What do you (male) want in a bf? and what are you like?

what do you (male) want in a bf? and what are you like?

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god damn it, fuck this board.

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Bump.

I want a bf who won't insult me for my tastes, who has a job or income of some kind, and is a romantic and affectionate person who is okay with a relationship and not a hookup.

I need a bf who is nice to me and not abusive, someone i can talk with, about philosophy and art for example, loyality would be nice and a long term relationship, a top would be ideal

Want bf who can help ease the sadness in head, and reassure that I'm doing enough, even if pushing me in a better direction.
Takes good care of themselves
Is passionate about what they like n want to do
Can enjoy deeper level conversations n talking about different kinds of art together
Is alright with just enjoying silence together
Even if sex is a little rough or has humiliation aspects to it, which I admittedly enjoy a bit, lovey dovey type is still something we'd enjoy just as much from time to time.
Cuddle veri important
We can sit n talk about real issues we might have in life or with the relationship currently n work together to solve
Will be careful with me and how I feel

is what want in bf, mostly just emotional connection preference stuff I think.
(Really thankful I found him)

for what am like:
very sensitive, very careful with others emotions, tend to overthink a lot, like art n coding much. Don't mind talking about something in depth for 2-3 hours at times if the other person will enjoy joining for the thoughts together.

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what I want in a bf
>kind
>ideally he's a lil chubby but I don't have any physical dealbreakers
>affectionate
>wants a long term relationship with me
>strictly monogamous
>around my age
>isn't a total NEET. even if he has trouble finding direction in life after high school and decided to pick up a coding course or a min wage job that's something to work with
as for myself I'm 26, decent shape, I have a job & I'm working towards my master's, I like doing fun stuff around the city & collecting books+records

>want hrt femboy
>am regular guy

i am a male on estrogen but i talked about my dream bf earlier here but i'll make it easy and just copy paste to here

>top/dom
>male, cis or ftm, both are fine (but im bi enough to make an exception for a woman desu)
>21 or older
>at least my height or taller (i'm 5'6 but still willing to make an exception)
>sweet, caring and affectionate but also...
>...protective and assertive too
>a little stoic but willing to open up from time to time about his feelings
>will put up with me sperging out about elder scrolls lore (or some other micro interest of mine) for 30 minutes
>likes cuddling
>isn't afraid to take what he wants sexually
>willing to help me work through my issues like internalized transphobia
>also will bully me into girlmoding one day

i could go on for days about my dream bf ngl
probably unhealthy to tho idk

i thought you are mtf

i am but i'm technically a male on estrogen right
besides as long as i'm boymoding i'll always see myself as a dude anyway

really just wanted to talk about my dream bf desu

>top
>encourages me
>is there for me emotionally
>doesn't mind if I do troon out

>NEET
>antisocial
>depressed
>mentally ill
>I will never be loved
>I will likely not see 30
Other than that I am very sweet and caring and even make a good joke on occasion

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Wait, are you listing your bf stats or yours?

cute

NEET and everything after it is me
You need to enlarge the picture to see it

>cute
thanks nonny

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i’m so lonely

Ah, the formatting ended up weird.

No problem qt. Where are you from?

>bottom or side, maybe a little submissive
>willing to move around with me for my career
>isn’t hideous
>not obese, generally considerate of his own health
>knows how to admit fault
>knows to criticize me when I’m wrong
>knows how to speak up for himself and express his needs
>willing to communicate problems to me
>responsive to reasons
>willing to get to know my extended family, introduce me to his extended family if he has a good relationship with them
>likes to cuddle and be intimate
>strictly monogamous
>more or less kind

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sounds so basic that it's suspicious. all of these things are a bit unspecific and what everyone would say
it kind of gives the impression that you don't really know yourself what you want. don't know whether that's applicable or not

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oh yeah, and me
>top or side
>aspiring academic :’(
>moderately handsome
>not obese, trying to get into better shape, but not in bad shape myself
>try to admit my faults
>try to tell my trusted friends when they are doing something wrong
>communicate well with friends
>filial
>like to cuddle and be intimidate
>strictly monogamous
>kind and incapable of being mad at people for more than 1-2 days

I think there’s a lot which doesn’t matter in a relationship, but I do think I know what I want. I can envision a few people in my life who meet these criteria, excluding the more private ones, like sexual preference.

I agree that some of them are vague, like “responsive to reasons,” but what that actually means is difficult to spell out. If there are any which you think would be more interesting spelled out, I can.

texas
but i'm not very cute irl gonna be honest here

here’s one spelled out: by getting to know my family, I mean integrating into my family. I would like to raise children and raise them in common with my brothers’ and cousins’ kids (not just first cousins). I want him to be okay living close with and be willing to develop relationships with my brothers and cousins. I want someone who is okay and preferably excited about the prospect of being involved in the lives of people who matter to me.

that's incredibly sweet user I'd love that