>Want to come out to psychiatrist (pre-hrt) at 21
>Tell psych im trans, explain why i think so etc.
>He says he agrees with me
>I tell him that however, I do not want to transition as I do not think I will pass
>He tells me to take off mask
>I do.
>He just ends up silent for awhile and then says "Transitioning can have benefits even if you don't pass"
Well it's over isnt it
It probably better not to do it then because people just laugh at you.
My psychiatrist said the same thing. I might kill myself.
Transitioning can have benefits even if you don't pass
It's over bro.
oof but also your psychiatrist sounds based
It is over.
Are you AGP?
Yeah my therapist has been nuking me as well. I don't think any of them have much faith in FFS.
>I do not think I will pass
You say this and then somehow feel shit when someone confirms your thoughts. You were just looking for asspats, not genuine advice
op i hope you keep being you, good job
oh no no no
your therapist is right. transisioning can benefit you even if you won't pass.
that being said, no one can see through time and there's surgeries to help with passing. if you are trans you better do something about it.
The best time to transision is in the past, the second best time is now.
What a fucking joke.
Lol that sucks
>I do not want to transition as I do not think I will pass
This is why he told you that it doesn't matter. If you pass, because he thinks you should transition regardless of whether you think you'll pass or not.
It's over
Damn aren't they supposed to pretend?
mine said the same I pass now
no one knows, keep putting in the work be the person you want to be you'll be happier
If your not willing to put in effort then don't transition.
>talked with a therapist about being trans
oh no no no no
if they needed you to take your mask off to tell, then you can 100% pass with ffs
if he had agreed with your mask on it'd be over
I mean hormones and FFS can do a lot, obvs not passing is really scary and something you maybe want to consider when like, choosing where to live and stuff. I guess you have to try and figure out what'd make you happier?
You're not trans. Accept that you're a man. Act as you like regardless.