>tranner with nice bf >I work a low paying job >he mostly takes care of our bills because he makes better money >feel guilty for depending on him to take care of me >feel guilty that I can't afford to do nice things for him >start doing some solo porn online, just masturbating on cam for donations basically >not super rich but make enough to have it be worth the time spent >start helping him more financially, fib and say I got a raise >he seems uncomfortable accepting the gifts and my help paying bills >found out I was doing porn for the money >got mad and told me not to do it anymore >say I felt bad depending on his money >says I'm supposed to depend on him?
I'm not saying I never messed up, but I feel like he shouldn't be mad at me since I was doing it to help him?
He doesn't want to talk about it because he said he needs time to cool off. He's at work right now too and I'm just sort of stuck thinking about it while waiting for him to be ready.
I don't understand why he's so mad either, desu. I'm mildly autistic maybe, but doing solo porn doesn't feel like its hurting anyone? I didn't cheat or anything.
Jaxon Ortiz
You are a moron op, and I'm surprised he's still with you. Men don't give a shit about the money a woman makes.
Julian Moore
Just stop doing it and say sorry to him
Jeremiah Cox
>I don't understand why he's so mad either, desu. I'm mildly autistic maybe, but doing solo porn doesn't feel like its hurting anyone? I didn't cheat or anything. You are definitely autistic. In a monogamous relationship you’re not expected to provide sexual gratification for anyone other than your partner, regardless if it’s just images and just for money. It’s pretty normal for guys to be uncomfortable with a girlfriend opening an OnlyFans.
I have no idea why you didn’t think to discuss this with your boyfriend beforehand. I also have no idea why your mind went from “need money” to “do porn” instead of a myriad other possible minimum wage jobs that could lighten his load
Connor Walker
you're a whore, you deserve the hate
Ayden Wood
Lol, of course he would hate it. What kind of man would enjoy seeing randoms fapping to his gf? Only a cuck I guess You have an option to be trad, do more house work to make him happy instead of your porn
Justin Ward
>got the life most straight tranner of this board want >do porn for no reason you're truly a joke
Landon Kelly
I didn't want him to think I was a mooch. My normal job doesn't make enough to help out and I felt guilty. I have and did. He's still mad. I already have a min wage job. I didn't mean to hurt him. I did it because I thought the money would make him happy
Angel Gray
>I did it because I thought the money would make him happy you're retarded
Brandon Edwards
that is brazy my girl. I got a normal job in a field I love instead of shooting porn, and I've lived off my bf's 160k salary for yrs
Kayden Adams
Doing porn feels good
Daniel Sanchez
If he doesn't want you to do porn that's his right and you should listen out. But he has no right stopping you from doing porn. If you like the financial independence and like doing it, don't let him stop you. Or at least don't feel like you have to stop. Which do you like more? Him being perfectly 100% happy with everything or the financial independence? Ask yourself honeslty what you want. If you have no attatchment to the porn just stop, if you like doing it, tell him you wanna keep doing and talk to him about him. Don't let someone else dictate your life for you.
>start doing some solo porn online, just masturbating on cam for donations basically I don't get how people can show nude body lol. I hate just showing my face lol
Showing body to people who want to see it is easier than showing face to strangers in the street imo
Oliver Taylor
camming fundamentally changes the terms of your relationship and probably flys in the face of the assumptions he was operating under up to this point. you basically traded your dependency which is something he viewed as a non issue for breaking his trust which is a pretty big issue. if porn is something you want to pursue, you need to do so with the understanding of how it will impact your relationships and you need to be open with him.
Angel Parker
No u
Adam Bennett
they are whores user
Camden Flores
>tfw not making porn with my bp bf
Adrian Ward
can't you just go cry about being dumped again?
Joseph Carter
Ya, honestly I'd be more upset my partner lied to me about the source of the income . Also the fact that you lied indicates that you knew he would be upset about knowing you were camming so you have no leg to stand on if you say something like "why are you upset, I was doing it to help?!" I you truly felt that way, you'd have been ok telling him off the bat.
Levi Gray
i hate op, she's truly a retarded bitch
John Turner
Nope. Every day and in every way I'm getting mentally healthier :3
