QOTT: What is your favorite breakfast food? QOTT2: What is a breakfast food or breakfast tradition that you or your family/friends have? Is there something special you do regularly? Maybe a meal you have on a special day of the year? etc. etc. AltQOTT: How are you, user? Like actually? Your mental health good? You keeping fit? Making sure to clean your room and keep your dishes washed?
FAQ: >Am I bi if I like women and femboys/ traps? >Am I bi if the only kind of guys I like are femboys and traps? >Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex? >Am I bi if I sexually like multiple genders, but only interested in romance with one of them? Yes, sexual attraction to multiple genders is bisexuality. >Am I bi or pan if I like trans people? Both are able to be attracted to trans people. >Am I bisexual if my sexual attraction fluctuates between genders? Yes, this phenomenon is known as a bi-cycle. Many bisexuals experience it. >What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual? Little to none. >Do you love me, OP? Yes, now and always fren
>QOTT: eggs probably, there's a ton of ways to make them and they're pretty damn healthy >altQOTT: i'm pretty good! been focusing on studying for exams and as a result had less time to talk to friends and such, that's driving me a little mad but other than loneliness i'm keeping healthy what's better, american or british pancakes?
Hunter Rodriguez
>what's better, american or british pancakes? obviously I'm gonna say fluffy American pancakes are the best, but british pancakes are pretty good too
Hudson Wood
check'd >QOTT: What is your favorite breakfast food? Tocino, the Filipino kind. Along with rice and other Filipino breakfast foods, of course! >AltQOTT: How are you, user? Like actually? Your mental health good? You keeping fit? Making sure to clean your room and keep your dishes washed? I feel pretty numb most of the time and don't really get much enjoyment from anything anymore. My room is a mess and I hate myself. I like vidya and consooming media to distract myself though
I will stab anyone that says British pancakes are superior. I bet they don't even have real maple syrup
Andrew Martin
>i will stab anyone a traitor to your own kind, eh? hehe i prefer them over american but maybe i've just never had proper american ones
Jaxon Parker
The US has a huge number of terrible pancake house chains, but you can always get the good shit whenever you find a place that looks like the diner from Twin Peaks
Their skin color, their sense of humor, their culture, appearance, language, family/work values, etc I grew up around them as well as cubans and dated one [spoiler]who passed away[/spoiler]
Anthony Sanders
you like mudskins and loud music? i just want a white lover, i need some vanilla ice cream ;_;
Ayden Richardson
Hola anoncito gringo
Evan Gray
>you like mudskins and loud music? Exactly Plenty of white fish in the sea, good luck anonchan h-hola
Carson Smith
it's weird, the culture is kinda crappy and i can't understand the appeal of the mutt appearance but, it's fine, you do you anonito
Cooper Ward
Gimme some advice anons.
>chat up someone on grindr >we hit it off >can't host because I Iive with family >he can't host because family is visiting for the week >we sext and shit >afterwards talk about life, etc >his family leaves >try and set up times to meet, watch a movie etc >he keeps kinda avoiding setting a solid plan >been about 2 weeks now >even floated meeting at a coffee shop >kinda flakes on that too
Should I just ghost at this point? I get its kinda scary meeting a stranger, but I hate texting.
>Dude, just talk to the guy and have fun. Sitting around imagining hownit will be talking to him will do nothing but make it weirder. I have of course tried to talk to him, but he ghosted me, sorry if I didn't make this clearer in my first post. He found me on the tagmap. He said that he had a friend that he had feelings for, and that he would try to get with him. We had a nice and sexy conversation about [spoiler] scat [/spoiler] , we even agreed that we would go to a convention together. I just haven't seen him online since and he changed his username three days afterwards. He hasn't responded to my message that I sent after that. If I at least know he's taken then I can stop hoping. As I say, what I'm looking for is so hard to find, otherwise I would have found someone else by now.
I'm guessing that he's scared of meeting up and it not working out.
Ayden Cooper
Does /bigen/ still jack off to their exes?
Jonathan Stewart
no, they're ugly, pro-porn is better
Caleb Cooper
>QOTT My favourite breakfast is Quaker's instant porridge or Ready Brek. Both are filling and you can add nice stuff as well. Jam on brown bread is tasty too. >AltQOTT My mental health is probably worse than its been all year but luckily I don't live alone so while my room is messy it isn't some disgusting hovel. My GP is useless and my anxiety makes accessing care extra hard, just got a lot of stuff in my head but I'll manage as always.
