Straight tranners, what is it like when a bf troons out

Straight tranners, what is it like when a bf troons out

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Hurts.
Like worse than anything.
If my current bf ever goes trans I'm gonna join the statistics.

The part that can make it worse is if it's literally just a fetish for them.
My ex is now in porn, when before she used to wear kilts and pound me after we went hiking.

Does your bf identifying as a woman hurt more than your bf identifying as cis gay male?

Is orientation a matter now simply of what you self identify as?

What does sexual orientation even mean anymore in the context of self-chosen gender identities?

I just want to know what would bother a tranny more.

Do they really believe a flamer gay guy and the very same flamer gay guy who says he is a woman and takes hormones are just totally different people and are attracted to others for totally different reasons?

Is the difference that dramatic between your ex-bf and your ex-bf living as a woman?

Not that user but I would assume so, I would far prefer a cis gay male bf than a trooned out bf. I'd feel so terrible if anyone I dated trooned out because I probably would have accidentally caused it. I don't see the problem with having a cis gay male bf as long as he doesn't cheat or have sex with anyone and tops. I had a bf once who started to get into this crossdressing cosplay stuff DESU was way too AGP for me and didn't work out because of that and some other stuff.

It doesn't hurt you to know a gay guy is dating you because he finds you attractive as a man?

AGP is a discredited theory.

No not really? As long as he doesn't mind me fully trooning minus SRS. I don't really care much about SRS but want to get FFS and live as a woman socially. And no AGP is not a discredited theory, some people to get turned on from viewing themselves as a woman, that is what fetishistic crossdressing comes from, which you are just ignorant if you think doesn't exist.
No I wouldn't date a flamer gay guy, I wouldn't mind dating a cis guy who says hes gay but isn't a flamer.

>your bf calls himself cis gay
>you feel hurt because it means he doesn't really see you as a woman and you probably don't pass
>if you're not mentally unstable then you can either stay with him and just ignore it or cleanly disconnect emotionally and find someone else (you'll find out he's gay pretty early on)
vs
>your bf troons out
>you lose a treasured relationship and lover and realize that the person you loved never even really existed
>even if you're not mentally unstable your only choices are stay trapped in a doomed relationship with someone you barely know anymore or leave them to the wolves and pray to god the next one doesn't do the same
>after multiple bfs do the same (as many mtfs have experienced) your emotional self-worth crumbles
no contest

Every point you wrote about the bottom scenario applies to the top scenario and vice versa.

Can he play with your dick during sex?

So he can love you as a man even though you want to be a woman. but YOU cant love him as a man even if he wants to be a woman?

This is not just hypocrisy?

1. As long as he never wants me to top him in any manner I guess?
2. I don't want to love someone as a man who wants to be a woman, if someone whos dating me does then I don't really mind that much, but its not a predicament I want to put myself in. I'm not expecting others to do that to me, but if they do I don't care much.

Why can't you top him? You want him to top you. Seems like hypocrisy and neurosis about penetration. Maybe you have internalized homophobia and think penetrating men is wrong.

A relationship is not meant to be between two equivelant people. Part of the beauty of romance is how two peoples differences interact and compliment each other. I don't care if I have internalised anything to be honest.
In a normal straight relationship do you expect the female to be wanting to top the male if she wants the male to top her?
Are you gay by the way? What is your political position out of curiosity?

I'm a bi trainer, and I think trans girls are cute, so this might not be so bad for me. The problem is, thout, that I would know that my partner didn't start dating me because of me, but rather because they wanted to live vicariously through me. Like the ideal is that your partner is attracted to you because they "like you as a person", but I'm not stupid, and I know if a guy is interested it's probably because he's into tranners, or tall girls, or something else physical about me. But even that is still an appreciation of me. If someone dates me because they're a repressor, then it's like literal meta attraction. I'm not sure I could trust someone after that.

In a thread about chasers, someone floated the idea that what precludes a lot of (typically older) men's fascination with transwomen is their unlived life as one when they were still young, apparently this trend of "chaser being an egg" is more prevalent than i thought previously

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book?

Shit I don’t want my bf to troon out on me

your bf calling himself gay or not doesn't change who he is at all dumbass

you're trying way too hard here. what he loves me as is his business, not mine. he's free to leave if he doesn't like me anymore

>actual straight cis men don't date troons
Wow, what a shocker

Nothing. Words don't mean anything.

>what is it like

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