I'm a straight guy and it seems to me as if gay guys have greater knowledge regarding their sexuality, or maybe straight guys just keep it from each other. Therefore I'm here to ask for advice. Is there anyway of actively preventing yourself from cumming?
I've been told that strengthening your PC muscles (i.e. doing kegel exercises) work, however doesn't that only block the ejaculation itself? Further more I experience that it stimulates my ass as well, causing me to have more pleasure i.e. promoting ejaculation. That is actually how I cause myself to cum faster.
Does anyone know how to prevent the impulse of coming itself?
Side note: I find it also quite interesting that some men struggle with ejaculating while others cum to fast during intoxication. There seems to be some correlation there.
>Side note: I find it also quite interesting that some men struggle with ejaculating while others cum to fast during intoxication. There seems to be some correlation there. I can't really cum at all if I take alcohol, or if I do it's really weak
If I take stimulants of any kind, I cum really easily and it's super intense. Though some people report the opposite for stimulants. It's weird
Christopher Harris
I've only had alcohol and when I get drunk, I have an easier time getting both horny and hard. Cumming is no difference though.
Justin Roberts
this isn't an uncommon problem for straight guys. Reddit probably has a subreddit on premature ejaculation (what it's actually called). They make condoms to help with it.
Jaxon Lee
But premature ejaculation is when ypu come within a few seconds or something, not that you can't control when you come. I think you've misunderstood.
Oliver Diaz
no it's both...
Dylan Foster
tttt solves this by disconnecting their dicks
Jeremiah Walker
You're telling me it's normal to be able to stop yourself from coming mentally?? I mean, I know about physically stop fucking but you're telling me I should be able to fuck on hours without end?
Brayden Garcia
People can cum when they are drunk?
t. twinkhon
Christian Walker
I have fucked a woman for over an hour and not cum in her because she wasn't on the pill. Not smart but I did it. I would often hold off on cumming until a girl came once or until we came together.
In rare instances where I went HAM on her I would not give a fuck and fill her box with cum when I felt like it and left her in a drooling pile. This is normal for people who have control over it.
Jose Wood
How do you do it?
Gabriel Reed
I found a post about unclenchng the Pc-muscles instead of doing kegels. Is this what you guys are doing?
Carson Williams
it's not really a huge issue for me. I'm not sensitive enough in that region that it triggers. I just go do my thing. If she's cumming hard and turning me on too much then I'll slow down or pull out and move her into another position. Not sure what your trigger is like but I can feel a buildup period (warning if you want) well before I orgasm.
There were some instances where she was hot to go but I was too tired to cum so I'd get her off and then stop and explain to her that she could get me off later.
David Wilson
Bf like this plz
Sebastian Wright
I mean I have a build-up period as well. Sometimes it builds slowly, sometimes quicker. Though what i'm wondering if you can control this build-up, empty it just with your mind or some technique without having to stop.
Evan Martinez
I turned tranner (: Dick still works for now, hoping to keep it that way.
Carson Peterson
yes I can, I can change my thoughts to less sexual, or slow down fucking her, or even stop fucking her and do something else (like make out or something) or new position and that generally is long enough to reset it. It doesn't come about that often it's odd but it seems to know when I want to go vs just whenever it wants to.
Eli Ross
It's not like you're right about to come and just tell yourself "no". It's about being mindful of how close you are and knowing how close you have to reach the point of no return. Once you can somewhat accurately tell that it's all just about pacing. When you feel yourself getting too close you start slowing down, once you get comfortable enough again you can pick up speed again. With enough experience you'll be able to find a speed and rhythm you can sustain for a long time. And if you get way too close and need a break just eat her out for a couple minutes I'm sure she won't be mad about that.
Charles Harris
NOOOOOOOOOOOOO I mean YAY but we lost a good top ;-; I suppose I’m the same way though
Hunter Hernandez
All that I know about. I can do that. Last time though, the chick was riding me and it caught me off-guard. I would like to be able to stop it though. Yet again, it is interesting how some have a hard time cuming while drunk. You would think that there is something they do unconsciously.
Luis Howard
What does that mean?
Josiah Myers
I'm no longer a bisexual guy, I'm a bisexual transgender but still trying to keep my dick in tact. Some transgenders lose the ability to get an erection or they don't care and they lose length due to lack of erections.
Nathaniel Moore
you don't get automatic erections as a tranner, and you have to work at a bit to get them and you don't get morning wood. These are all things your body does naturally to keep your penis from shrinking, but as a tranner it can shrink due to HRT and lack of use. Also once in a while you get unlucky and it shrinks a bit anyway depending on genetics.
Parker Stewart
you can gently tailor your E2 levels with enclomiphene. It will raise your total T, too.
somewhat aggressive doses of cialis will also make your dick so hard its genuinely difficult to cum
you can also use D2 agonists to drastically shorten your refractory period