I fucked two Mexican girls, both fat because I am not attractive enough to get girls who don't have self-esteem issues. But man, they both had a huge ass and hot moans.
I want to fuck a Mexican twink too and was rejected by this twunky guy with a bubble butt and nice abs which hurt a lot. Every other Mexicab gay I've met has been a top unfortunately
Does anyone know of any hugboxy imageboards for anachans and other crazies because im officially at the level where I dont need advice i just need hugbox and pity so I don't shoot myself
>be me >like girls and femboys >this well groomed tall nice smelling man sits down next to me >get too shy to even look at my phone I'm in the middle of the food chain
>'straight except for femboys' to bottom pipeline lmao that's literally me you should look for a lgbt+ support group near you
Ethan Long
# # I should have said twinks perhaps to be more accurate. I don't want to fuck men I like frotting and exchanging blowjobs.
Anthony Butler
French toast is the most based breakfast food, don't even @ me. Even just getting it from the ihop is great. Why do people eat anything other than breakfast food?
>Leslie, people are stupid.
>Making sure to clean your room and keep your dishes washed? With ever passing year i become more convinced that I am the only adult that does this. The number of apartments I've been to that have garbage everywhere, clothes thrown on the floor, months worth of shit splattered on the bathroom mirror, disgusting bathtubs, sinks and toilet bowls, etc, is staggering. What is with all of these cave beasts that just live in their own filth
That's how it goes: anime 'traps' -> femboys -> twinks -> twunks -> hairier, bigger men -> being a bottom. Many such cases!
Jason Parker
I want to suck a twink's dick but big hairy men are scary and ugly
Chase Bennett
Is there such a thing as being “functionally straight” when being bi?
My preference leans so heavily towards women that my interest in men feels more like a fetish.
Cameron Mitchell
>What is with all of these cave beasts that just live in their own filth I'll go ahead and guess that its either mental illness or maybe a decline in people being house proud. Like sometimes I can't maintain a tidy room but unwashed dishes or stained toilets just gross me out way too much to ignore.
> big hairy men are scary and ugly Do you dislike masc guys in general or just hairy ones? Lots of hair is a major turnoff for me but I do like bigger guys even if they are intimidating.
Don't really know. I've had a crush on a guy in my class for a while and now he's starting to get more muscle I kinda like him more. But he still has that young, hot kinda look. Definitely not one of those people who want zero hair, and femboys turn me off
Jack Cox
I'm like this but from the other side, I get the urge to absolutely wreck/dom twinky transbians and maybe extreme level femboys occasionally and leave them ruined messes without letting them touch me or getting off myself in the encounter
I'd only let a woman touch me, am only romantically interested in women, and would only ever want a wife
I don't know if it's even worth calling myself bi, it would confuse people because I look and act so dykey and only date women
Isaiah Gutierrez
that's just hating men and enjoying power, not bisexuality
Brandon Long
Your crush sounds like a twunk to me, totally get why you'd like him more now as muscle with a pretty face is a nice combo.
Jason Ross
I can understand that. It’s actually weird for me too, because I really like androgynous/tomboyish looking women (although my taste in women is rather broad in general). I also only want a wife and only find myself romantically drawn to women. I do have male fuckbuddies though, but IDK if it’s worth calling me bi because I feel nothing for said fuckbuddies when I’m not horny. I also want biological children, so women have a major advantage for me there.
IDK why, but women just seem to have that extra “something” that men don’t. Though I can’t put my finger on what it is.
Luis James
ok but I do get into it and would strap down and touch dick I don't hate them either, I just like fucking them up. yes it probably has something to do with the m/f power flip but still
Ryan Collins
>male fuckbuddies that's pretty bi, you don't have to be romantically into men to be so
hard agree on women being the whole package but I am biased. wish it was as easy to pick them up though
Tyler Ward
>What is with all of these cave beasts that just live in their own filth A lot of times, crippling anxiety and depression. I can relate though. I have a friend or two like this. It's disgusting. I would never not vaccuum my carpet for more than 6 months, especially not with a cat!
