I think I'm transitioning because honestly, I just want more attention. Any other /attentionmaxxers/ here
I think I'm transitioning because honestly, I just want more attention. Any other /attentionmaxxers/ here
Yeah that's me
As a 13 year old I started wondering if I was gay or not and I realised pretty quickly that I wasn't gay I was just looking for attention
So when I was questioning whether I was trans at 19 I realised that hell yeah, I've wanted to be a girl since I was 10 but taking it a step too far and going with trans was just me trying to get attention
Well anyway, I've been manmoding for 4 years and I'm closeted but yeah, unironically I did it for attention it makes me feel special inside
Based
Honestly, I wl never not be salty about not being born a woman for this
Being a woman with any sort of personality that isn't cardboard and at least 5/10 looks in a male space is something I'm jealous of
Wow so am I
Whenever I'm doing one of my hobbies which is usually a male dominated one I often think about how much more attention I'd get if I was a woman doing it and then it makes me sad because I don't pass as a woman, it's made me cry so many times
Like I'll be painting my warhammer 40k models and then I'll think 'If only people saw me as a woman doing this then they'd think I was really special and they'd give me attention' or 'If only people saw me as a woman who liked cool music they'd think I was really cool too but I don't pass and they will only see me as a man or a hon :('
I'm obsessed with thinking about how cool I'd be if I was born as a woman and how much guys would like me, now I'm stuck just posting anonymously on the internet but identifying myself as 'lol im a tranny but' and trying to get guys to think I'm a girl with really cool with based opinions, not one of those lame women/troons
sounds like you need to generate intrinsic self-validation instead of relying on attention from others for it
maybe spend like a year living absolutely alone without talking to anybody so you can cultivate self-respect and self-esteem
>I'm obsessed with thinking about how cool I'd be if I was born as a woman and how much guys would like me, now I'm stuck just posting anonymously on the internet but identifying myself as 'lol im a tranny but' and trying to get guys to think I'm a girl with really cool with based opinions, not one of those lame women/troons
it's sad that I've sometimes fantasized about this, even though I know how ridiculous and bigoted it is
not really. i didn’t want attention growing up. girls wanted me and i wanted boys. didnt know transitioning was a thing until after but after discovering hrt i went for it and then i realized that all men were interested in me so like i never really felt i wanted attention since i always had. does that make sense. but yeah being girl is way better if you are lonely + no girl bullshit
It's not bigoted, everyone knows it's true
At worst it's shallow
>being born a woman for this
bro, just work on your personality
being interesting has nothing to do with your gender
People tell me very often that I am interesting and I don't struggle getting attention
It just sucks knowing if I had the exact same personality but was a cis woman I could have x100 that with no extra effort, stream and people would be fascinated by the existential anomaly I would represent
Of course, if I was born as a ciz woman I would have been socialized completely differently
>It's not bigoted, everyone knows it's true
>At worst it's shallow
it's bigoted to act like women aren't "really cool" and that I'm "one of the good ones"
though I understand it's more complex than that and a lot of women aren't interested in stereotypical male hobbies like programming and war history or whatever
>if I was born as a ciz woman I would have been socialized completely differently
stop repeating this
most parents treat their children equally and let them become the people they choose to be
if you had religious freaks forcing guilt down your throat then i'm sorry you had to go through that, you deserved better
This is a complete lie lmao.
Cannot understand this mindset
Literally the opposite of 'touch grass' lol
yeah, now im detransitioning for attention
its fun
I think it's normal to want the female role (social), that's a huge part of gender dysphoria.
But men don't resent manhood, plenty are satisfied there.
hi garg
kys garg
touch your own mind
wrong imo, especially if your spaces are extremely male dominated. a woman being interested in [X] male brained activity is treated as a deity
Kinda same? Like I have the typical trans origin story of being really into AGP-esque stuff, straight but people always think im gay, really love looking feminine, etc, but a huge part of why im actually starting HRT is because being a girl is such a boost for validation/attention