>Begin dating this new girl, we've gone out for a few months now >girlfriend considers herself very artsy and sophisticated >suggest that we watch Blow Up because she has never seen it >she comes over to my place to watch it >mention that I've always been turned on by the threesome scene >get to threesome scene and girlfriend tells me to stop the movie about halfway through it >tells me that there is nothing sexy about this scene and that this is a depiction of rape >I tell her it's not and she's wrong >girlfriend goes ballistic, tells me the fact that I don't view the scene as rape exemplifies the fact that we live in a 'rape culture' >Goes on a tirade about the patriarchy and Roe vs Wade before eventually storming out of my apartment
This literally happened 15 minutes ago. I've never viewed the threesome scene as non-consensual. Am I misinterpreting it or is she just crazy?
Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Do what you need to with her, then broom her fast.
John Hernandez
Yeah, I'm thinking I probably dodged one too. I was really just hoping to talk about Blow Up desu.
Jaxson Green
Sharing sexual scenes without a trigger warning is also a form of rape. Mind rape. Good luck in jail, hate crimes a federal offense
Lincoln Anderson
Bullet dodged
Jonathan Stewart
Good for you op. Should've gone with La Notte or L'aventura
William Foster
American women sound like a nightmare
James Evans
Nice soundtrack on this flick.
Brayden Gutierrez
Should've just gone full bore with Last Tango in Paris.
Brandon Rivera
She probably got railed by two dudes at once and regrets it
William Morales
You should make her watch Noe and go, "no, THIS is rape" and then walk away.
Anthony Perry
Are women more chill in other countries? Genuinely asking.
It’s actually a ffm threesome in the movie. The first time I saw it was in an auditorium for a film theory class in college and I remember getting rock hard during the scene.
Aaron Martin
Normally I would agree people like this are exhausting and say you dodged a bullet, but I went and rewatched the scene and honestly I can see where she's coming from. When it's just the girl and the guy alone in the room, she's clearly uncomfortable and shying away from him, and not in a flirty way. When the second girl comes back in it turns pretty playful, and in the aftermath there doesn't seem to be any sense of lingering discomfort in her or any harm done. So if you let the scene play all the way through perhaps her reaction might have been different, but even then I get why she might have some residual confusion about the initiation of it
Liam Mitchell
never watched the film. context on the threesome scene? why does she think it's rape?
Yeah, I mean that’s a fair point. The initiation is definitely aggressive but it pretty quickly turns playful and by the end all involved parties seem fine with it. I don’t think going back and getting her to watch the full thing would change her opinion though. I think she would argue that it was coerced because of the way it was initiated.
Easton Jenkins
Of course not. Europoors and foreigners cope with electing female leaders and worshipping blacks by saying >u-uh they are chill in our country!!
Nolan Rodriguez
Doesn't really matter anyway because the protagonist in this movie isn't really supposed to be a good guy. I don't understand why people can't just watch a movie without having to morally agree with everything happening onscreen, especially if it's for a narrative purpose.
Henry Hughes
Because most movies are made from a moralistic perspective. There always has to be a good guy and a bad guy, with good prevailing over evil in the end. This is exacerbated by the fact that superhero movies are all Hollywood has been making for the last 5+ years. Most people don’t know how to interpret a movie that doesn’t adhere to the same structure as Spider-Man.
Josiah Wilson
Well, the scene itself is a little rapey at first, but the protagonist is the definitive rapey art fag which is part of what makes him going on a spiritual journey so interesting. I wouldn't go so far as to call it rape, though.
Connor Lewis
‘What if Terry Richardson accidentally photographed a murder’ the movie
If that bitch actually considers "Roe v Wade" as anything other than a 48 year long stretch of bullshit, then you are well rid of her. All I can say is - hoes mad.