You and me both, sister. I love women so much it’s unreal. Interesting to learn that even lesbians/bi girls have a harder time picking up girls too. I always assumed women were just more on their guard around men. Still, I have noticed women seem to like me a lot when I have some banter with them.
Samuel Russell
oh god, we have an absolute shit show of a time trying to functionally flirt with each other. I hate the useless lesbo stereotype and how wlw lean into it but there’s an element of truth there. women are so naturally handsy and flirty with one another that it’s near impossible to make it go anywhere
I have a mini crush on one of my coworkers and she constantly brings up being gay around me, holds my hands, touches me along the back and thighs, etc and I don’t do jack shit about it because I can’t tell if she’s actually flirting or just being friendly and touchy. it’s hell lmao
Christopher Gomez
I never learned how to talk to other people and life is so fucking unfair as it is. Why can't I have been a human instead of this worthless incompetent monstrosity. Why can't I not have been an autistic mute
>you should look for a lgbt+ support group near you But that involves talking to people about my problems in real life and thats scary
Grayson Lee
You should probably just come clean with her to clear everything up. Best case scenario, you get a gf out of it.
Ryder Barnes
she’s my coworker though, I can’t really ask her out unless I want to be reported to HR and if I say I’m into her I then have to deal with that every day
this also happened at my last job with another gay receptionist but that time she confessed to me and I got to pull her into an empty exam room and push her up against the door though so it’s not totally hopeless
>QOTT English muffins with bacon, scones, Full English, pancakes. Scrambled eggs with onion, tomatoes, oregano, basil. Usually I just skip it or eat cereal out of convinience though. >AltQOTT Been struggling lately to be honest. My summer is looking very uncertain, I've got an identity crisis going on (or several maybe?), I've got several important decisions to make and not enough information to 'properly' make any of them, generally been feeling very lonely since (at the very least) Easter, I feel like I'm getting burned out both in uni and in work, with exams coming up as well. I want to pick up some artistic skills/hobbies (get better at playing guitar, learn singing, learn music theory, learn how to draw, learn pixel art, learn game dev, get into writing (maybe writing about video games?), streaming, etc.), but they all seem like insurmountable tasks. There is a ray of light though, a person I befriended (or at least I hope so) recently, whom I really like, but I don't see them much. Hanging out with them was maybe the best time I've had in a year or probably more than a year. I just wish it happened more often. Or that I had more friends to hang out with. I feel for you. Were there any signs leading up to him ghosting you? Or were you just vibing and lost contact all of a sudden? When things like that happen, I just try to imagine that there are just some unknown independent factors at play, but deep down it always hurts and I just can't avoid situations like this contributing to me thinking I'm just an unlikable person, no matter what I consciously tell myself. I hope you find someone you vibe with soon, maybe even irl
Bi guy here, married to a hot girl. She knows I lean both ways (more towards women), and has mentioned some times arranging something with another guy, and have fun the three of us. She gets the hots thinking about it and seeing me play with a guy and us doing a little cute train with him, but this is usually followed by uncertainty. I always joke a bit about it and don't go ahead because I have all the fun with her, including any ass play my heart (and butt) desires. This has been an idea on our heads for some 5 years now. Should we go ahead, or does that uncertainty have the possibility of becoming jealousy and marring the relashionship? I don't know if I'd be completely cool with another guy having fun with her, although it seems extremely erotic at first.
>tl;dr: be bi guy with hot wife, happily married. We talk about inviting another man and having fun with him, should we do it or will it be bad for our relashionship?
I'm coming up on a year since breaking up w/ my toxic ex.
Situation on the ground: user #1 stonewalling me emotionally. a big let-down since we agreed to open an honest communication while practicing mono-poly relations user #2 no longer interested in mono-poly relations while they pursue a monogamous crush. possibility of casual sex in the future (which is great! I like sex and pleasure as well as solid emotional connections) user #3, gym buddy, celibate w/ me and awfully slow to connect but definitely some chemistry there and they may be non-monogamous. user #4 long distance, monogamous and mentally ill much of the time but we are attracted like magnets and speak frankly w/ each other.
are any of you monogamous? would you ever date a polyam person?
I'm Completely monogamous. I could date a poly person, but I wouldn't take the relashionship far. I'd just date.
