>early-T pooner with intense brainworms >dont think even liberal women would see me as a man, even if I start passing but they know trans >dont think any men would do that either >obviously dont think conservatards would do that >dont even think MtFs would do that >question whether I myself am a man half the time
They wouldnt internally see me as a man even if I pass. Once I pass, my plan is to move and go full deep stealth.
That said, I'm wondering if it would get too isolating to lie to everyone all the time, and not at least have one person to disclose to. Would it be a good idea to seek out other pooners to alleviate that?
Something something fembrained NGMI YWNBAM There, I saved you time because that's what half the replies are going to be.
Joshua Smith
Yeah this is what I mean by even MtFs dont think FtM are men. I keep seeing "just foster a liberul social circle and only be stealth outside of it" advice, but I'm extremely skeptical. Also, I know if I larped as mtf and posted this question, I would get very different responses because MtFs only look out for each other.
If the only way to be seen as a man is to live like Billy Tipton and tell absolutely zero people irl, I would still do it, but I want to see if there's a way to make it suck less.
Sebastian Cox
You can’t stealth without a penis don’t fuck yourself up
Isaac Martin
What about volcel
Nicholas Lopez
You are not a man and I am not a woman, we all cope with dysphoria but let’s face our biological reality
Adam Young
No, probably not, chances of regret are extremely high
Jordan Clark
>Long rambling paragraph female rant Jesus Christ you're giving me second hand dysphoria from how foidbrained you are
Hunter Gomez
Regret not fucking people? I'm already never-fucking people due to bottom dysphoria, although I've been sexually frustrated to consider escorts sometimes since being on T
Unless you mean other issues with stealthing
Aaron Sanchez
>chances of regret are extremely high That wasn't even related to what he said at all. Are you just regurgitating TERF rhetoric without actually reading anything you retard
Nolan Powell
no. I want to larp. If people still just see me as a woman, that's not good enough, even if it's true.
Easton Reyes
Regret everything because your chances of being happy are honestly probably lower than they’d be if repressing. And the latter
Juan Peterson
I see u as a man :c
Nolan Howard
>terf Fuck off with your made up bioleninist shit. They will see you as a woman because you are one physically.
Adam Powell
Hmm. I dont want to be known as trans at all. If stealth is too hard, mayhaps I shall socially present as a butch lesbian while being on T (what I'm currently doing). I basically want to live as cis, I rather live as cis f than ftm, if I cant successfully pretend to be cis m.
Jordan Martinez
It’s your life but you’re going to run into a lot more complications if you fully commit to this band find that you still don’t pass and aren’t happy
Adrian Brown
Dont spread your brainworms onto others like that, reppers are cruel, they just want others to share their pain :(
Ian Miller
OP asked a question and I gave an honest answer based on what I’ve seen and experienced. Spread my brainworms? When you’re enabling feeding into unsolvable problems? Cmon
Logan Long
frankly maybe I'll never pass or be happy. But this beats not being on T, it beats having been a repper without T.
Guess there isnt much possible advice. I'll just butchmode ad infinitum, until/if I pass and have to decide on whether to stealth and whether to find irl pooners.
Levi Clark
Good luck then but I have a feeling you’ll hate being around them and have to deal with swallowing a feeling of coping internally every day
Benjamin Perez
Unless you're very genetically unfortunate or an SJW basedboy, everyone will eventually gender you male without knowing your history. Being respected as a man is another story, but you knew what you'd be signing up for when you started considering transition. Stay away from pooners, disclose to a male friend. A friend outside of your work/school is obviously best, to be on the safe side. They will have more valuable advice for you. If you meet a pooner who will open up to you about this shit with an actual name or profile attached, it's because they have nothing to lose. Why trust advice about being a man from someone who hasn't integrated?
T. Late transitioning 5'5" autist, stealth
Cooper Morgan
Thanks. I know respect is a different bucket and its own learning curve, I'm patient about it because I'm volcel and introverted. I only need one or two friends, and be able to hold down a job, so I don't need respect immediately.
Deworming my brainworms about one or two cis male friends to open up to, sounds like a good idea.
Christian Diaz
Why do you want to be men. Seriously. I don't get it.
