How do I help my gay friend?
Recently my friend told me he is gay, we live in Eastern Europe so he can't be openly gay, he is unable to flirt and meet a partner that way, at the same time he is unsuccessful with Tinder and Hinge.
What are other options for him?
Also additional question, are all gay men only after tall non-nerdy guys?
You have to let him practice blowjobs on you, and you have to fuck his bussy.
If he's shit in bed every single top will ghost him before the first date. (Sex happens before agreeing to date etc)
fuck him if he's bottom
let him fuck you if he's top
Anons, I'm a women
It's over.
Henry is a nerd
I really believe if gay men gave him a chance he will be the best boyfriend, personality wise he is kind, friendly, with a positive mindset. Unfortunately because of him not succeeding in finding a boyfriend he is nearing a potential depression.
Are there any dating apps/underground forums at all?
He is suing Tinder and Hinge, got a few matches and none of them wanted anything serious. He tried forums but they were dead with only 2 other users online.
Which eastern shithole in particular?
t. ee shitholer
Georgia
You trannies are fucking disgusting
Leave gay men alone
>What are other options for him?
Become a plumber and move to Germany.
Moving away is really the only solution? Aren't there other forums or safe spaces around for him to get close with someone?
:/ Im on the other side of the pond, try and get him a russian refugee, most of them are lgbts
No because these places are conservative shitholes whose retard policies kept them economically behind even some 3rd world countries and now they're overzealously blaming lgbt people in order to distract from their own massive shortcomings.
>other options for him
As always, the advice I give for such cases is get out of that shithole ASAP.
I know it's not always possible, but it should be his number one life goal for the near future.
Hopefully Georgia will soon join the EU so that he doesn't have to get an immigration visa.
I told him that but he says even with foreigners so far he is not getting matches.
My friend has no fault in that and deserves happiness.
I told him he should at least try living for a while abroad, but he believes nothing will change no matter where he is. His love life is literally the only thing he is pessimistic, it breaks my heart that he is so hurt by current surroundings and rejections on dating app, he is giving up on hope of ever finding a loving partner.
What does he look like, its hard for me to believe he has no matches on grindr/tinder considering its full of coomers
>got a few matches and none of them wanted anything serious.
The experience will be the same in a western country, no gay man wants anything serious
I think he is quite cute, a bit short, cute gamine sort of face features, healthy teeth and cute smile, bald. He also lost weight, not quite fit but in the range of normal bmi.
Someone somewhere must be a hopeless romantic as my friend is.
Yeah there's gays like that on every app, and they're good at sniffing each other out. Your friend has hope, don't listen to doomers.
Thank you!
Make accounts and larp as him, maybe hes just scared to actually look and is giving excuses
>but he believes nothing will change no matter where he is
Lies and self-delusion to keep himself from acting
What if he doesn't and comes across to me larping as him?
I can't really blame him, imagine being in the closet for majority of your life and only opening up in the last few years with handful of friends you can talk about it.
Just say you're trying to help him, how old is he?