Jayden Walker
happy to discuss. If you think you are monogamous, then feel free to try polyam but notify everybody involved of where your head's at. If you know you're monogamous, I wouldn't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. You may set yourself up for heartache. And if your partner is polyam and you're mono, it can work, though the likelihood of relationship satisfaction is p low. I'm not an expert, I'm just a beginner but that's the understanding that I've been getting.
Foreskin restoration device arrived today, courtesy of the bf. Time has come to get back the pp hoodie. We will be restoring together, although he has a year or so head start on me and already has some decent rollover.
>But that involves talking to people about my problems in real life and thats scary Iktf. Maybe just try going once if you think you could manage, it'd probably help to have people to talk to and won't be as scary once you actually get there.
Interesting proposition but if they weren't around there'd not be many people to have sex with. Seems like a lot of talent and experience would be lost too.
>Foreskin restoration device Ngl that sounds like the kinda thing that'd just have a placebo effect but if it worked for your bf then good luck using it, hopefully you'll get the results you want. I'll have to look into them because I'd be curious to see how they actually work.
They definitely work, it's pretty much just targeted skin stretching and growth. There are lots of online resources for it. I'd like to get to the point of having hard coverage so I can get full gliding functionality back
Both >I fucked two Mexican girls, both fat Man you are lucky, but then again i have a fat fetish. Sorry about the rejection, he sounds like a real qt
Jaxon Foster
Fuck no. I'm the skinniest guy around here and my facial hair is not making me look any better. But I'm going to change that by the end of the year with my savings by getting some weight and try Lazer/electro for the hair.
Tyler Gray
Nah. I've got a klinefelter ass bodytype but at 5'8
Angel Hughes
twinkhon harley twinkhon harley !!
John Sanchez
>tfw bullied by a foid into giving up equipment at the gym
i miss lookin like hoonie, i'm like a moribund twink :L
Christopher Taylor
Many such cases
Noah Rodriguez
i'm still straight even with all the gay porn consumption, it's mostly twunk x twunk stuff anyway
Evan Wood
More like the bottom of the food chain Literally me but Im missing my top
Jace Martin
>Were there any signs leading up to him ghosting you? Or were you just vibing and lost contact all of a sudden? We had a 40 minute convo, then a 75 minute convo the next day. We both enjoyed them. As the conversation happened, we gradually mutually agreed that we would meet up. The only reason that I can see that he would ghost me, is that he is probably going to see if he can start a romantic relationship with his long-term friend. If he is doing that then I fully understand, but what if he isnt? That would suck.
Dominic James
meh it could be a lot worse, I want a little bit more upper body size and way bigger legs I'm mostly just unhappy with how difficult I find it to eat more, which is required to actually make progress
>would you ever date a polyam person? kinda what user said , I'd be open to dating, but I doubt anything more serious could work. Luckily I haven't met a poly person who I actually want to spend a long term relationship with
I'm sorry a foreskin what...
I'm not totally satisfied with it, but I am much happier with it than I was during covid. Switched up my workout routine and am now feeling happier with myself day by day.
>How are you, user? Like actually? Your mental health good? You keeping fit? Making sure to clean your room and keep your dishes washed?
Trying to keep up the workout routine, but seeing my body is pretty demotivating. Last time I took a picture of myself shirtless I looked revolting. If you took the average XXY male, shrunk them down to 5'8, and gave them endless body hair you'd get me. It's why I relate to FTMs, because my tits won't go away and my hips form a fucking shelf. Fat always goes to my stomach, but I keep avoiding the crunches necessary to flatten myself out. Not even overweight, it's just any amount of fat does not look good on me
Colton Hill
it's more about frailty and bizarre proportions that aren't womanly or manly than having a penis - more muscle needed and more boobs needed
Noah Garcia
you're really cute
Levi Lewis
thanks I guess, I mostly just look like a normal skinny guy if I'm not naked though 6'2 >very cute and very smooth, I'd hit it thank you, I also really like the pictures you post
Lucas Allen
>it'd look much better if i had a vagina I disagree (no I'm not a chaser)
Colton Richardson
>Qott1 Cum (I'm not a big breakfast guy, maybe chicken and waffles?) >Qott2 Cum (not really anything no) >Altqott No to all
Jaxon James
>1/2 waffles are tied with the national dish of my country of ancestry >alt just now rebounding from a deep and paralyzing depressive episode that began around october and boy it's been a rocky ascent. returning to exercising is probably helping. my room is a disaster but deep spring cleaning is in progress. thanks for asking
Andrew Young
lick
>I'm sorry a foreskin what... It does exactly what it says on the tin
The details of your figure arent going to be visible if youre just wearing normal clothes, thats normal for anyone. Unless youre wearing tight clothes, which you should.
