Accept that you pass, look at the evidence for this in your life - like not getting misgendered, plus the fact you identify with the words "bdd passoid". Start obsessing over being an ugly woman/man instead. I guess you're still technically a BDD passoid at that point but let's face it...
Worrying about being ugly is much more healthy ... and fembrained (sorry ftms).
Just worry about your looks like any other normie, forget about the trans context. It's LITERALLY irrelevant now if you pass. Enjoy it.
>sorry ftms Wait, is it more malebrained to obsess over not passing, then?
Ethan Kelly
no its more malebrained to not worry about looks AS MUCH as worrying about, say, being the manliest strongest hairiest feral beast who could totally beat the rock in hand to hand combat and chop down a tree with nothing but his own elbow grease.
Asher Cooper
i went through this, then i realized why so many teenagers end up with eating disorders when i hit the underweight BMI after being obese. so hard to see yourself how you really are. sigh.
Camden Williams
what if im bdd (as in obsessed with appearance) but def dont pass regardless
Wyatt Hernandez
is there even a word for that? bdd gigahon? lmao
Adam Cox
bdd isn't "obsessed with appearance", bdd is an inability to perceive your body as it actually is
Eli Ortiz
i thought it was an over obsession on appearance / distorted view of your appearance idk i get called bdd but i dont pass
Hunter Clark
wow I've already been doing this, I pass generally but still look like a guy to myself and everyone just tells me "your not.... conventionally attractive...." aka the nice way to say your ugly. I'd honestly prefer to be a cute twink/femboy than be an ugly passing tranny. I really hope ffs helps but I know it isn't magic like that now so I might just rope if it doesn't get better after that, or before I'm 30 because aging makes you uglier, ugh.
John Reyes
it's a distorted or delusional view of your own body or some physical features it's a mental illness and includes an actual inability to accurately perceive reality