>virgin in early 20's, just started HRT, boymode irl >spend literally 7 hours a day on grindr >have girly pics with attractive angles >get hard when i have dozens of dudes dm'ing me the largest cocks ive seen in my life >some trans woman mommy sent me her massive tits and cock, blushed irl >flirt with them and then block them when they ask me to meet >pants filled with precum at end of the day
im literally in fucking heat and i want to meet up with them so badly. but im kinda scared they'll give me some STD and or ill be weird bc i literally dont know what sex is like or they'll kill me or something. wtf do i do
fuck i wish sex with easier, idk how normies do it
thought of sex is absolutely petrifying, i cant believe there isnt some legal way to get some sex worker to come over and teach me how it's done
Adam Evans
use a condom, idk. it's sensible to take some precautions but nothing is risk-free, duh
t. dumbass who caught HSV from sucking dick
Logan Sanders
pls help, bump :(
Hunter Reyes
i have a similar issue t. lateshit troon who used to have sex but hasnt even once since transitioning because im scared of rejection and hate crimes
Carson Jackson
sometimes you just have to push through petrification and that's life and i know, it's hard, i've been there in my own ways, but when all of me knew deep down it was what i had to do, i managed, even as i shook in my boots and my heart pounded
Jonathan Butler
Honestly agreed
Angel Roberts
did it get easier after?
Landon Cox
pushing through petrification? no the specific thing i was petrified about? a little bit
Landon Thompson
this is true, the trick to get past anxiety hangups in general is to just do it anyway
Sebastian Smith
>blocking the person who you were interested in fucking retard mentality, wear a condom and tell a friend where you're going next time
Josiah Hughes
>idk how normies do it Funny you'd say that, you have it a lot easier than normies. You have no idea the amount of effort the average straightoid has to go through to get a crumb of pussy on tinder. Find a nice guy, go to his appartment, text his profile pic, phone number, and address to a trusted friend, and tell him you did so, so if he murders you it'll be really easy to find him. Then don't worry, you won't have to do anything, tops know how to take care of a bottom.
Liam Hall
none of my irl friends know about my sexuality and i dont want to tell them
i mean im bi, i also understand how shit the straight experience is on tinder, but at least woman are safe? or at least, i feel safe around them
Gabriel Wright
Both men and women are safe. It's not hard to search crime rate by gender in your area and calculate that number as a percentage of the local population. It's really an extreme minority of people who would ever harm another person physically, just follow the advice ITT and you'll be getting your sex bits tickled as much as you like.
Adam Ortiz
ask them to teach you
Thomas Stewart
>Both men and women are safe men on grindr are a crapshoot between someone who doesn't know how consent works and someone who wants to kill gays. if you are a man on grindr, you are not safe.
Ryan Lewis
>not hooking up with other trannies why
Levi Roberts
there arent many that arent bottoms
Anthony Martinez
No matter what anyone here says, realize that homosexual men are way more promiscuous with more partners per capita than heterosexual couples, which means that risk of STDs will be higher. On top of that you will often be the passive partner, which means your assholes the one getting torn up for those STDs to go into, so be firm with your partner and don't let them sweet talk you.
And more than all I said above, you are far more likely to be seen as a piece of meat by other men, someone to try their fetish out on. That may mean they'll be less inclined to be responsible in having safe sex. Be prepared for the possibility of being pumped and dumped, assume that out of any partner you come across unless they prove otherwise. Often, bois like you represent your partner's desire to address a psychological hangup in their own self, like wanting to pamper you in a way they were not at your age, stuff like that. Be prepared to deal with feelings of inadequacy if you become attached with a guy and they don't want to publicly acknowledge you. If you get into some sort of arrangement with a master/mistress, make sure you have an out so you're not at anyone's mercy, and be prepared for your friends and family to learn the truth about you if they don't know already. If you can, let a friend know if you get into an arrangement with anyone, so they can help you if something goes wrong. On top of everything, keep your life outside of sex on track (careers, hobbies, etc), stay away from drug abuse, and get professional help immediately if you feel you're about to slip into self-harm.
Sounds like overkill for a bit of fun I know, but sex is a primal thing, and abusing it too much can fuck you up bad (especially as a virgin). Don't go into it deluded, be realistic.
do you tell them you want to bottom? i feel like a lot of us lean bottom and put that out there but enjoy topping other trans people. thats just my experience being out and dating other trans people for 8 years.
Samuel Smith
bottoming for gay dudes on grindr is so risky. are you on prep, do you know how to communicate what youre ok with, are you ok with contracting an sti because you touched his dick then touched your hole? thoughts on spending your life recreating the aids crisis, but with modern medicine?
Easton Young
this shit is terrifying aaaaaa
havent asked, just look at their profile and see bottom and give up. could ask next time
Ryan Jackson
This thread has me wondering if sex as a tranny is even worth it? My libido is nuked anyways so I might as well continue being asexual lol
Jeremiah Hughes
get to know someone a bit. be like “ i know your profile says bottom but im one too and dont like topping” or whatever. i dont even know what my profile says, probably botton. but for other trans women im down to top if we have that sort of energy
Christian Young
>this shit is terrifying aaaaaa find someone who isnt invested in hook up culture and learn about safe sex and how to communicate
Nolan Ward
where do i find people like this?? dating app girls arent willing to do that, and dating app boys are usually pump n dump
