>mtf
>live in the South with bf, who is the only person that knows I'm trans
>people are openly homophobic/transphobic here (rural area) so it'd be bad if I didn't pass
>live with bf in house he owns at the edge of town
>people around town know us and are generally friendly
>some stuff with my old legal name outed me to my bf's brother
>initially he didn't react as if he knew I was trans, assume he took it as being one of my relatives
>a few days pass with him visiting without incident
>bf and I are sitting on the front porch last night making smores while chitchatting about our week
>his brother shows up, we can smell that he's been drinking
>kicks things off by calling me a fag
>asks my bf if he knew, seems aggressive
>bf tells me to go inside
>worried to leave him alone, he tells me they're just going to talk
>wait inside, here a lot of ruckus outside
>they're fighting, doesn't last very long
>bf has the upper hand since his brother's drunk, pushes him back into his truck and tells him to gtfo
>bf came out of it pretty beat up still despite winning
>his brother spread the news around town
>some people think it's just mean rumors, others believe it and start treating us like shit
I don't think I can stay here anymore. I don't know if I should leave so my bf can have his family and home still, or if I've completely ruined any chances he has with them. I just want to make up for all the trouble. I feel like I've wrecked his life.
Mtf
that's awful. I'm so sorry :(
Its incredible how some areas of the US are somewhat civilized and other are complete shitholes, please get out of there OP before you get hatecrimed :(
You both should try to leave. He’s never getting his man card back. He has no reason to stay, neither do you.
What state do you live in?
Did you legally change your name? Does it state you're female?
Based brother. He cares a lot and doesn't want his brother to be a fag.
It will never be the same again, kinda best to skip town
Fuck, that's terrible. I'm sorry.
Can you get out of there? Will he go with you?
Georgia, an hour away from Savannah. Name, birth certificate and gender markers were updated in my old state which was more accepting.
I feel so guilty for ruining this for him.
I'll talk to him about it when he gets home. He's at work right now. I've been nervous every time I heard a truck or car pulling past the house because I thought it might be his brother again.
Idk if he will come with me. I'm going to ask him about it.
That's what I figured.
it's Brunswick, I just know it
*rubs my girl dick on ops girl dick* uwu its ok
>I feel so guilty for ruining this for him.
You didn't ruin it, his shithead brother did. It's not your fault for existing.
Been a while since I been to Georgia so if I had to guess I'd say Vidalia which is probably wrong. Anyways, best of luck to you. This stuff terrifies me 24/7 but people here are truly so unacceptable. Sucks that the south wouldn't be as generally hospitable if we budged on certain values. I'm probably moving to App*lachia because of it
Meant to say rather unaccepting but I'm phoneposting
just move to atlanta
it's cool here
honestly, Atlanta is supposedly the "trans capital of the South" or whatever but it's still in GA which is the worst state in the Union
Do you think you'll move together? I hope y'all stay together! I'm in panhandle Florida and it's about the same. I thought about moving to Tampa Florida. Its more liberal, but Florida is more conservative than liberal. I'd rather live on the west coast, not California, maybe Oregon.
Do you have any plans?
Evans county.
I still feel like its my fault.
Its only been a day since I got outed and I already feel extremely unwelcome here. Southern hospitality is a crock.
We might, have to talk to the bf.
Have to talk about them first. Right now my plan is anywhere but here.
Fuck. You have a good man… both of you don’t deserve to deal with this shit. Sending you love
Leave lol the rural is garbage and not fit for lgbts
especially rural south
It can be rough here but c'est la vie. I'd rather live in the deep south than anywhere else. Grass is always greener.
Have fun with that hospitality while you're getting hate crimed.