Why are moids like this?

Would she give a chance to a fat guy tho?

Yeah it'd be pretty easy because I'm in good shape.
She's pretty fat so we could start just walking, but eventually I'm sure she would want to join me in the gym.
I don't mind her being fat later especially if she bears my children. I just don't think she should spend her prime years with me fat

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She identifies the sole problem as being fat, so it should be a relatively easily fix - lose weight.

Bros... my girlfriend rarely if ever spontaneously shows me physical affection. Never just spontaneously gives me a hug, runs her hand through my hair, give me a kiss, gives me a compliment etc. I do these things to her and she enjoys them but I am always the one to initiate. I have talked about this with her but it barely improves. It makes me feel unloved and like the relationship is one sided. What should I do?

I like chubby girls but not morbidly obese barely functional people. The perfect amount of fat is when its firm to the touch, if its all flabby/saggy you've gone too far.

I've had the same problem.
Tell her that physical touch is your love language and that hurts you that it's so lackluster. Make it clear you're not talking about sex and say that you love her but you may need to find someone more compatible if she can't do this for you.
Love language is femoid speak so she'll likely understand.
For me it's acts of service and my last gf made me feel like a slave because I always did stuff for her and got nothing in return.
Also note that reluctance to engage physically may be a sign she was molested

What you're experiencing is actually normal. A lot of marriages back then were screwed over perceived lack of affection and increased nagging.
>What should I do?
Idk, you've already gone farther than I have. You only said physical affection. Does she provide solid emotional support? Do you feel like she genuinely likes you, or does it feel like a facade? It's not my place to decide, but you can judge the relationship yourself by trying to take an outside lense.

Thanks for the reply, i think we feel the same way. Did this solve it for you? Are you still together? I honestly don't even know if I want to be with this girl anymore, I think I might as well break up with her but that feels scary

I wish. Fat women are usually angry and full of rage

I think she does like the version of me that I present to her, but I feel like the version I present to her is less like the real me every day. I have many things I think about (books I've read,movies I have seen) that I just don't feel like sharing with her cause she's quite superficial and not that intelligent and my past experiences of sharing such things were only met with disinterest rather than engaging conversation.

Thanks for asking these questions because it leads me to explicate things that I have subconsciously been storing up but never thought about in this way.

kill her

Its over

Damn if only there was a way to not be fat...

>Did this solve it for you? Are you still together?
I didn't do it, that's one of the reasons Im telling you. We had terrible communication and she was really distant with love in general. She had a really unhealthy family relationship and got molested when she was younger. Her sister was also incredibly controlling and eventually manipulated her into breaking up with me.
Save yourself some heartbreak and have a serious talk with her when you can. If she agrees to accommodate you, stay with her. If not just gently say you're not compatible and should break up.
I don't mean to project my own experiences but if it's something like what I'm describing look for signs of serious trauma in her behavior too and see if you can get that out of her.

LOL, I'm the one who hates physical affection with my girlfriends. It wasn't due to molestation but because I associate touch with getting the shit kicked out of me by my dad. He beat my mom too, the sick fuck. So I can't touch other people without feeling awkward or weird. How do I overcome this? Pretty much a problem every girl I've been with has mentioned is that I'm emotionally distant.

Honestly think it is. There's a voice in my head that copes saying that we still have good times together, but honestly I could have good times with any girls with a pretty face, tits and a pussy. I know our dynamic is fundamentally unsustainable and I don't want to wake up to this fact in 5 years and regretting all the wasted time I spent with her.

If you haven't before try therapy. I know it's kind of a meme but I've heard of a lot of success in trauma situations. It's really worth a try imo.
I hope things work out

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