Why is that so many of us grew up being pressured by women to dress up for them when we came out to them as trans?

why is that so many of us grew up being pressured by women to dress up for them when we came out to them as trans?
it is objectifying, isn’t it?
i know i heard from other trans women that we feel like people see us as dolls. i know i feel that way.
i guess a radfem was hearing about it, and she said not to try to control women sexuality.
is it a sexuality?
but why don’t radfems stay out of this? they want nothing to do with us anyway

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I've had girls wanting to straighten out my hair because mine are naturally curly

>but why don’t radfems stay out of this? they want nothing to do with us anyway
Meddling with trans women's business is the only relief they have from calling everyone a misogynist on twitter.

they didn’t disrupt my curls.
but they wanted to put makeup on me and put me in ladies’ swimwear even though i told them my bulge would show.
it was really embarrassing.
and they compared me to models.
i guess that part was nicer

that seems a little creepy of them.
though, to be fair, i hear some trans people are creeping on their twitter activities.
i still can’t believe one of them told me not to disrupt women’s sexualities after i said i don’t deserve to be objectified.
so out of left field wtf

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what do you mean growing up? are you a youngshit?

i wasn't out to most ppl irl until i was well into hrt, but for years my female friends would treat me like a doll bc i was the faggy feminine boy who would let them. it always sort of hurt but i never said anything bc i knew they didn't mean anything bad by it. they were just having fun.
if i had to guess what's up with it, though, it's that we (feminine or less-masculine amabs as a group) are interesting to women bc we're not the way we're supposed to be, or some such reason. if they can make a boy look like a girl, (or just silly) that's fun! if they can make a boy trying to become a girl look like a girl, that's fun! i imagine it's just them finding the idea of taking one extreme (binary male gender) and pushing it to the other (binary female gender) exciting. when i think abt it, i would too, if i were them.

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no, i mean while i was still growing up, and even early into my transition

idk i always had friends telling me shit like “i have a dress that would look really good on you”

yea, i always suspected it was fascination.
that radfem calling it a sexuality was full of shit.
probably just an excuse for women to treat us like playthings.
i know they don’t mean any harm by it, but i’ve been through it enough times that it really fucked with me