youtu.be/dziJoaj4RrI It's been a minute, I'm tired and things hurt but might as well check in again, how are things. >QOTT: What is your favorite breakfast food? I'm real partial towards breakfast burritos but also real good french toast has me weak. >QOTT2: What is a breakfast food or breakfast tradition that you or your family/friends have? Is there something special you do regularly? Maybe a meal you have on a special day of the year? etc. etc. There's a cute corner breakfast place right next to my apartment that my boyfriend and I frequent and also know a few people there so it's nice. >AltQOTT: How are you, user? Like actually? Your mental health good? You keeping fit? Making sure to clean your room and keep your dishes washed? I dunno, accomplished a lot of what I've wanted for the semester but I somehow feel worse, empty, sick, tired. I'm staying relatively fit, trying to clean my room, dishes aren't too clean because handwashing becomes an issue with a small sink and overwhelms me. I don't know I'm real dysmorphic about it and even when others say I look nice or handsome or muscular it doesn't really change anything. I just need to get over it though and live. explain. Nice and lean lookin' good, be proud.
if that body inspires dysmorphia i should feel even worse about myself than i already do
Jordan Williams
>Unless youre wearing tight clothes, which you should I do, but it's actually pretty hard to even find pants that are comfortable and also tight which is part of why I'd like bigger legs >Nice and lean lookin' good, be proud. thanks you also look good, lower stomach area is especially nice
David Ward
Youre gorgeous
another 10 out of 10 who doesnt like their body
Its a fact of clothes buying that whatever you get off the rack isnt going to fit you perfectly, because its designed for the 'average' body. This is especially true in the US. If you want your clothes to fit you right, you need to get them tailored
>QOTT: What is your favorite breakfast food? Hashbrowns, hands down. Love them shits. >QOTT2: What is a breakfast food or breakfast tradition that you or your family/friends have? Once a month, me and my buddies meet up at a local diner and just shoot the shit over some food. >AltQOTT: How are you, user? Like actually? I'm doing alright, actually. Getting trips into the range has really helped clear my head of some rather ugly thoughts, as has getting a better job. >What is with all of these cave beasts that just live in their own filth For real. I'm not exactly a neat freak, but I refuse to let things get to the point where the recommended cleaning tool is a flamethrower. It's alright, I guess. Don't much care for my left knee, though.
I apologize don't take it as a reason to hate yourself just realize it as a result of awful self-perception and a way you shouldn't go. Bodily self-love is important and shouldn't be a result of a current situation but of your resolve to change it. Thank you, it's the area I was able to work on the most when I was only doing bodyweight exercises. Thank you, reading this kind of rattled me into wanting to get out of this mindset.
I appreciate you guys all saying this shit I need to get over it and be grateful.
Evan Diaz
bodypost?
Christopher Anderson
if I didn't let it go to shit over the winter I would
Hudson Martin
do you have pictures from before?
Thomas Hill
no need to apologize. the main thing preventing me from bodily self-love is that I've been so inconsistent with training and diet over the years (decade), and that in recent memory I've looked a whole lot better than I currently do. I fucking hate backtracking and putting up numbers in training I first touched 6 years ago.
am I? thanks lol I'll take your word for it I fixed the settings
Matthew Roberts
Oh damn, you are cute
Luis Clark
Not at all, I've always been skinny and used to be really happy but over the past year I went full auschwitzmode. I hope that weight gain + hormones will finally make me happy if I can manage to pull it off. Sucks because I had a nice body pre-hrt and would look way better now if I'd not lost so much weight.
