>Hear the term "Failed Male" on this board and see that transwomen like being called it
>Called my tranner gf failed male during sex 1 hour ago and she starts crying, has an emotional breakdown and wants to stop having sex for the night
Thank a lot fucking assholes, everything I learn on this board turns out to be incorrect.
This board is full of virgins specially the bishits who pretend to be dominant chads
Youre supposed to ask before dumbass. I would hate it too
"Failed male" is how chaser's view transwomen, not (typically) how transwomen view themselves you fucking retard.
>taking advice from Any Forums seriously
you deserve it for being dumb
>transwomen like being called it
not every person is the same lmao, why would you just guess...
Not op but I only came to this board because I matched with a cute tranner and I wanted to make sure I knew what things not to say so I wouldn't fuck things up by trying to compliment her and saying something abhorrent
At this point I've soaked up enough and can sound respectable through written media but if it comes to talking freely I'm 100% sure I'll slip up and one of the brainworms will come out and ruin everything
What can I do to avoid this?
Literally just say exactly the same stuff you would say to a cis woman
just communicate with them? why are you guys acting like you can't just talk to them
You're literally sticking your dick inside of them im sure you can have a convo with them too
get a load of this retard thinking everyone is into the exact same shit
Shit, I guess you're right
Yeah I know but its kind of a dominant thing to say so asking during the fucking would be awkward. But oh well now I know she doesnt like it
>You're surprisingly hot for a cisoid
>Would you have an abortion if I knocked you up?
>Did you ever wonder what it was like to be a dude?
Just normal stuff right?
Tranner gfs like to be slapped in the face when they are crying.
>asking during the fucking
you ask beforehand dude
like "hey i read on the internet that some trans girls like being called a failed boy, are you into that or would you rather not?"
its literally that easy
some (cis) women like being called a filthy whore in bed and some don't. if you just throw that out there out of nowhere you're taking a huge gamble. it's the same thing
I feel like that's also a great way to potentially upset someone
I don't know the right way to do it, but I feel like that isn't it
This. I had the same concerns and worries so I started watching sissy/tranny porn and lurking here for the same reasons to get in their head space and navigate the niches, dos and donts better. Its def different and you have to look out for different minor mistakes. I said "dude" and "boy" once to one, meant it completely as a generalized gender neutral term like "dude, you dont get it" and "oh boy, that was bad!" But they stopped talking to me for some time. Largely just treat them like exactly like women, refer to their body parts as women parts, and compliment their feminine features.
it's probably not perfect, sure, but it's leagues better than Just Doing It Anyway
Its the same level of risks and degree of having to tread lightly that is required when dealing with any other women, but yes I agree it is different landmines. Personally I like dominating submissive trannies, calling them little sissy bitches while fucking them and make them call me daddy. If it specifics bothered them, id stop and try something new, but if they just didnt like being treated as my sub, then we just wouldnt be compatible partners, plain and simply not into the same things. You gotta just do what you like, and they ultimately dont like it, then its probably not gonna work.
If its a turn on to you to do it, then just do it. If she cant get into it, its her problem and maybe you two arent meant for each other.
what if its a turn-on to bash my partner in the skull with a heavy glass ashtray
Then your probably fucked in the head, but should try it anyways as anyone who dates you that doesnt see those redflags before having sex with you, deserves an ashtray to the face.
lol dumbass this is why you talk to partners to see if they want to be humiliated dont jump it on them in the middle of fucking