Tfw love tranner gf but shes emotionally immature...

Tfw love tranner gf but shes emotionally immature, refuses to learn communication and coping skills in therapy no matter how hard I push for it. Instead our relationship is toxic and it feels like I am her caretaker.

We also dont have sex as we're bottom massively subby bottoms but she teases me sexually and says how how hot I am. Try to convince her to open the relationship as she's had experience with open relationships in the past but her partner was unfair and got mad at her even though they both agreed to it. Now she views all open relationships as trash.

I was honest with her that I wanted my sexual needs met and that I did find someone and I enjoyed my time with them. Now she hates me and thinks I'm the devil and only out to hurt her.

Idk what to do desu. I feel unhappy in this relationship but want to work on it because I genuinely do care about her. but I also want my needs fulfilled..

Inb4 kys cheater scum n -word cunt

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dump her
if you wanna be kind explain that it's because she behaves like a child and you're not into CG/l

leave her

I consider it but I feel im insanely codependent on her and also want to make sure she doesnt struggle in life as prior to me she had no job and was bouncing around living places.

>prior to me she had no job and was bouncing around living places.
not your problem

well, in that case you're stuck forever because you adopted a leech and aren't willing to protect yourself from her

It feels like it is because prior to dating we were friends and she says if we do break up over this she wants nothing to do with me anymore.

She was never really a financial leech she had money and has paid her way most of the time.

and? stop being so autistic and live for yourself for once in your goddamn life

>I was honest with her that I wanted my sexual needs met and that I did find someone and I enjoyed my time with them.
"I was honest in breaking her trust"
I mean you're obviously dysfunctional, but admitting to cheating doesn't change what you did.

why not leave her first if you decide to fuck someone else?
You are disgusting and I hope you do the right thing and break up with her so she can find someone to be happy with >:(

leeches can be emotional too user

This wasnt some recent revelation that I felt pent up all the time. This has been an ongoing issue.

>uhhhhh we've been dysfunctional such a long time and that justifies me cheating and telling her about it
No, not really.

Talk to her and wear your heart on your sleeve. Telling someone to go to therapy might seem disingenuous to them, like
>I don't wanna talk to you so go talk to this person who pretends to care about people for a living

She claims she hasnt felt happy for most of her life and I'm not sure she's capable of it if she remains emotionally immature.

look at how deceptive you are in explaining that you cheated on her.
>I was honest with her that I wanted my sexual needs met and that I did find someone and I enjoyed my time with them. Now she hates me and thinks I'm the devil and only out to hurt her.
you manipulative freak.

>i asked to open our relationship and she said no, i still went to see other people
i hate tranners so fucking much
and stop acting like you're a victim here, you cheated on her

I didnt say that to excuse it. Obviously if you don't know the difference between explaining and excusing you too are pretty immature.

Black and white thinking is characteristic of bpd. Please don't comment in this thread if you're not going to be helpful.

nta but you're a retard user

Great deflection, retard.

You are the one acting like a bpdtard.

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For bringing this issue here I guess I am. Half of you are fucking khhv who would get a sunburn if you opened the blinds to your shecaves

>Black and white thinking is characteristic of bpd
you're just trying to find excuses for yourself and your retarded behavior, you think you can do whatever you want and never face consequences, you're a shitty person and you should break up with that girl now before making it worse

If she wants nothing to do with you then it's doubly not your problem. If someone entertains the idea of cutting all ties with you they're not very loyal. Of course, you cheated, so loyalty seems to not be either of your strong points. It's probably for the best if both of you part ways amicably here

kek the bpd shows her true colors, seething she got called out for her attempts at manipulating.
kys, you cheated and trying to "explain it" instead of "excusing it" is fucking retarded.

"Please argue with me so I can berate you and tell you to kill yourself".

There fixed that for you

kys

>you think i'm manipulative, therefore you suffer from Borderline Personality Disorder
extremely manipulative. god damn I feel bad for the girl you're with.

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Gread arguement with what is 1 step short of jak posting

So what? you don't make her happy, cheating while knowing she's not up for an open relationship increases her unhappiness.
Just leave her, we all have to figure out ourselves what makes us happy

if you truly love her you have to let her go. your not on the same level so the relationship wont work out. you can be her friend but she cant be what you want her to be.

Is this what people on here are talking about when they say they have bfs and stuff?

yes this one instance represents everything that has ever been or ever will be

ok thanks

Leave this relationship you cheater, you broke trust there won't be second chance.
Why people like you exist? why can't you just end up relationship if your monkey brain want dopamine hit from sex so much.
If you can't control yourself there is no point in relationships for you.

>"hehe just ignore your needs xD trust me i can jerk off 21 times a week I dont need to cheat"

you have bpd op

Literally break up first next time you feel the need to cheat you dumbshit. Being broken up with is infinitely better than being cheated on.