Which would be worse for a straight tranner?

Which would be worse for a straight tranner?
>bf cheats on you with a cis woman
>bf cheats on you with another trans woman

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The first one would make me feel like I'm inferior to cis women while the second would make me feel like I was just a fetish. I think they're equally bad 2bh

lmao yeah, its almost like getting cheated on is universally shitty

I’d be sad about both, but I always tell my bf he’d always have a pass to be with other girls as long as it wasn’t emotional for him and he told me about it (he thinks I’m crazy for that, never used it, but anything to keep him), so while it’d be difficult I’d try to not show it too much.

I know I don’t have some things that cis girls can offer, so I wouldn’t mind as much maybe. I understand sometimes a man wants pussy, that’s fine, but then I’d probably prefer if it was with a sex worker or something, just to be sure he still only loves me. With a trans girl, I would feel like there’s competition between us two, I know I’d compare everything between us to know why he would want to be with her rather than me, even if just for sex, and I’d try to become better than her at this. If I can’t, I’d try to compensate with my other qualities. It’d definitely make me spiral a lot more than a cis girl I feel.

My bf’s bi so there’s always the possibility of it being with a guy, but that I’d just find hot and want to watch lol

If my bf cheated on me with a guy, I would legitimately kill myself

But why, for me it’d be hot to see him top some guy. Some fem twink or something. There’s no competition with me, cause I’m not a guy, I know he’ll always be heteroromantic. But also I’m terminally fujoshi-brained, so I get it’s not everyone’s cup of tea.

Being cheated on with another mtf > being cheated on with another woman > being cheated on with a fucking man
From bad to worse.

>it’d be hot to see him top some guy
That's not what he's going to want to do if he tries out his "gay side." It never is. You're gonna see him get rammed like a little bitch and lose himself in prostatic submissive ecstasy under a stud top. It'll be like you're not even in the room

why is that the worst?
i have a trans gf but recently i've been thinking about dudes a lot. i feel guilty about it...

Men fulfill something that I can not. I once had a bf cheat on me with another trans woman and that sucked but at the end of the day I stil mogged her. When another bf cheated with a dude I fell apart because I wasn't musculature and hairy (not that I want to be that but you get the point). It's competition that I cannot win. I never had someone cheat on me with a woman so placing that in the middel was mostly just a guess.

i see. sorry to hear that happened to you. what if the dude wasn't muscular and hairy? would it still be that bad, or do you think it would be on par with another trans girl to you?

If they were a scrawny bugman then I wouldn't care as much. Basically the worse the competition the worse I would feel. A stunning trans woman would make me more mad jealous than a total loser male so it's all relative

Forgot to say but to add: personality also plays a big role in this. One of the most hurtful things to me was that he found someone elses personality better/more fitting. (even though they broke up within MONTHS but thats besides the point).

For me, I would feel like my bf saw me as a man the whole time

I wouldn't leave my bottom for a cuter bottom, but I might leave my bottom for one who'd make a much better life partner

i would be way more sad if it was another trans girl, because then i would know he liked me more because i was trans. people get all worked up about getting left for cis women but i don’t see that as an issue. cis women get left for other cis women all the time. it just shows you’re in the same dating pool which is a hell of a lot better than feeling used by a chaser

>That's not what he's going to want to do if he tries out his "gay side." It never is
Why do bottoms automatically assume everyone wants to bottom?

Based
Idk how trans girls fuck with bi men

I know this because I'm a top. When guys get "curious" they're curious about dick

i don't think there is a worst option here, cheating is always shitty and the dude should get his balls cut off

I’d say cheating on me with a tranner is worse because it would make me feel inadequate as a tranner, but with a cis woman, I understand it’s harder to compete with that.