Should I just fuck to get rid of trans stuff?

I think maybe fucking an actual girl will turn me straight but I also don't know how I'd achieve that since my dick is pretty small. I mostly jerk off to gay porn, sissy stuff and a little bit of Blacked (so, degenerate things) and I love it until I come back to reality and realize I'm hairy and manly and stuff but since I already look like I look, I think to myself that...maybe fucking girls is all I need to correct myself and be normal? I still have faps sometimes where I think about impregnating women but 98% of the time it's usually porn where I'm submissive and imagine myself getting fucked by big, strong men, preferably black.

Yeah, I know I'm an AGP fetishist or whatever but you know, should I try het sex and have a gf to fix myself? I'm probably not trans at all, just a fetishist.

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Not gonna work. You can act on one side of your sexuality or the other, but you'll always have both AGP and heterosexuality.
Also, being an "AGP fetishist" and being trans is not mutually exclusive.

Having gay sex might be more likely to fix you
I spent the majority of my 20s fucking women and it didn't really help so i can tell you this road doesn't cure shit

I'm sure fucking someone won't fix you, get on hrt. No male libido = no problems, maybe you'll even become a normal person this way.

I am not completely hetero, desu.
How come? Society says gay sex is disgusting and those people are mentally ill but hetero sex is normal.
Why wouldn't if fix stuff? It'll make me cishet.

>It'll make me cishet.
Lol no. You're stuck with your sexuality for life.

What about transness?

I tried fucking a woman and all that ended up happening was me breaking down and shaking because I couldn't mentally do it. Good luck to you though, user.

What do you mean?

If I'm stuck with sexuality for life, does that mean I'm stuck with trans thoughts as well or can I get rid of them?

If you're the AGP type and dysphoric, you're probably stuck for life with some degree of trans thoughts. I've seen people on /r/askAGP say that they're repressing successfully and living a decent life, but my impression is that not one of them found a way to truly get rid of the thoughts, they just learned to live with the pain.

Are you stupid or trolling? This is such a stupid thought that I can't believe people still have it. No you won't fuck your way out of dysphoria. Maybe not the first time or the second time, but soon enough when you try to have sex with a woman as a man you're going to get upset and frustrated that you're not her.

I honestly don't know anymore if I'm stupid or trolling. A part of me says I can become a normal cishet man with a family and a part of me says I can't and should just transition, even if it's not going to be ideal.

You may be able to live like a normal cishet man with a family, but you'll never actually become one. Your choices are to endure some level of these feelings forever or transition.

Dude, no, it isn't going to work! I've been with like five different girls and have had plenty more interested in me, and I'm in a very long term relationship with a girl that I love very much. It doesn't help, it doesn't help! Just like when I was a young child, I still wish I was a girl. I'm pretty close to just telling her and transitioning, I think, I'm slowly going mad under the weight of all the dysphoria and anxiety honestly. Nothing at all makes it go away. I can get so high I can barely think and it's still there, dulled, but scratching at the back of my head. If I masturbate, even with post-nut clarity, I still want it. I've done hardcore mental gymnastics to convince myself I wasn't, but it isn't working and it's falling apart. I feel like there's basically no other option at this point. I've considered transitioning tons of times in the past, but I try to push it away and dismiss it, and it just comes back worse. I think there's really only one option left if I want to stay sane and alive, as much as I don't want to admit it. I think I would REALLY rather have it be anything else, I don't want to be like this.

No, you are just trans. You can try to have some PIV before you stsrt transitioning and get ED, but you should still transition.

I think I tried telling myself it was a fetish and tried to make it into a fetish because it was easier than accepting the truth...

Donmt delude yourself. Gf won't fix you. Feminize yourself baka.

damn i did this and just ended up pretending i was the girl i was with while we were fucking lol. good way to make a girl nut though, you get very in tune with her body and it definitely fulfulled my fantasies of just being a selfless fucktoy for some woman. yes gross story agp et cetera whatever. but i mean go for it, worst case scenario you get to eat some cooch and cuddle

Dumb anecdote but I was in your place once. Was also an incel, so doubly obsessed with having sex with a girl and hoping it would fix everything about me. When I actually got the chance to fuck, couldn't even get hard. I was so fixed on the *idea* of having sex with a girl as a man, I forgot that your body had to want it too. So things got awkward.

At the very least, please make sure you actually want to have sex and it's just not about the idea

But what if it will, you know? Maybe I'm just a man who needs a woman to make him feel whole.
I am not an incel, I just kinda envy women, idk.

didn’t work for me. granted the dissociation wasn’t great.

I REALLY don't think it's going to make it go away... It didn't make it go away for me... I've been with lots of girls and have no shortage of girls still flirting with me, but it doesn't fucking matter. I still just really want to be a girl, it will never go away, I'm stuck like this forever and probably should just transition now before I get too old so I can live a happier life.

>I am not an incel, I just kinda envy women, idk
Yea, but envy of women is also weirdly common among incels. Point is, give it a try but please don't put any weird hopes into sex with a girl