How come transgirls who claim they are transbians actually secretly like men? Do they just really want a bf actually and give up because they can't get one?
How come transgirls who claim they are transbians actually secretly like men...
Oliver Adams
Justin Moore
I thought with all the transbians here this would be a good place to get an answer?
Easton Smith
can't speak for transbians but I have no idea why you would only want to be with other trannys. so many mental illnesses in one relationship
Jackson James
A lot of baby tranners like men but still don't feel comfortable dating them, or that they are good enough for them. T4T is comfortable for them, if they were straight there is less dealing with there repressed homosexaulityl.
T4T has a lot of coping going on, but most will eventually grow out of it and into enjoying men.
Even those girls really into crave a man and a good man they would dive at the chance.
Its sad but some go t4t just because they are sick of being used.
Carter Wood
It's fine as long as you don't go for the monogamous "I devote all my life to you" style relationship.
Joshua Long
Not all of them but some of them. I’m bisexual but I did call myself a transbian for a short period of time because I was not only uncomfortable with men due to previous experiences but also because I was always really insecure about liking men because I was made fun of for it after coming out as bi in middle school. Most of my posts on here tho were over the top LARPposting because I thought it was funny.
Austin Flores
It kind of sucks, a good man blows it of the water. Someone who can treat you right, and then you also have all the lovely aspects of a male female dynamic.
Plus good sex, with that visceral male energy involved.
Sebastian Mitchell
That makes sense. I don't know how to respond when they message or match with me because it made 0 sense what they wanted.
So it really is the internalized homophobia/repressed homo feeling urges meme?
Brody Butler
Could you elaborate a little anonette?
Whats better about keeping it casual?
Is it better just as a passing fancy, something to amuse yourself with? Or something to do between bf's?
Landon Powell
In some cases possibly I guess
Daniel Nguyen
You can stop a tranbian easy enough, just load up grinder and look for the autistic face
Jason Rodriguez
They want a man, always keep that in mind. Comming out of the phase, and if still deeply in it, craving sex with a man, possibly testing the waters again.
Be gentle with them and you may cure them of it totally lol.
Oh cool i want to do this to my friends.
Finally get the truth.
Jaxon Scott
theres a reason all those studies are done on kids and not adults user
Ayden Martin
Keeping it casual, or open, or w/e has the benefit that if their mental illness fucks you up too hard you can just back off a little and take some space, although it would be considerate to make sure you are not the entirity of their support network before doing so.
People who take the monogamy pill are often convinced that they have to accept anything and everything. Better to think of your love interests the way one might very close friends, in my book.
Jack Rogers
no ive never much cared for guys i was with one for 5 years that moved to japan to become an incel instead of meeting me 2 states over; and after 7 years alone after that i was with a wonderful soulmate-tier construction worker kindof briefly irl last year who literally saved my life by paying my rent and coming to move me and my stuff and cats 2700mi to him after my mom died (im disabled neet), but irl didn't work well like being always on the phone together did, and i was happy to meet my gf just a few weeks after moving there; 6mo later she moved me here and i am happy - i do not belong with a boy and i never intend to try again with one i want to be married to my gf
Blake Flores
You broke up first right?
William Long
I'm a transbian and I've never even felt a sliver of attraction to men. Most of what you're talking about is just the "bi lesbian" phenomenon where bisexuals end up trying to co-opt the term (they do the same with cisles as well) out of usually a hatred/fear of men, and not a love for women. This is also why there's so much drama of people hating bisexuals among cisles/transbian circles (not saying if it's warranted or not, just definitely there).
Gavin Watson
picked wrong flag, whoops
I don't hate bisexuals tho, just to clarify. Just think they should identify as bi and not les.
Jace Mitchell
I see, that's kind of wise if they are unstable. The only times I T4T I have a bf, or keep looking for one. As it is dicey at times.
Feel bad for it, but of course I like guys... Is just not satisfying in the same way.
But your suggestion could keep you from trouble in the long term, feel it out for awhile before really committing like that.
Thanks!
Jacob Price
I used to joke around about the man hating thing because I thought it was funny but I’ve since realized that transbians are rapier than any man I’ve ever met. I nearly met up with a methhead rapehon before I even ended up realizing this.
William Carter
>I used to joke around about the man hating thing because I thought it was funny but I’ve since realized that transbians are rapier than any man I’ve ever met. I nearly met up with a methhead rapehon before I even ended up realizing this.
I never really experienced that, but to be honest I'm not really into T4T (I don't like dick and I find to many transbians still focus on topping/bottoming dynamics so I usually don't date other trannies) so you could be right. Most other transbian friends I have though have been nice and normal, but I only hang around other zoomer trannies and not boomerhons.