Why don’t AGPs just think of the women they want to look like as their ideal girlfriends? We all know AGP is an erotic target identity inversion/lack of a masculine ego and not a result of having a female brain (MRI scans supported HSTS having female brains and disproved it for AGPs), so instead of indulging in your autistic obsession of wanting to become female, why don’t you just give up and try to reverse it back into heterosexuality? Basically, learn to be confident as a man again and you might see plenty of your transition goals coming up and asking to date you.
This worked for me as an AAP and I haven’t felt like I wanted to be a man after years of repression. The thought of injecting testosterone into me grosses me out and I love being a woman now. The only reason I’m on this board again is because I remembered so many of you are suicidal over a dumb reason and wanted to post some advice on how I cured myself. You obviously don’t have to take it, if you feel like being a woman makes you happier then good for you, but other AGPs who are confused and suffering may find this helpful.
I haven't showered for a few days and my penis smells like cheese
Samuel Jackson
What if your 5'3 skinny and bi. I see my life as objectively better as a boymoder than a bald manlet
Charles Edwards
My mri scan says I’m hsts but I’m actually agp what does it mean?
Christian Allen
The problem is that I don't want to date women. I want to be one. You say you got rid of your AAP. How did you do it? Why didnt you tell us? Why did you keep your method a secret?
Ian Gray
ok nigger :)
Angel Wood
>Why don’t AGPs just think of the women they want to look like as their ideal girlfriends? AGPs do and many use sex with girlfriends/wives to repress for years (John 50) but that only dodges the issue. Dysphoria doesn't go away.
Of course everyone is an individual so if you really are happy as a woman and not repressing your true self then you don't have to transition and won't necessarily crack in the end. But many AGPs/AAPs do have dysphoria and repression and telling themselves they're happy as their natal sex is only hurting themselves.
>AGP is an erotic target identity inversion/lack of a masculine ego and not a result of having a female brain So?
>HSTS having female brains Feminine gay men (including HSTS trans women) have androphilic brains, not "female brains"
Owen Murphy
What makes you think I don't?
Adrian Harris
Go take a shower.
You can definitely take estrogen, it has a lot of youthful properties like preventing hair loss and giving you clear skin. The effects are easily reversible in comparison to testosterone.
No idea, maybe you’re bisexual? I’m not a neurologist.
>The problem is that I don't want to date women. I want to be one. It’s this mindset that’s holding you back. You have to give up your desire of being an autophilic woman and learn to live happily as a heterosexual man, you will see that the mere presence of a woman will encourage you to become more confident in your masculinity over time. >How did you do it? I’ve basically summarized it in my post. Instead of craving to be male and neglecting my feminine identity, I thought of the men I wanted to be as potential partners and learned to appreciate my body. I also left out a few other things, but another great tip is that I stopped watching gay porn.
Lucas Sanders
Nothing, self-admitted AGPs are always malebrained
Angel Diaz
>AGPs do and many use sex with girlfriends/wives to repress for years (John 50) but that only dodges the issue. Dysphoria doesn't go away. Yes, I knew someone was going to bring it up. This can happen for multiple reasons but dysphoria isn’t the root cause. It’s not just having sex with women, it’s growing into your masculinity. You can’t just wake up one day, hookup with a woman, and expect to have your dysphoria go away even though you ruminate over what that woman’s body looked like. You need to change your mindset and have patience as it’s a difficult and long process. >But many AGPs/AAPs do have dysphoria and repression and telling themselves they're happy as their natal sex is only hurting themselves. Like I said, it’s great you are happy as a woman, but encouraging repressors to believe that they WILL be forever miserable if they won’t transition is doing a lot more harm in the long run. >Feminine gay men (including HSTS trans women) have androphilic brains, not "female brains" Androphilia is attraction to men. I don’t see how that changes the fact that they themselves as women.
Probably because you still want to be a woman.
Owen King
>Why don’t AGPs just think of the women they want to look like as their ideal girlfriends? in an AGP's mind they believe that being a woman would be better than being a man that logic is equivalent in an AGP mind to the statement "instead of wanting to a millionaire, why not strive to be an employee working for a millionaire" the analogy doesn't hold because obviously knowing a lot of rich people can help you become rich yourself. but knowing a lot of hot women just affirms your own inescapable masculinity, a dysphoric AGP genuinely feels upset that they are male because they feel like it's worse somehow.
Gabriel Myers
Oh you mean to "cure" my AGP Lmao good one
Brody Perry
you are going to recieve a lot of resentment from male AGPs. they genuinely think that every man wants to be a woman deep down and cite the higher rates of ftm detrans as evidence for their worldview
Jaxon Martinez
>just be male bro lololo kys
Matthew Rogers
based "barely into their 20s" retard I tried dating women as an agp AMAB extremely uncomfortable with PiV and general intimacy - it was a disaster and trying to be a man while in a relationship with a woman made me realize I have to transition
>in an AGP's mind they believe that being a woman would be better than being a man >knowing a lot of hot women just affirms your own inescapable masculinity, a dysphoric AGP genuinely feels upset that they are male because they feel like it's worse somehow. I explained this in my post. An AGP needs to work on their internalized misogyny and personal issues before anything else. >that logic is equivalent in an AGP mind to the statement "instead of wanting to a millionaire, why not strive to be an employee working for a millionaire" It’s more like instead of wanting to be a millionare and doing nothing about it, why don’t you work hard so you can become a millionare despite all the complications you may encounter?
Jackson Nelson
>This can happen for multiple reasons but dysphoria isn’t the root cause. AGP is the root cause of trans feelings including dysphoria.
>It’s not just having sex with women, it’s growing into your masculinity. I'm not clear exactly what you mean here, or "growing into femininity" in your case presumably.
>encouraging repressors to believe that they WILL be forever miserable if they won’t transition is doing a lot more harm in the long run. How did I do this? I encourage every AGP and AAP to make up her/his own mind while knowing and understanding as many of the facts as they can. That includes hearing the experiences of transitioners, repressors and detransitioners alike.
>I don’t see how that changes the fact that they themselves as women. How much do you actually know about HSTS?
Justin Torres
The difference is you tried? an hsts I never even desire to try it. I wanted to date boys as a boy and later on as a woman!
Christopher Edwards
>internalized misogyny
HSTS don't have this; if they did they probably wouldn't know and they wouldn't care
Ryder Morgan
>The difference is you tried? the difference is I grew up in a homophobic 3rd world shithole in the early 2000s, and being gay wasn't a possibility in highschool. Gay people from my class only started to actually have sex and date in their 20s
Jace Bennett
what if i want to be an agp?
Nolan Richardson
Sure it was! You just weren't gay you were a g p that's the difference. I grew up in a poor third world country too and I was hooker when I was 13 years old because I was a homo!
Mason Moore
>personal issues before anything else. if you take too long you age out of transition though
>It’s more like instead of wanting to be a millionare and doing nothing about it, why don’t you work hard so you can become a millionare despite all the complications you may encounter? that's called transition. your analogy seems more like accepting that wealth isn't what you really want and moving on to something else
same i wish i were AGP
Hunter Ramirez
I know and I won’t bother too much with them as I can’t change how anyone feels. The first part of getting help is wanting to be helped.
Denial and anger are the first stages of grief.
It seems like you only read the first sentence in my post. I won’t explain it again, but a lot of your issues were due to hatred of your own identity so you latch onto something you’re attracted to, this case being a woman, as an escape mechanism.
Angel Nelson
i don't **want** to be happy as a man. the idea of being proud of being a man is horrifying for me. like being happy that they were circumcised, or proud they were born poor so "they could struggle"
