Mtf here. I'm married and make more money than my husband. This is something he dislikes and he's pressed me to shift to doing tradwife type stuff.
I suggested that he do the stay at home husband thing if one of us needs to be housebound, and we can use my earnings for our house/adoption plans.
He's talking about going and enlisting now to make better money than he does now. I told him I don't care how much money he makes, and that he'll probably make less in the military.
He explained a bunch of stuff that supposedly has him earning more if he enlists that all sounds kind of made up.
I'm thinking of telling him I'll do the stay at home wife thing if he doesn't enlist because I don't want him to go get blown up fighting Russia if the US gets involved.
I'm kinda emotional right now and I'm not sure how much is HRT and how much is legitimate.
Are there other things I should pitch to persuade him out of enlisting before offering to tradwife as he wants?
Mtf here. I'm married and make more money than my husband...
He sounds really petty and insecure
Wow. That's really not ok of him. He needs to listen to you because marriage will break down without communication. I don't know what to say because his intentions seem good, but what he's doing just ain't it. Don't give in to it if you don't want to, that's no good.
I've read a lot of your past posts and at first he seemed pretty great but more recently he's come off as controlling and demeaning, and that's not ok. Have you had a real sit-down, serious conversation about how he's making you feel? Avoiding that confrontation does not bode well for marriage.
You just hate men because you are repressing your attraction to them.
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>mtf
>husband wants to enlist in the military
girl, this is the biggest, reddest flag I've ever seen you ok?
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As others have said he sounds really insecure about you making more money then him. I mean really as a couple is just makes sense that if you're going to depend on any income, it's the highest one you already have.
Ask him why he's so adamant on you being a tradwife and why he can't be happy with something more nontraditional? In my mind at least, the best relationship is one where being with the other person comes first, and you do what is best to facilitate that. You keeping your job seems to be the best thing, so why isn't he content doing what's best for both of you? So he can have some traditional male fantasy? Even if it makes you unhappy? Or creates financial struggles or insecurity?
he’s literally trying to guilt trip you into becoming a housewife with this military shit what a cunt
>I'm kinda emotional right now and I'm not sure how much is HRT and how much is legitimate.
what kind of faggotry is this, your emotions are always legitimate, HRT just makes them harder to suppress
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he is insecure about his woman making more money than him. End of story. He is trying to guilt trip you with the military guy said. Do not give in please, he does not understand it but his massive insecurity is showing through so hard. What a fucking loser. Don't throw your life down the drain just to please some shitty man who makes no fucking money, fuck him.
How poor are the both of you that he needs to enlist at like age 30?
user most people are poor, that's how the economy works
You shouldn't be adopting if you want to enlist and can't take care of a spouse and child.
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just tell him you're willing to housewife and see what happens from there
I want people to mention it outside my threads a few times
Divorce the insecure manlet
I'm trying to calm down a little. He asked if I was coming to bed and I told him I'd be a bit. I think he heard in my voice that I'd been crying because he went out and got me a milkshake before he went to bed.
I'm going to talk to him in the morning about all of this and how its not OK. I'm just too fucked up right now.
We're not poor. I make very good money with my job. He works too, and insists on being the one to cover our bills and outings. My money goes to housekeeping and takeout, but mostly just to savings for emergencies. We would be living a lot less comfortably on just his income though.
We can afford it together, and probably off my income, but not likely on his alone unless he starts making a lot more.
Idk, I never felt this much this hard before HRT. I was kind of dead inside and mostly unfeeling. So I feel like a lot of it is just HRT induced or amplified or whatever.
I mean I don't want to housewife but I'd rather that than him getting shot or blown up if he gets sent off to a warzone.
I don't want it to come to that.