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Boymoders with gendered languages, how do you keep yourself from using femenine forms for yourself? I casually almost out myself several times a day.

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I want to begin transition so bad but I am afraid I will get caught by family members or I will be stuck as a boymoder.

I use male forms even in my mind so that I never slip up by mistake in public and call myself a woman
I also think in english sometimes

i misgender myself despite being a woman so i dont think that is really an issue. when raised amab it's kinda hard to get on the habit of referring yourself as a woman all the time

idk it's just kind of easy. On the rare occasions when I talk to someone online in my language, I use fem forms, irl I use masc forms. In my mind? Uhhh I refer to myself as we/you/us. Idk if it's normal or not but that's how my mind works.

>Uhhh I refer to myself as we/you/us
Oh yeah I also do that, I'm

lol I'm glad I'm not the only one
Also
>I also think in english sometimes
I do that too :dd

Russian :)

What's your native language anonette? Mine's polish :)

Russian seems like a nice language! I want to learn it one day but first I'd have to learn cyrillic

I tried learning a gendered language before and is this a serious risk?
I don't see it unless you're talking to yourself in the third person

>anonette
Awwww that's so sweet of you! :3 You changed "user" if I'm not mistaken

>Russian seems like a nice language
It's not an easy one, at least I heard that from people who tried to learn it. I don't know much about polish though, is it easy to learn?

This is a real risk, even when saying "I did something" in polish you gender yourself "Zrobiłem (male)/Zrobiłam (female) coś"
Yup that's exactly what I did, I'm glad you liked it :D

There's a lot of gramatical rules in polish that you have to know to not speak broken polish, I'm sorry I can't go in depth on this because I don't really have the time. It would help if you already speak a slavic langauge.
I'll try to learn russian even if it's hard :)

>This is a real risk
Yess. "I did" in russian would be "Я cдeлaл"(male) vs "Я cдeлaлa"(female)

>I'm sorry I can't go in depth
It's okay lol :d I just wanted to know if you thought it's an easy language or not that's all :)
>a lot of gramatical rules in polish that you have to know to not speak broken polish
It's basically the same for russian I guess
>I'll try to learn russian even if it's hard :)
Good luck! :3 I think it'll be easier for you because you already have experience with gendered language. It's really hard for people who don't.

Thank you :)
I'm not gonna respond for now because I'm busy but I want you to know that you're really nice anonette and I love you :D
Have a good day!

Have a good day too!

i avoid pronouns mentally, and i use passive language in emails (hard to explain in english, but basically putting the emphasis on what was done and not who did it), but i absolutely die inside when someone calls me my irl name or uses he/him with me, though i dont even consider myself trans, more of a femboy

its weird