isnt dysphoria just a cute/dumb way of saying you feel body dismorphic?
how is that different from a manlet wanting to be taller or a fatty wanting to be slim?
isnt dysphoria just a cute/dumb way of saying you feel body dismorphic?
how is that different from a manlet wanting to be taller or a fatty wanting to be slim?
i don't "want" to have the body i'm dysphoric for, i just am meant to. i only want it because not having it feels bad.
>how is that different from a manlet wanting to be taller or a fatty wanting to be slim?
both of these are empirically correct ways to feel, though
i wonder what this means for the third thing
actually you are meant to grow a big hairy male body according to your genitalia and hormones
it's empirically correct as well. The brain is one gender and the body is another.
No, educate yourself before making inconclusive judgments about someone's life
It's like walking into an autism society and just tell people to talk like normal people, it's insensitive and that's now how it works
it just seems like a made up thing you tell therapists to let them allow you to chug hormones and cultivate man tits
"Ohh I am so Dysphoric please let me take these hormoes to become a cute girl...Yes now that estrogen is in my body I fell so happy and my life has meaning"
> i slipped and fell, but i meant to stay standing
> actually, you meant to fall, because you slipped
>how is that different from a manlet wanting to be taller or a fatty wanting to be slim?
it's not different
>it just seems like a made up thing
That's because you don't understand it? You've obviously never read anything about it if that's what you think it is
yet we dont see the fatty and the manlet killing themselves over it
are trannys just mentally weaker?
oh here we go again..
>you need brain scan to be tranner
>you're faking it
>it's a fetish
>too many tranners
most femboys and tranners have a shit ton in common, it just so happens some femmboys are a lot more comfy being a boy.
trannys are mentally either mostly or entirely a woman you dumb nigger. Stop posting here.
weight is directly alterable by anyone. so why kill yourself when you can change it?
height isn't, but it's simply not as significant as gender. feeling dissatisfied with your height is very understandable, but feeling like you're stuck with an entire physical form which is the opposite of the form you wish you were, affecting all aspects of your appearance and how you're treated, is you basically hating every single aspect about yourself
height dysphoria is legitimate and height-dysphorics genuinely deserve significant empathy. it's absolutely horrible to be a short guy. some short guys probably do kill themselves over it. but the discrimination you face for being a short guy isn't like the discrimination trans people experience. short guys are judged and ignored, while trans people are despised and viewed with disgust and contempt
dyphoria covers much more than body image. you could classify any type of dissatisfaction in your life caused by the difference between your gender identity and your biological sex as gender dysphoria
no, it runs much deeper and has a neurological basis that is effectively an intersex condition
>you need brain scan to be tranner
yes and a bunch of other shit
>you're faking it
you literally cant prove you aren't
>it's a fetish
for a lot of people it definitely is
>too many tranners
yup,such a complex "genetic condition" should not be as common as being fucking color blind
>Yes now that estrogen is in my body I fell so happy and my life has meaning
literally yes
I was so consumed by an irrational and overbearing dissatisfaction with my physiology as to no longer be able to live the rest of my life effectively, and changing up the balance of sex hormones in my body has significantly alleviated that
>you literally cant prove you aren't
you can't disprove a negative faggot
no one cares. You have a sick obsession with this board and we will continue to live our lives regardless of what bullshit you think. I'm glad it pisses you off.
how about trying to fit into a role that your proper gender wasn't designed for either? I fucking hated being a man.
>even though i have fallen over, i know in my mind and heart that i was always standing
I think I got off lucky by being autistic or aloof enough to not place any stock in gender roles in the first place, and to be somehow comfortable with still keeping my effectively assumed masculine persona and presentation
it doesnt, it fascinates me
you lads could be beloved sons,fathers with a chad body and great carrer yet you throw all that away to troon out
casting your family,fertility and future prospects away for such an uncertain "diagnosis" is beyond my understanding
like at what point does the treatment(transitioning) become worse than the illness(dysphoria)?
> i would prefer to be standing and experience extreme distress at having fallen so i’m making an effort to stand up
i did this btw. perfect little christian boy and got super fucking fit in college. was still super miserable all the time to the point of constant suicidal ideation.
doing way better now tho
>beloved son or father
no it really couldn't. Faggots like you try to force us to repress and we end up hating ourselves and failing at our ability to be male. If you actually listened instead of pushed your autistic hate you'd see there is a problem. I had friend issues as a male, I had relationship issues, I had issues fitting in because I was acting like a goddamn girl in a guy body. Now that my mannerisms are congruent with my appearances and I have the proper hormones in me life is much better.
Those who are not designed for the hormones they are given (like botched dick boys who are given hormones and made to live as girls) usually transition back to being boys because something feels off. We all know which hormones are best for us when we don't have the right ones.
sounds like you did get off lucky. You can't escape gender roles and be in social situations. look like a male? They will expect you to act male. Don't act like a male? You're in for a rough time unless you're femmboy which I wasn't.
well I don't think it was completely due to other people and I wasn't ridiculed for it directly as far as I know, but unfortunately I think I internalized that lesson very deeply and very young based on my observations of such roles, and punished or preempted anything I deemed to be non-conforming enough for a guy as that might draw attention
>wake up on the ground
>face hurts
>ass hurts
>"huh, I must have been standing up and passed out"
yes
some people are able to conform easily and I wonder if that leads to some being lost for many years as well, although it's safer for you during those times.
I was expected to behave like a man and I couldn't. I was expected to have manly bantz and deal with social situations but I dealt with them as a woman would.
Women expected to be the only ones that had emotion or a feminine side and having any of that would cause major issues or cause them to lose interest. Also dealing with their drama was extra hard because the female inside of me was screaming at the same time. I have no idea how I dealt with it.
What made you decide to give up being a dude?
similar experience. The guilt was crushing too.
>meant to
lmao