How is your relationship with your father going fellow /tttt/ers

how is your relationship with your father going fellow /tttt/ers

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fine i guess. neither of us like each other and hes shitty about me being trans.

Great, we are very close.

since I came out he's gone from ignoreing and never interacting with me, to basicly the same but now he says "I love you" once in a while. it feels a little hollow and I think he now realises out of all the male role-models and father-figgures ive had, he was never one of them. mom's as loving and close as ever these days though, I think since my sister is realy butch and boyish shes excited to at least in a way have an actual feminine daughter to relate to

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We don't speak. Mostly because we're so estranged. When I visited him one summer and came out he wouldn't take his eyes off the road. Super awkward. Now I guess he's cool with it. He called me by my new name when talking to his new gf/fiance. He still hasn't seen me since pre transition 4 years ago so it might shock him.

Really good, when I was outed he stood by my side against my mom. He's paying for my healthcare & we still watch trains & build models together like the autists we are

Dysfunctional but otherwise fine.

Really well. He's always said he loves me, but it's only been within the last few years that he's said he's proud of me. We eat lunch together every week, and a couple times a week I'll drop by his house after work and we'll sit in the living room and chat about stuff.

5 years after coming out to him and him pretending to support me, he finally admitted that he's actually ashamed of me because I'm trans. That was back in December, and I haven't talked with him since. My mother and sister stopped talking to him long before I did(he was/is abusive), and now he's managed to lose the last person in his family who still cared about him even a little bit.

It could be better.

I view my dad as two separate guys. The goofy fun loving wild man who was an actual father to me and then the raging monster who abused me.

My dad physically abused me for most of my life but around the time I was 18-19 he pretty much mellowed out. Got therapy and is working through some stuff over his abandonment issues having been adopted as a baby. Plus he’s older now so my dad is more of the goofy history loving dad nowawadays even apologized for the abuse.

It’s really hard for me to get past the trauma even though he is genuinely changing and things are bit strained cause he still doesn’t really respect or accept the fact I’m trans. But I’m happy for him that he’s growing as a person and that my little sister will never have to suffer like I did.