saw this in whiplash and thought it has to be mega awkward
Do strangers really ask out other strangers out to eat like in movies?
yeah it's balls fr fr no cap
happy birthday Goshen sorry I wasn't able to make it
Wasn't it just a date?
yeah it's awkward
but sometimes it works
I tried it once with a girl I noticed when I was in college. I was really awkward and she seemed realy nice.
Went up and just asked her and her reply was a simple "no".
That taught me a lot about socialising.
damn discord really fucked you zoomers up huh
Only Chads can get away with it, though.
massive spoiler alert OP, movies aren't real life.
DROPPED
I don't even know where to begin to get a date
It was a different time.
Not complete strangers.
I've literally never heard of a woman accepting a date invitation form someone she had at least some introductory conversation with.
just "hey lets go grab food" to an absolute stranger will rightfully get you a rejection, no matter how hot or confident you are.
At the very least there's 30 seconds of small talk so she knows you're not a retarded schizo
>do non-spergs who actually go out and live life instead of learning about it through movies really do this normal and expected thing?
90% of threads on Any Forums. Yes, normal people regularly do normal human things. Yes, you are retarded for wondering if it's abnormal or uncomfortable, and even more retarded for asking. No, you will not ever learn anything by asking goblins about human interaction on Any Forums.
Anything else?
why
this. only me and this poster is correct. you all are wrong.
Recently moved back to my home town after 15 years to work a shitty convenience store job after my life fell apart and a girl I used to make laugh in school came into the store and recognized me. We got talking and it turns out she'd just been through a break up too, so I said "we should go on a date!" and she laughed and said that would be hilarious then left with her groceries. Not sure if we're dating or not now...
yeah i met my wife in a bar and i'm a total introvert
we just started talking and it happened
it really does just happen like that
Yes if you're reasonably attractive and if you have confidence/charm. My cousin is at best a 6/10 and stocky but 6'2 was walking his dog on the beach and ran into his now wife whose a smoking hot redhead. She asked him to take a picture of her and her friends which he obliged and struck up a conversation with her. They exchanged phone numbers, went on a date, and 4 years later they got married.
Not anymore.
Plus, even if you do have the balls to ask out a girl you don't know, I guarantee she's talking to 10 different guys on tinder
Dating is over, just fuck hookers for the rest of your life or wait until robot waifus become real
mindbroken
>tfw every time you talk to a girl you don't know they're subconsciously thinking that you'll murder them if they reject you
>this leaves me in a stalemate because women never make the first move, but me making the first move puts them in an uncomfortable position
So what am I supposed to do?
how did that conversation start?