My Gf acts extremely rude, hostile and disappointed when ever I don't get a job offer from an interview
To give some context, I'm a recent comp sci grad, interviews are plentiful so I'm really shopping around until I find somewhere I fit into. I don't think she cares about what I want at all.
She always asks if I got an offer from each interview and if the answer isn't yes it seems like she tries to emasculate me and acts like I'm not good enough for her.
I have a strange feeling if I complain about it or tell her to stop she'll just do it even more
My exes never would have harassed me about my career and Its starting to feel like the the health of our relationship is contingent my career which feels toxic.
I have not observed this behaviour before, is it common elsewhere?
What do, Any Forums?
Are women like this in your country?
>im gonna use Any Forums to complain about my relationship
dont do this
wrong board go directly to /adv/
Destroy her
Stop talking to her about it. Just focus on getting a job. She is subconsiously grooming you by treating you like shit and making you expect an award for getting a job.
>My exes never would have harassed me about my career and Its starting to feel like the the health of our relationship is contingent my career which feels toxic.
probably your gut is correct. imagine how many tech bro salary tik toks she has watched
don’t ask for serious relationship advice on /int. It’s one way ticket to shitfest.
foids detected
compulsive masturbator detected
The answer is always to fuck her into submission. You will feel better, she’ll feel better. All around it will be a positive change.
I lost my job during covid and my gf became very distant, we stopped having sex and she started acting bitchy all the time
2 months later I got a job offer from a good place and she fucked me right then and there
I don't know what the moral of the story is but it happens everywhere I guess
Confront her directly whenever she brings it up, ask her to explain what her motives are for acting as she does, and if they are not reasonable disparage her behaviour for it
what job did u get that made her so horny?
Senior web dev at a bank, but we broke up shortly after
/adv/ is run by femcels and gamma males "advising" people in ways that make them feel better about themselves
dump her. she'll run her mouth even if you gave her a tune up.
>recent comp grad student
>didn't have several job offers lined up before graduation
Your gf is right, you are a complete failure.
is she Chinese by any chance?
would be my gut feeling too but wouldn't wanna make OP unhappy
Which is still better than asking relationship advice from people who've never been in one
It's a form of domestic abuse when your partner is trying to control your income.
That's some red flags right there bro. It feels toxic because it is.
Even if you do find a job, after that it would be how well you're doing inside the job. Didn't get a promotion? Why? Are you lazy? Are you dumn? Are you unproductive?
>Australia
Jesus fuck... you're dating a fucking Asian aren't you?
is she american? been there and sounds american
it's very hard for entry level comp sci grads to get jobs, maybe in your shithole with small companies you can, but not in civilized countries