when i came out as trans to my dad he fully accepted me, he even looked into getting me started on hrt as soon as possible because he doesn't want my male puberty to progress and kill myself. it was actually my mother who had a harder reaction. but my father calmed her down and had a talk with her now i have her tentative support, and i think she'll be fine with it after i start passing (i'm only 5'6 so i think passing should be easy). anyway. my father called me into my parent's room and privately told me they were trying for another child. he always preached transparency. in his words: "i love you and your sister very dearly. but i need to raise a son as well as daughters. as a old man, i need to mentor a young man. we're not replacing you, i just want you to know that."
i didn't even know what to think about that. i pretended to need time to think in my room but i just ran away from home. i'm writing this from my friend's house and my phone is blowing up with concerned texts. i feel so betrayed. should i even feel betrayed? i love my dad so much. he was always my own superhero while growing up. he'd work long 10 hour days just to support us and still had enough patience and energy to play with his kids. he'd always give me lessons on being a strong, proud man, but a decent portion of that advice was applicable to being a strong, proud person. he made me the person i am today. will i not be as close to him as i was before? i hate it so much. i want to embrace him and cry but the thought of doing that also makes me so scared and guilty. i robbed him of having a son. i know if he has more daughters he'll love them as much as his other children, he's not the type of guy to discard them. what if they never have another boy? my father just dies unfulfilled?
your dad supports your transition, so support his goals too by letting him have another kid. you didn't rob him of a son, he never had one to begin with. now fuck off
Benjamin Walker
>betray my parents >parents find a solution >I feel betrayed now
how do you feel betrayed? your father wants a son. you should feel happy he doesn't see you as his son. this thread is retarded. go back your father and beg for forgiveness and help raise your future new brother as a sister should
Julian Reed
I feel like you should talk to him about it. From his behaviour, it doesnt sound at all that he'd stop loving you or stop being as close to you. I can only guess, but it sounds like he wants to pass on some kind of male-specific knowledge to somebody, and he may be working with internalised outdated gender stereotypes, like thinking that he cant have a close time with you bonding over masculine interests e.g. teaching you how to weld or fish together, since you are now his daughter.
Communicate with him, I dont think it's nearly as bad as you imagine of him replacing you. Ask him what he wants to do together with a son and why you no longer qualify. Even if he never changes his mind about father-son bonding, I think this is overally a minor issue, and you both deserve better than having this great relationship broken, you both want father-daughter bonding and it sounds very possible.
Kevin Price
parents that are hellbent in raising a son are cringe tbdesu. Also, assuming this isn’t a larp, how old are you? You started transing recently right? If you’re mom is the same age as your dad I’d imagine she’s past child-bearing age or near menopause.
Carson Brown
it's really fucked up to try for a specific sex kid. my parents just blatantly told us they were trying for a girl and had 4 boys instead. I'm 90% sure that getting fucking complained about for being born wrong was what kickstarted my tranny thoughts in the first place.
As for you, you're very lucky that he's been so supportive of your transition, but you need to put your foot down and tell him that trying for a boy specifically is stupid and entitled. If he wants another kid in general that's fine but he shouldn't set himself up for dissapointment if the coin toss gives him a girl or god forbid a boy that wants to transition later.
Also I think you should try to suck his dick after saying this.
i guess i'm being dramatic.. i'm just so scared of our relationship not being close anymore. i'd have to ask my sister how she is with him. she's also close with him but i dont know the specifics
yeah he has some internalized gender role things going on but he's progressive in the fact that he doesn't mind when people break them as long as they're happy and not hurting other people. he just believes that being more "traditional" has more carryover to happiness in most cases because we've evolved with these gender roles for thousands of years, and that young men nowadays are under attack for being masculine. which i agree with
i'm 16. my dad is 42 and my mom is 38. my sister is 12. the chances at this point i think are slim but it's not totally over for them if they get lucky
>Also I think you should try to suck his dick after saying this. STOPPP I HATE INCEST LGBT POSTERS WHYY
also my uncle has had a 3 boys before getting a girl and he still loves them a lot
>As for you, you're very lucky that he's been so supportive of your transition, but you need to put your foot down and tell him that trying for a boy specifically is stupid and entitled. If he wants another kid in general that's fine but he shouldn't set himself up for dissapointment if the coin toss gives him a girl or god forbid a boy that wants to transition later.
i'll talk to him about it because child health with older mothers and our financial situation is better now but it could get tight
Luke Roberts
user you have to be 18 to use Any Forums cmonnnnnn now I feel like a genuine creep instead of just riffing
If it doesn't make you to dysphoric, you could ask him what he means by boy. You could adopt the label crossdresser even if you pass very well.
To many outsiders, MTFs are just men displaying femininity interpreted through a male lens anyways.
Xavier Torres
>i’m 16 i love seeing youngshits get b&
Jacob Martinez
groomer
Christopher Hill
it's ok.. i know its a just fetish thing and im intruding on your spaces for being young. most people on here don't actually want to commit real incest, it's just a fantasy about forbidden fruit and societal expectations
i don't know if i can do that but ill try when i talk to him next. and i don't think i can ever call myself a crossdresser
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anyway thank you guys for hearing me out and giving me your perspectives. i messaged my dad and i'll be heading home now. thank you all
Bentley Bennett
gtfo out of Any Forums, youngshit be thankful you have supportive parents, and make up with your dad
John Carter
>i don't know if i can do that but ill try when i talk to him next Ignore the people posting stuff like that, trying to lecture your dad after running away won't work.
You should apologize, explain what you are worried about, and then talk about it. Don't do anything too rash.
Jacob Cox
That's also called talking to him. I dont think the other anons meant it to be a lecture, but I could be assuming too much of the social skills of this place
Chase Taylor
>and make up with your dad by sucking his dick
Christopher Robinson
they're not me they're not me they're not me they're not me
Brody Reed
Detrans is the only solution
Joshua Martin
Are you Chinese perchance? I guess stuff like this is how you know you're really female
Dylan Thompson
maybe you should just femboy mode. be a boy for your parents and a girl otherwise. good for you for actually caring about your parents and their wellbeing. don’t chop your cock off it’s a scam
