i think you should just move on, user it has been 5 years, they probably didn't know better either because it's "ritual" forgive them, you will feel more peace compared if they were to be investigated, you gain their enmity and start feeling paranoid for future backlash of this event it's heavy past, i know it must be hard on you, but it will be harder if you don't move on
Alexander Myers
Nevermind the older kids would put a finger in their ass, not make them put their own fingers in their ass. I misread OPs original post.
So older kids fingering the assholes of younger children is just a game to you apparently?
Brody Bailey
Yes which is why Im asking what to do? The police said to not talk to anyone and let them do their business. But Im worried since theres no physical evidence they wont take it seriously.
Should I just let police do their job or hire a private investigator / lawyer myself and try and bring them actual hard evidence?
I want to try to contact as many other boys from the camp as well. but police said not to. I know there were a lot of other victims / witnesses Im not sure how many would be willing to give a statement though.
Cooper Hill
Yes? who gives a fuck.
"OH NO, SOMETHING WENT IN THE REVERSE DIRECTION IN MY ANUS BETTER CRY ABOUT IT FOR 5 YEARS"
Fucking retard
Carter Lewis
>it has been 5 years, they probably didn't know better either
"They probably didn't know better either"
Sorry I just found a 12 year old on the street and I got them to take their pants off and I started fingering their asshole but I didn't know any better so you can't blame me for it.
Camden Cox
You cant just "move on" from being raped
Also, Im pretty sure that the adult camp leaders were aware and let it continue, it was very widespread, it would be hard for the, not to know about it, maybe an investigation could bring up evidence of that.
It was a christian campground by the way and I know most cops are christian right wingers so i think maybe they will be hesitant to really push an investigation...
Andrew Myers
>Yes? who gives a fuck.
Yep child rape who cares.
A kid gets fucked in the ass by an adult
"Who cares stop crying about it, it was just a thing that went in your asshole that made a back and forth motion for a few minutes, it's not a big deal there is no reason to cry about it."
Men like you disgust me, you don't take rape seriously or think that it's a big deal, EVEN WHEN IT HAPPENS TO CHILDREN YOU ARE A FUCKING PSYCHOPATH!
Also common tactic of reductionism in order to deligitimize one's experiences.
"Soccer, that is just when people kick balls" "Movies that is just flashing images on a screen, it's just pixels" "Rape, that is just when an object moves in and out of your butt no big deal"
Common way to downplay a persons trauma and experiences to utilize this kind of mechanical reductionism which is not how people experience the world unless you're an inbred autist such as yourself.
Ethan Parker
these better not be the same retards who complain about "grooming" everyday
Henry Jenkins
all these things OP doing will just set her up for more disappointment knowing nothing will ever happen to the people who "rape" her and that she will just keep drowning in self pity and sadness until something "magically" happen nothing will happen, just move on
Noah Wilson
Find a lawyer who focuses on helping victims of sexual assault. Reach out to other people who went to the camp or their parents, moms with a certain empathetic temperment will likely be generous with information even if you're upfront with the reason you're reaching out, maybe asking for documents or a registry of who else went to the camp that year ask around on websites like nextdoor and facebook in regions close to the camp for who else went there, then ask about their friends who went there and their friends who went there and discover whole social webs through that.
Also in general I've heard it's pretty hard to prosecute rape, so play your cards the absolute best you can, but still don't expect too much, sorry. But I think that bringing a lot of victims together and confronting the abusers for what they did, even if they don't get convicted can still have a great effect on the world.
>Just let them live their lives Fucking piece of shit, trying to reverse who was the victim and who was the perpetrator. >it has been 5 fucking years Because children can be abused into not coming forward about being raped, you want that to mean that no justice is possible, by the time a victim grows and becomes stable enough to see the abuse that happened to them for what it was, you want that to be "too late". These claims aren't actually backed up by any kind of law, this is pure gangsterism and intimidation. Statues of limitations don't work like that.
Corning someone, pinning them down, the anxiety in the air, the terror of being overpowered, the humiliation of being made into a toy for other's sick games, the tension in the body being held for years and years afterward, you evil ignorant nihilistic piece of shit.
Nicholas Bennett
You put "rape" in quotation marks.
If I find a 12 year old child right now and I insert my finger into their asshole you don't think that makes me a rapist?
Men literally have zero empathy and are psychopaths
Levi Hill
Thanks for the advice it sounds like you have dealt with something similar.
Would you recommend contacting anyone myself or waiting to coordinate with a lawyer / detective?
Jace Ross
Wahhh wahhh wahhh
Rape is and always has been snowflake assault, simple as
What's worse, someone actually pummeling you with clear intent of killing you to instill a fear for your life or some handsome stud forcing a little sexual pleasure
"B-BUT RAPE IS AB-"
everything is about power you retarded nigger, now are you going to be a weak little faggot whining, pissing and shitting about it on a rape fetish board or are you gonna stop waiting for someone else to do something about a crime nobody but you cares about by manning up, assaulting and killing your rapist? take your own vengeance, take justice into your own hands, grow a fucking dick, get good and teabag them back. For Christ sake.
Brandon Wright
tell me youve never had sex without telling me youve never had sex