>unsee. lmao that first pic caught me off gaurd (so did that last one... but for research purposes)
David King
i never browse this general but i occasionally see these bandit images while scrolling through the board and i just want to say i appreciate them and enjoy whenever i come across them :)
No. I used to be Any Forums and an athlete... with an athlete's body. But ever since Rona I've put on some extra padding... and now I'm determined to get in great shape, again.
My main motivation? I hook up with a lot of masc4masc gays. You know how those standards are. People say I have a pretty/cute face, and I want to have a banging body to go along with it. Yes, I am motivated by the standards set by smooth, muscular gay pornstars. Yes, I realize that this is unhealthy. Yes, I realize that this is vain and shallow. No, this won't stop me from trying.
>ooo what were your findings? need more research material, do some more in depth studying.
Carter Bailey
rip anonymity
Carter Harris
hehe pfff who? idk who that is...
Christopher Hall
yes you're right, small sample size
fun fact: that was merely a semi
Isaiah Morgan
no, but i also don't know what im going for also i tend to pick up/drop workout routines so im stuck twink mode for the moment
Sebastian Stewart
being active for the sake of it isn't the most efficient workout routine but it will still contribute to an improved appearance. nothing wrong with twink mode either...
Wyatt Rogers
>qott1: i like choclate cream bread and black tea for breakfast >qott2: we always eat silesian sausage for christmas >qott3: quite decent, compared to the past years, and still getting better. fitness helps a lot. my hair is finaly long enough for a sturdy ponytail or bun.
Hunter Howard
no one cares
Robert Morris
skinnyfat is cureable. first muscle building with diet fix, then weightloss through cardio. ipl can help with bodyhair.
Colton Hill
finding pants for a trained butt is difficult too. the average jeans model must have no ass.
Ian Sullivan
lol OP asked literaly
and you are the one taking time to answer where you could have just skipped my post.
how are you doing?
Ian Wilson
the most important thing to remember when looking for an xf is to just beeee yourself. in fact, you should even b.e. entirely yourself as much as you can be. it's not that hard desu
>tfw literally look like this image but with tits No I hate my body Cute >Luckily I haven't met a poly person who I actually want to spend a long term relationship with Kek What’s stopping you from finding someone? Isn’t it obvious No, I feel nothing towards her anymore
>QOTT: What is your favorite breakfast food? probably just eggs sunny side up with a lot of pepper and buttered toast (salted butter) if I'm feeling real cheeky, I'll spread some nduja on the bread instead of butter, dipped in yolk it's heaven >AltQOTT: How are you, user? Like actually? Your mental health good? You keeping fit? Making sure to clean your room and keep your dishes washed? I'm fat, depressed, lonely, anxious, I let the dishes pile up but not to the point where they start rotting, I know I should exercise but I'm a lazy fuck and the world outside is scary worst thing about it is I don't have it that rough, but I'm so sad and anxious all the time got a good job I'm happy doing and good at, good family relationship, friends, I'm organizing and running games for them I just feel trapped in my fucking head, unattractive, unable to evolve, I'm already 27 and I'm not getting better, I need to get sober but I don't know how, I don't know if I can handle the world without drugs and I feel like it's pointless to even try because I'll just get the same results as always, but I won't even be high to soften the blows this is fucking pathetic
Austin Hughes
i have no exes
William Walker
spent the night at my fwbs house ^_^ we didn’t do anything but snuggle all night long lol gotta say i’m pretty content
my room is a mess rn which does actl reflect my mental state. but i do keep fairly active. my current goal is to be able to do 15 pullups with no rest in between and proper form (chest to bar, straightening arms entirely in between, no kipping). and maybe to get a bigger butt. and to run 2.4km (1.5miles?) in less than 10min. but that will take some time. i'm not 100% satisfied but i am quite happy with where i am.
i'm slowly coming to a better relationship with my body i still yearn for that impossibly thin stick aesthetic but i do enjoy having some muscle and physical fitness.
i do still hate how thick my leg and pit hair gets tho it's such a pain in the ass i'm asian lol >premarital cuddling you whore
>all these posts reminding me how much more attractive than me everyone is >they're not even satisfied with themselves I'm going to fucking kill myself but it would be nice to stab all of you before I go.
Dominic Taylor
this this this
Kevin Morgan
Makes me want to stay in the closet and not even talk to other LGBT people cause I'm going to be the black sheep.
