Okay Any Forums I’m in a tough spot and need some guidance
>I’m a 20 year old bi cis dude
>Met a trans girl through one of my autistic hobby groups that meet up in my state
>I’m politically apathetic, yet supportive of trans people
>Have trans friends before, but they’re all transbian or conventionally masc trans dudes
>This new girl and I really click and enjoy talking
>Start to have a deeper friendship where we confide in each other
>Lives 20 minutes away
>We hang in person and all
>She said I’m “even more handsome in person” when she first saw me
>After getting over her shyness she started to act bubbly and flirty
>I didn’t think anything of it
>Last night while smoking pot and walking in the park she confessed that she had feelings for me
>I was just stunned and staring off into space
>She wrapped her arms around me and gave me a kiss
>She apologized for doing it
>I said it was okay and nothing to worry about
>just let her rest her head on my shoulder until the high wore off
>Drove her home
I would love to reciprocate. I’d love to make her my gf. Doesn’t pass perfectly but she’s damn cute. I like to admire her when she’s not looking and I can’t help myself. I just don’t buy her bisexuality. I think how she fits into the typology and her life history. She’s probably a transbian experiencing meta attraction. I wish it could’ve added up a different way. Now I just want to diffuse this and keep the friendship because she means a lot to me. How do I handle this?
How to avoid heartbreak
nigga you are mentally ill
you got me, congrats
Can I get just one sincere reply? I’d like a few different perspectives before meeting up with her this weekend.
You should have FUCKING KISSED HER BACK
pepe hands
U r cis male stop acting like u know what meta attraction is. This whole thing will work itself out if u just talk to her. Weirdo. If she acts like she likes u she prob likes u - u r in ur head
bro its ok to experience heartbreak, it hurts like hell but love is hard to find and you gotta try it when you can get it. Nothings worse than leaving a potential relationship on the table and letting it torture you for the rest of your life, esp if the feelings are reciprocated.
If you wanna be a weenie say "I really like you but I don't think we are compatible romantically, lets stay friends, ok?"
Take a risk. Relationships are a risk anyway.
imagine simply liking a person and clicking with them without obsessing over all these micro-identities that didn't exist before the 2000s
internet addiction at its finest
i was expecting something wholesome/cute, but you just had to dump your brainwormssssssssss :(