where do i find a chaser into cutting/physical abuse that also likes being affectionate afterwards and wants something longterm and ideally permanent?
Where do i find a chaser into cutting/physical abuse that also likes being affectionate afterwards and wants something...
Charles Cooper
Grayson Mitchell
lmk if you find out
Easton White
I'M RIGHT HERE
Colton Morales
that's what's annoying
even if i get a boyfriend, he's probably not going to have any of my interests sexually.
Grayson Rodriguez
I am a chaser that would like to be on the receiving end of the abuse, and I want the affection afterwards too.
Lucas Morgan
please be real and not joking
Levi Bell
im sorry user, i dont think i could hurt someone the way i want to be hurt. id feel way too bad doing that to someone i love so much ;__;
Camden Bennett
I am the same. The reason I want to do this stuff is to heighten the experience of the affection by preceding it with the cutting/abuse. The contrast between the two of them will make me feel more loved. I've never done it yet, the closest I've gotten was crying uncontrollably and having a girl hold me and comfort me. I was never as fulfilled in my entire life. I just felt amazing bliss and fell asleep. It was incredible. I feel safe having people be there for me when I am extremely vulnerable and hurt.
Kayden King
god you’re like the non-tranny version of me
Camden King
lmk when you find one also cutting thread
Levi Howard
I think most of it stems from insecurity and feeling you are not good enough. And desiring unconditional love. It is like "oh if they love me when I am so vulnerable and broken, they will never leave and they accept me for the worthless person I am"
Some moron will come along and say mommy issues, but it's different. Its wanting a romantic partner that gives unconditional love and wanting to create this real and outward expression of the experience of unconditional love. It's like your physical body will mirror how you feel inside, and someone will love that outward expression of how you are inside - giving you ultimate security and safety. That is how it is for me
Luis Cook
now i kinda wanna just hold you snd make you feel safe user… ugh
please no. not actual pictures because its unironically triggering. and cutting myself doesnt feel the same without someone to encourage me to do it or be affectionate afterwards
Ian Russell
Yo discord?
Easton Sanchez
Robert Howard
pretty
Anthony Moore
Theyre GREEAT
Kevin Green
>im sorry user, i dont think i could hurt someone the way i want to be hurt. id feel way too bad doing that to someone i love so much ;__;
NTA but this is exactly why I as a chaser cannot ever hurt a tranner. even consensual psychological abuse would be too much for me
Robert Collins
You will have difficulty finding a chaser to do this because many of them want to "save" someone and have this attraction to what they perceive as broken birds. So they will want to care for you
Nolan Cruz
Have you heard of bloodplay?
I used to be really into that as a teen. You might like it. You probably couldnt handle it.
Mason Davis
eh, im not worth “saving”. trust me on that one (esp because im not attractive enough for anyone to feel that way in the first place)
yes lol
and nah, ive carved someone’s name into my thigh before. i can handle it.
Jackson Lopez
That attitude and those characteristics will only encourage them lol