Been living with the same two dudes for about seven months, both of them are pretty chill, and I like hanging out with them, but the effects of my HRT is starting show now, and i’m worried that the boys are catching on.
One roommate keeps staring at my ass and occasionally making femboy jokes. The other has started calling the housewife after I took over cooking for the two for the most part. There are a few other concerning behaviors but I think these two make me kinda paranoid.
Am I just being a schizo? How do I tell? If they can tell how do I get them off my tail?
>after I took over cooking for the two for the most part why
Aiden Hernandez
because you are the housewife OP accept it :)
Carter Green
we used to take turns at it, but they kinda suck shit at cooking. one can only make spaghetti and children’s meals, the other just manages to make everything he CAN make taste mediocre. no fucking clue how he does it.
tldr: i’m the superior cook
Jaxon Moore
>One roommate keeps staring at my ass and occasionally making femboy jokes >The other has started calling the housewife after I took over cooking cute desu
Ethan Baker
I wished I could be the housewife but I’m good only at cleaning and I can cook stuff to survive. Am jealous op I wanna be called an housewife too
Carson Gomez
Honestly without knowing them better theres no way to tell. I know guys who would make jokes like that to other guys. The one staring at your ass might be catching on/into you though lol. Do you feel threatened or like you're in danger?
Carson Evans
They're gonna know eventually, why are you worried they can tell? Just say nothing and see how it takes before they can't help but ask directly or something instead of just making jokes It also may mean nothing, 2 of my fiends used to joke about me secretly being a trap years back, only started HRT this year
Brody Cox
cute larp
Isaac Russell
suck their dicks
David Morgan
i don’t think i’m in danger or anything? they’re both cool guys as far as i know, i just don’t want them to dislike me or something for being a tranny. i’d hate to end up ruining my relationship with these guys over this.
> the one staring at your ass might be catching on
oh god, do you really think so?
Christian Peterson
>i’d hate to end up ruining my relationship with these guys over this. Yah I get what you mean. Unfortunately we can't be certain of others emotions and reactions. Only our own. I hope for the best user. >oh god, do you really think so? Well I mean how sure are you they're staring at your ass? Could they just be staring out to space? Cause if they're for sure looking at your ass the only explanation I can think of is they notice some sort of change. Which could be realizing you're trans could be just thinking you've been hitting the gym and gaining weight. Or it could be they're staring cause they wanna look at ass lol.
Carson Bailey
it’s been a couple times now, but i mean, i’ve ended up doing that by accident a couple times too, so i don’t want to assume, y’know? it’s just that that and the femboy jokes make me worry considering they’re coming from the same person.
Thomas Reed
Yah no I get it. I'd be anxious too. But I'm diagnosed with anxiety so that doesn't mean much lol. I wouldn't worry too much if you don't think you're in danger. Just keep an eye out and see if you notice any signs one way or another. If you're brave and or eloquent perhaps you can try to ask some sort of probing questions. But I have no idea how that would work lol.
Blake Hughes
I mean you can start by telling him to stop making femboy jokes
Ian Hernandez
not true. i've been living with my two roommates for like two years now and even got ffs while i lived here (about a year ago, close to three years hrt now) and they haven't said anything or noticed at all
Andrew Brooks
wait really? that’s actually really reassuring.
Sebastian Perez
yep, they just treat me like a normal guy and have not commented about anything one single time. it's two college guys, for reference