>be me, ftm passoid
>stealth to everyone but cis bf (obvious reason), he only knows my chosen name, etc
>decide to visit my estranged family, repair the bridge somehow, bring bf
>mum deadnames me at one point, bf heard it
>still fix the situation somewhat
>later that night, about to fall asleep w bf
>"you know user, deadname is a pretty name"
Is he still salvageable or do I need to hit the kill switch now
Ouch, that must've hurt
>incapable of resolving issues with people directly
>blogpost about it to strangers online
You definitely pass as a retarded woman.
It was probably an off handed comment that he wasn’t even thinking too much about
Nobody else will love you and you know it. Fag.
why would you hurt someone who was so close to you that they came with you to meet your family?
he loves you, thats not a bad thing
jesus fuck people dont know what love is, empty cold hearts everywhere
i dont belong in this world lol
If you are this retarded and cant solve shit, yes leave him so he gets to be with someone better
It did. My blood went cold. I'll bury it and pretend it never happened
Trips of truth...?
Thing is, will he respect my name still? Imagine he says it again.
It is all resolved, I'm just worried bf will mention it or say the deadname again
Your feelings weren't wrong. I fully understand you. It wasn't a very thoughtful thing of him to say, hopefully it won't happen again
This is the most fembrained shit ever
enjoy your straight bf
This is very silly, he just wanted to praise you, what's wrong? He's not disrespecting you or anything.
Whenever I think mtf brainworms are bad, I get reminded that ftm brainworms exist
this is like the tenth post from a pooner i've seen in the past 2 days that's the most annoying womanbrained shit ever, is this all one spiteful mtf/terf larping or something? is every single pooner seriously just a woman?
dog... why are you thinking about ending it already? he did it once. if he does it again, tell him you don't like it and explain why. if he keeps doing it, THEN hit the kill switch.
a single fucking comment is so meaningless ffs
"Woe is me" is like the anthem of all you faggots
Instead of begging sympathy on the internet, how about you pretend just for a second that you are on your own side?
Act like a man if you want to be one you fucking loser fucks sake
I don't get why someone would compliment their partner's deadname. More often than not there are only almost negative memories associated with it and the name change was for a reason. Telling their partner that their deadname is beautiful might seem innocent at first but it is very inconsiderate.
>haha didn't you know the name people called you when you couldn't live as yourself and wanted to die everyday is actually really nice? just saying (:
>calling a gayden a faggot
you just gave her bean flicking material for the next 2 weeks, way to go user
*almost only negative memories
>is every single pooner seriously just a woman?
Yes.
Comments like this are a problem, in that they actually take OP seriously, and I'm surprised to even see them on this Smithsonian TikTok exchanging & critiquing talkplace
OP, you should not be so fragile as to think of breaking up with someone because they said words to you
Since you are, it is your problem that you have to deal with, not an issue with your bf
Why wouldn't I take him seriously? Words can hurt people, it's obvious
>Words can hurt people
this has to be a terf or mtf bait thread no fucking way an aiden is this poony
Man up
I'm not OP