Mtf

>mtf
>bf took me to meet his (rich) parents yesterday
>we had to go to the bible belt to meet them, 6 hour drive
>we're staying over until the 5th
>he hasn't told them I'm trans
>they're both fussing over me and overjoyed their son finally has a gf
>nervous the whole time they'll find out somehow and pull a 180 and turn horrible

We're watching the Martian right now. We just finished having a watergun fight on their yacht and eating dinner at the country club. I've shared my anxieties with my bf, and he's convinced they'll never figure it out unless we tell them. His dad keeps giving me alcohol, and they're asking us questions about how we met but the true answers don't make much sense without the context of my being trans.

What do I do here to avoid a bad time here?

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KEEP FUCKING FAKING IT

DON'T SAY A WORD

personally I would just keep faking, but you should really just talk this out w your bf.

GITWM GITWM GIWTM and dont tell them, just like be a passoid, and lie your ass off to them I guess..

>giving me alcohol
They're playing with you because they know and just want to make you admit it. Then they'll toss you off the boat

Stop drinking now. Say you’ve had too much and don’t want to start acting foolish.

I’d say this even if you didn’t have the added risk of being a troon in the Bible Belt

I'm just worried the alcohol might make me slip up, and I'm a terrible liar.
I kept asking him before we started the trip, and he always just insisted they'd never be able to tell. The conversation hasn't gone anywhere, so I'm just trying to avoid thinking about it as best I can but its a very invasive thought.
I would really be enjoying it if I could just stop worrying.
I'm pretty sure I would already be run off and figuring out a way back home if they knew.
His dad is insisting on mixing some kind of drink he learned to make during his military years when he was working in the Bahamas. I agreed to try it, but I'm skipping other drinks and planning to drink it slowly to avoid getting too wasted.

Also all four of their dogs are hanging out with me and very chill.

>His dad is insisting on mixing some kind of drink he learned to make during his military years when he was working in the Bahamas
They're about to run train on you

just relax, and enjoy it, if they knew they wouldn't have invited you onto their yacht, and just be yourself, dont drink to much and try to not be out of sight of your boyfriend I guess, but that might be impossible

Funny but unlikely.
I'm pretty much by his side 24/7 other than bathroom breaks and showers.

For now everything is chill. Just hoping it stays that way. I'll keep the thread updated as I'm able, if people care to hear. Tomorrow they're planning to take us to some big July 4th party at the country club.

good luck!

how do I meet a rich country club bf? All the ones I play tennis with are taken.
I pass pretty well, I just dunno where to find them

I had no idea my bf came from a wealthy family until this trip. He's a home depot employee who works for $15 an hour. His dad's trying to persuade him to get a coding certification or an associate's degree of some kind. We live six hours away from his parents in a cheap apartment we split rent on.

He didn't tell me we would be doing anything fancy like yachts and country clubs until we were already on the way, and I've felt underdressed the whole time.
Thank you!

im curious now, how did yall meet if telling the story exposes your transness?

You're in danger
Just say as little as possible without arousing suspicion
You probably should not do this in the future

I mean, that kinda do be good advice though. At least sounds like a decent parent in that regard?

I was already living in the Bible Belt as a boymoder (for too long, I had been on HRT for two years and it was becoming hard to hide). He was an acquaintance I didn't know better than just as a friend of a friend.

I felt like I was going to get some trouble if I kept where I was, and he offered to let me stay with him until I found a place of my own in the North. I was more worried about bible belt people doing something to me than I was about him maybe being crazy, so I took him up on his offer.

We started as friends, but we bonded over movies/shows we liked (the Good Place and Cobra Kai especially, which we watched together). We grew closer over the course of a year living together, and after 8 months of cohabitating we started dating. Things moved fast from that point, and as of today it's been 11 months since we started dating.

But in short, I needed a place to stay because I was worried about religious transphobes and he offered to let me stay with him.
I didn't want to do it this time, but I felt like I owed it to meet my bf's parents since he met both of my parents (who were supportive of my transition after they found out once I had moved and felt safer telling them).
Yeah they both seem very nice.

We got to the part of the Martian where they play Waterloo by Abba. I asked if the cast of Mamma Mia was going to show up and save Matt Damon from Mars and everyone thought it was pretty funny. So I think I'm making a good impression.

awww cute story

awww yeah I agree w other user that is really cute.... but yeah, until you get a better feel on his family, I definitely wouldn't come out.

honestly just lie so your bf can live the "good son" fantasy