Is it male-brained to carry a backpack everywhere? I've always hated using my pockets, even before HRT, because I just feel too awkward putting stuff there because it's such a tight space. Now that I'm slowly using more fem jeans than masc jeans, the pocket problem is just getting worse. So that made me consider buying a backpack to be able to carry my stuff around, even when I could just fit everything in my pockets.
Also, not gonna use purses because I hate them and they're weird, so I won't use them even if I start girlmoding.
it's pretty neutral. you can get girly backpacks like cath kidston or whatever, or one of those ones with the fox on it that are beloved by art students of every gender.
Kayden Campbell
>fox on it flaj raven
Jeremiah Rodriguez
disney loungeflies. altho these are very small but they do the job a lot. most of them are girly as heck
no user, it's not "male" brained, it's "based and efficient" brained. as the person above me said, many types of backpacks exist. you don't even have to get fancy about it,most backpacks are pretty neutral.
Joseph Collins
That backpack is fairly cringe if you're any older than 12, my dude.
Justin Moore
That bacpack is horrendously male brained. Wtf. I can already see your loafers, tight tie and short back and sides.
Real women cluster their phone, keys and purse into a claw/ crab grip.
Juan Richardson
>no user, it's not "male" brained, it's "based and efficient" brained
Literally the same thing. Wearing heels arent efficent, a wider surface area provides stability. A mini dress isnt practical, long hair can get caught in things, long nails can catch, eyelash implants can hurt your eyes.
Masculinity is all about practicality, femininity is all about beauty.
Brody Stewart
i dont mean that one literally, its an exterme example
Eli Peterson
I don't know why but some things trigger my "idk bro that's kind of gay bro that's the sort of thing a girl would do bro" reflex. Taking female hormones? Wearing women's clothes? Being someone's girlfriend? Cool, sick, no problem. Purses? idk m8 isn't that a bit fruity m8
Carter Parker
Not OP btw just afflicted with the same mental illness
Jaxson Rodriguez
bimbofication.jpg
Gavin Brown
Actually meant to reply to but this one works too lol
Ian Butler
It's fucking dumb brained to carry a backpack everywhere because it's stupid to think you need that much shit on you whenever you leave the house. Get a tote bag if you absolutely have to carry a few textbooks and a laptop for school, but otherwise just learn to live without a 48 hour survival kit on you at all times you're less than an hour away from your home.
Dominic Lewis
Lol i made both posts.
To be fair, pic related is my style, i like to look professional but distinctly fem. Imagine her carrying a lumpy backpack around. No, a nice, classy purse, or claw grip items, that's the only acceptable method, any other way is an affront to God
i think these are all true on a thematic level, but in actuality the vast majority of the women i work with bring a backpack to stuff their shit into at the end of the day. practicality is a part of everyday life for all but the most spoiled human beings, not everyone gets to be a flawless bimbo hovering above the ground all day
Luke Bennett
>heels >mini dress >long nails >eyelash implants You can have none of those and still look fem. As for the long hair, you just need to tie it when you're doing something that it hinders.
Joshua Ward
get a purse or a tote bag backpacks r fine too but they look kinda dorky on anyone desu
Justin Allen
I always wear a backpack with my passport and ID at all times plus a change of clothes, estrogen and water, cause you never know when shit might hit the fan.
Chase Perry
Not gonna lie, I kinda like the tomboyish dorky becky style.
Camden Miller
I would be careful. People are a lot more suspicious of you, especially if you bring it into a store. I once had an employee disturb me in the middle of changing in the dressing room because he thought I was setting up cameras to perv on people and I'm a pretty innocent looking boymoder.
Kayden Gonzalez
then go for it, women wear backpacks too n if u feel like ur backpack looks "malebrained" (which is kind of a dumb concept) just get a more feminine one
to me totes r just much more convenient because i can get stuff out of it as quickly as i would've out of my pockets, plus there's so many rlly cool totes
Jason Gray
>and still look fem But will you feel fabulous? I like positive attention user. I take my transition super serious, but i do have menta breakdowns when my hair won't sit right etc. It hold myself to high standards and when i dont meet them i want to self harm constantly.
>not everyone gets to be a flawless bimbo hovering above the ground all day
Very true. If something is easy, its usually not worth doing. Being beautiful is hardwork. Beauty is pain. Lip fillers hurt. FFS hurts. Waist trainers are uncomfortable. Not eating is hard. Cardio everyday without exception isnt easy. Skincare is a long term process, sunscreen from the moment you wake up.
These are the basics, there are more advanced techniques. My goal is to fit in with pic related and i wont stop until i do.
