I'm a lesbian but i think i have an obsession with c*ck and c*m that isn't rly just comphet...

i'm a lesbian but i think i have an obsession with c*ck and c*m that isn't rly just comphet? its detached from men and if transfeminine tops (who are women and i see as women) actually existed i'd be set but I'm not sure what to do with it otherwise

on one hand dating women (cis or trans) i'm happy emotionally and it feels real and i'm actually attracted but i get bored and angsty start thinking abt ch*ating way more than i should

on one hand dating men i get a weird streak of objectifying them and not being able to stand them showing any neediness/vulnerability bc its a huge turnoff. usually at first i feel like im in heat and want s*x w them constantly but the more of their personality they show the more i feel off-put and then we're down to once a week or less and i just want to be with a woman bc I legitimately cant take male emotion seriously 90% of the time

itd be easier to call myself bi but. i think thatd require actually having the capacity to fully feel satisfied w the average person of either standard binary gender (from most unaligned nb ppl I dont rly feel any draw but they exist)

im just a lesbian with a br**ding fetish probably. im 100% attracted to women and femininity but something about raw primal f*cringe hits me in a spot that i cant let go of

rn the way it feels is w women im happy emotionally but unhappy physically and w men im happy physically but unhappy emotionally.

i think a lot abt the idea of if a dominant but feminine-looking transfemme with a high libido (like fucking me EVERY DAY) existed that would cover all bases but so far even the top-acting ones are usually just disguising sub behavior to be more appealing at first early in dating.

im with a woman rn and i love her and i want to stay w her, but everytime i drink i get paranoid abt going out or being around men in general.

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shit larp. delete this thread

autocorrect actually changed my f*cking to f*cringe and im cackling at it

what proof do you want so you'll give me actual useful advice i can use to actually be happy? its 1 am and what prompted me to post this was a dream where my actual DAD was doing shit to me and somehow i was liking it. i want to sort my shit out.

> itd be easier to call myself bi but. i think thatd require actually having the capacity to fully feel satisfied w the average person of either standard binary gender
Not true, BTW. You're still bisexual. Ever heard of the Kinsey scale? Lesbians don't enjoy sex with men. Please stop co-opting our label, ffs.

i was with a man for years and i only super duper enjoyed sex for the first month before he dropped the badass dom act and then it was routine and then it just stopped happening

idk. late bloomer lesbians exist and i dont think im coopting anything. i identified as ace for the majority of the time i was with him and basically all the standard comphet memes

i havent had sex w a man for 8 months. i just fantasize abt it, but they're always detached from any sort of real person. when I see men in public or im hit on im repulsed, legitimately repulsed.

theres like 3% of guys who are actually hot bc of specific traits and i guess id be actually attracted to them. that would make me a kinsey 5. would you say i'm bi? (and im still convinced im a lesbian regardless lol)

also ive NEVER mast*rbated to men. literally never and i think thats the biggest indicator. if I look at porn, its always women.

You aren't a late bloomer lesbian when you admit you enjoy sex with men. You're a bisexual woman with a preference for women romantically and men sexually. Lesbians don't fantasize about sex with men.

Why do you insist on taking a label that doesn't belong to you? It's harmful by encouraging men to keep trying because we might change our mind. You and I do not share the same struggles as I don't get to ever stop being attracted EXCLUSIVELY to women, whereas you can!

thats a great point but unfortunately it doesnt rly help me in any way whatsoever and its wrong. i'll continue calling myself a lesbian

do you have advice.

ur just bi lol. why do u need to try to complicate it or pretend to be something ur not. mb u prefer female bodies and personality and male genitalia. bi either way and u sound silly af. imagine a straight guy saying he gets nervous being around guys when he drinks in case he goes gets fucked by one. then think how silly u sound

Sounds like you're bi, don't worry about it

Sorry, I'm not interested in helping bisexual women who larp as lesbians.

i dont actually think its a great point i just called it a great point to be petty

i feel zero sexual attraction to men. i like being fucked and bred. men arent the only ones capable of doing this

fwiw i kinda get it im a transbian and if i had a female body id like getting filled with cum every so often

Id wanna say your best bet is to get an open relationship and hook up with men when the urge hits every so often but obv its gonna be hard to look at your gf the same way when you got filled with cock and cum the night before. Idk

i appreciate the effort but ill continue doing exactly what i feel like doing and being exactly what i feel i am

will anything that i'll actually bother remembering in the morning be said in this thread

>men arent the only ones capable of doing this
Never said otherwise. Unless you see trans women as men? You yourself started that you enjoy sex with men. lol

Again. Lesbians do not enjoy sex with men. You are bisexual.

sorry i posted before i saw what you said. thank you. i can actually work w this

>Id wanna say your best bet is to get an open relationship and hook up with men when the urge hits every so often but obv its gonna be hard to look at your gf the same way when you got filled with cock and cum the night before. Idk

we discussed poly before but this is basically what i worry about yeah. i dont want her to feel inadequate or less-than. i genuinely love her so much and want to spend w my life w her, but i feel unsatisfied

we've tried straps. it just feels like rubber. boring

God, no wonder lesbians avoid bishits like you. lol

good thing they dont

We do.

pls stop making us other cis bi girl bottoms look bad :/ ur not a lesbian lol cry about it

then im not a bishit bc I don't rly get avoided

keep living your best life and ill keep living mine. we can both exist even if we arent the same

Well you have three options

-get over it and fulfill your fantasy however you can
-negotiate hooking up with a guy with your gf every so often. leave her completely out of it and come home to her asap with flowers and candy and on your knees proclaiming your love and see how she feels
-break up if the above dont work for both of you and live unstably until you get over your coomer fetishes

congrats op, you are a political lesbian and roughly 80% of why even men need feminism

You’re making it difficult to live my life by using my label to appear quirky and oppressed. I don’t get to date and fuck men. I never get to appease my family. I don’t get to hide who I am. And on top of that, you make it harder for people to take me seriously when I come out to them and you give ammo to sexually aggressive men who think lesbians are to be conquered and fucked straight.

You’re gross. And bisexual.

To be fair if theres 0% chance of you dating men you might as well be out as lesbian to everyone who knows you. Bisexual implies you would ever date men
Only the men shes fucking need to know shes bi. And her partner

thank u. 1 is the current method and probably working, 2 might be under consideration eventually but i still dont think id like being w a man again

what i know for sure is i wouldnt leave her for a man or fall in love w one and she has nothing to worry abt on that end

if i met a transfemme top then i do think feelings would actually develop but we could develop into a healthy poly situation or something

lmfao thank you?

Mobile tripfagging is the devil.

if u were my gf i'd beat the shit out of u then dip

i'm sorry your life is difficult but i'm not to blame for it. please feel better soon. if you're the same one who has been talking since the start, please dont talk to me anymore

>i get a weird streak of objectifying them and not being able to stand them showing any neediness/vulnerability bc its a huge turnoff.
Do therapy and find out where this comes from. It sounds like something happened in your childhood that leads you to associate men with being emotionally drained

Have you ever tried making fake cum like warm on the stove? This might help you with your breeding fetish along with dildos

just say cock and cum why do you type like a retard

>be out as lesbian to everyone
Not everyone has that luxury. lol

She's online posting this harmful, false narrative that lesbians can be attracted to and have sex with men. Not really keeping her sexuality confusion to herself.